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Hope you all got a fabulous day, right
Happy Tuesday my friends

As we all knew that on 14 December 2025, a terrorist-style mass shooting took place at a Hanukkah celebration near Bondi Beach in Sydney’s eastern suburbs during the first night of the Jewish festival. Around 1,000 people had gathered for the “Chanukah by the Sea” event when two gunmen, believed to be a father and son, opened fire from a footbridge beside Archer Park

Many media reported that by the end of the incident, 16 people were confirmed dead, including a 10-year-old girl, an 87-year-old Holocaust survivor, and community leaders at the event; dozens more were wounded, including children and police officers. One of the shooters was killed by police, and the other was wounded and taken to hospital in critical condition. A bystander was widely praised for tackling and disarming one of the attackers, likely saving many lives.

The attack began in the early evening and lasted about 10 minutes, with witnesses describing chaotic scenes as hundreds of people fled in panic. Authorities and international media quickly characterised the shooting as a targeted antisemitic terrorist attack.

Today article is not talking about the moslem guy as a genuine hero which got internationally attention by his bravery and widely praised for tackling and disarming one of the attackers. I am interested in discussing why people associated as a targeted antisemitic terrorist attack. 

The word “antisemitic” became widely known and internationally recognized during the Palestine–Israel confrontation

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The prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and disturbing history that spans centuries. It is rooted in stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities.Antisemitism persists to this day and can manifest in various forms, including hate speech,

vandalism, exclusionary policies, and even acts of terrorism targeted specifically at Jews.Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in inter group contempt towards Jewish individuals.

Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.Jenkins and colleagues conducted a study to examine negative attitudes toward Arab-Americans.

Their research found that participants were less willing to interact socially with Arab-Americans compared to other ethnic groups, indicating a bias and discrimination towards this specific group. This supports the idea that discrimination and prejudice exist across various ethnicity and can impact different groups differently.

Antisemitism, the prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and disturbing history that spans centuries. It is rooted in stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities.Antisemitism persists to this day and can manifest in various forms, including hate speech, vandalism, exclusionary policies, and even acts of terrorism targeted specifically at Jews.

Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in intergroup contempt towards Jewish individuals. Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.Jenkins and colleagues conducted a study to examine negative attitudes toward Arab-Americans.


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Their research found that participants were less willing to interact socially with Arab-Americans compared to other ethnic groups, indicating a bias and discrimination towards this specific group. This supports the idea that discrimination and prejudice exist across various ethnicities and can impact different groups differently.

Antisemitism is not only a form of hate speech but also a deeply ingrained prejudice and discrimination against Jewish people. It is characterized by negative stereotypes, scapegoating, and systemic oppression that have persisted throughout history.These biases and discriminatory behaviors not only marginalize and harm Jewish individuals but also contribute to the perpetuation of harmful stereotypes and the exclusion of Jewish communities from society.


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In order to address this issue, it is important to educate individuals about the harms of antisemitism, promote inter group understanding and empathy, and actively work towards dismantling the structural and cultural factors that contribute to antisemitism. Antisemitism, a form of prejudice and discrimination against Jewish individuals, has a long-standing history marked by stereotypes, scapegoating, and systemicAntisemitism: A Historical and Present-day Issue Antisemitism: A Historical and Present-day IssueAntisemitism:


A Historical and Present-day Issue
Antisemitism, the prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and troubling history that spans centuries. It is rooted in negative stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities (Brustein & King, 2004).

Historically, antisemitism has manifested - in various forms, including pogroms, expulsions, and the Holocaust, which saw the systematic murder of six million Jews during World War II. Today, antisemitism persists in different guises, from hate speech and vandalism to exclusionary policies and even acts of terrorism.

Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in inter group contempt towards Jewish individuals (The Surprising Way to Tackle Prejudice in the Real World, 2023). Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.

The impacts of antisemitism are far-reaching, as it not only harms Jewish individuals and communities but also undermines the values of diversity, inclusion, and human rights. To address this issue, it is crucial to educate individuals about the harms of antisemitism, promote inter group understanding and empathy, and actively work towards dismantling the structural and cultural factors that contribute to this form of prejudice and discrimination


What Happens Now
This is a complex and sensitive issue, and it’s important to separate criticism of a government’s policies from prejudice against an entire people or religion. Here’s a careful breakdown:

1. Protesting actions vs. attacking a people: Protests against the Israeli government’s actions in Gaza are usually aimed at specific policies or military actions, not at Jewish people as a whole. Criticizing a state’s military operations is not automatically antisemitic

2.   Allegations of antisemitism: Governments or officials sometimes label criticism as antisemitic to delegitimize protests or shift the narrative. While antisemitism is real and serious, it is important not to conflate legitimate political protest with hate speech against Jewish people. 

3. Global perspective: Around the world, people have the right to peacefully protest human rights violations. Accusing all protesters of antisemitism risks silencing important conversations about human rights and accountability. 

4.Nuanced approach: Each protest or statement needs to be examined individually. Are protesters targeting a state’s policies, or are they spreading hatred against Jews as a group? This distinction is crucial.

In short, while antisemitism is unacceptable, labeling all criticism of Israel as antisemitic oversimplifies a complex situation and risks undermining genuine human rights advocacy.

why this labeling happens politically and strategically?
And how it affects international responses.

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | When Freedom Meets Tradition: The Bonnie Blue Bali Case - Powered by Blogger

Hello there
How is it going?

Do you know about Bali my friends?

Well Indonesia, especially Bali, is often imagined by Western visitors as a land of total freedom. Beaches, parties, nightlife, and social media content create an image that Bali is a place where almost anything is allowed. However, the recent case involving adult content creator Bonnie Blue shows a very different reality

This story is not merely about a foreign tourist being deported. It is a clear reminder that Indonesia has its own moral standards, cultural values, and legal boundaries. For Western travelers, influencers, and digital content creators, this case delivers an important message: freedom in your own country does not automatically apply when you are a guest in another nation.

Adult film actress Tia Billinger, better known as Bonnie Blue, has been deported by immigration authorities after being found to have abused her visa. Bonnie was discovered to have used a visa on arrival, which is normally intended for tourism purposes, to create commercial content.

Please do not misunderstand the situation. British adult film star Bonnie Blue, who appeared in court in Bali after being detained earlier this week, was not producing pornographic content while on the Island of the Gods. The case attracted public attention mainly because of her professional background in the adult film industry.

The Indonesian police investigation found no evidence that Bonnie Blue produced or was involved in the production of adult content during her stay in Indonesia. As a result, the primary charges that were initially brought against her were declared unproven.

The court therefore imposed only a minor penalty related to a traffic violation, which was the only offense supported by law. This resulted in a fine and her subsequent deportation.

Bonnie Blue is the online persona of a British adult content creator who became internationally known through controversial and provocative online activities. In many Western countries, adult content creation is legal and often socially accepted. Social media platforms allow creators to gain popularity, influence, and income with few restrictions. Because of this environment, some creators believe their lifestyle and work can continue anywhere in the world.

DEPORTED: An Adult content creator Bonnie Blue is being deported from Bali, Indonesia, a court finding her guilty of a traffic offence. 
Image from Pikiran Rakyat Youtube Channel

Check one of the news videos here

Source : Pikiran Rakyat Youtube Channel

Indonesia, however, operates under a very different social and legal framework. Morality, public decency, and respect for cultural harmony play a central role in daily life. What may be considered entertainment or personal expression in the West can be viewed as inappropriate or offensive in Indonesia.

In early December 2025, local residents in Bali reported suspicious activity at a rented villa. The concerns were related to possible filming that could violate Indonesian law. Acting on these reports, police and immigration officers conducted an inspection. Bonnie Blue and several foreign men were questioned, and authorities found filming equipment and other materials that raised serious concerns.

Several Indonesian local and national media outlets covered this case, and their reporting focused more on law, culture, and immigration, not sensationalism.

Indonesian media such as Detik, Liputan6, and Tempo reported that Bali police did not find proven pornographic content, but the case continued due to immigration violations and public concern. Local residents were cited as reporting the activity because it was seen as potentially harming Bali’s cultural image. Police emphasized that Indonesia takes public morality and visa misuse seriously, 

Later, investigators clarified that no evidence of distributed pornographic content was found. This detail led many international observers to question why the case resulted in deportation. The answer lies not only in criminal law, but also in immigration rules and cultural responsibility.

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Indonesia strictly prohibits the misuse of tourist visas. A tourist visa is intended solely for leisure activities, not for work or monetized content creation. Filming content for profit, including social media or entertainment projects, is considered work under Indonesian immigration law. Authorities concluded that Bonnie Blue had violated these regulations by creating professional content while holding a tourist visa.

Beyond visa issues, the case touched a deeper concern: public morality. Indonesia has strong laws governing decency and pornography, reflecting the values of a society where religion, family, and community play a major role. Even in Bali, which is often seen as more open and liberal, moral boundaries still exist and are taken seriously.

For Indonesian authorities, allowing activities that appear to challenge these values could harm social harmony and the country’s image. Bali is not only a tourist destination; it is home to millions of people who live by tradition, religious rituals, and communal respect. Protecting that balance is a responsibility the government does not take lightly.


A Lesson About Morality, Law, and Cultural Respect in Indonesia
As a result, Bonnie Blue was deported and reportedly banned from re entering Indonesia for several years. While some international audiences viewed this action as excessive, from Indonesia’s perspective it was a firm but necessary response

To fully understand this situation, Western readers must look beyond their own cultural lens. Indonesia is a country where personal freedom is closely linked to social responsibility. Actions are not judged only by personal intent, but by their impact on the wider community. What one person sees as self expression may be seen by others as disrespect.

This case also highlights a recurring cultural misunderstanding. Many Western visitors believe that Bali operates under different rules from the rest of Indonesia, or that tourists are exempt from local laws. In reality, Bali is an inseparable part of Indonesia, and national laws apply equally to locals and foreigners.


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The digital age has made this misunderstanding more common. Cameras, smartphones, and social media platforms allow people to create content anywhere at any time. However, online visibility does not remove legal responsibility. Content created in one country is still subject to that country’s laws, regardless of where it is published or consumed.

For influencers, digital nomads, and long term tourists, this case should serve as a serious warning. Traveling abroad requires more than a passport and a camera. It requires cultural awareness, legal understanding, and humility. Learning basic laws, respecting local values, and adjusting behavior are not limitations; they are signs of respect.

Don’t forget to go shopping anytime you’re in Bali. It’s me in the photo, buying some lovely and unique Bali souvenirs to take home

I miss Bali so much. I have five years of experience as a volunteer worker in the Indonesia–Australia Partnership projects from 2001 to 2005. During that time, I visited Bali ten times, and every meeting was always held at Indonesia Austealia Language Foundation (I/A/L/F) Sesetan Denpasar, Bali

It was a long time ago, but it has never slipped from my mind. I have so many friends there. This photo was taken at IALF Denpasar, Bali, during a lunch moment with Australian teachers and members of the board and trustees of KangGuru Indonesia.

 Bali should not be treated as a playground without rules.
Behind its global image are families, temples, ceremonies, and traditions that have existed for generations. When visitors ignore these realities, tensions arise, and the consequences can be severe.

Indonesia’s decision to deport rather than imprison reflects a balanced approach. Deportation sends a strong message while avoiding prolonged legal conflict. It shows that the country is open to visitors, but firm in defending its values.

Indonesia is not against Western culture, tourism, or freedom of expression. It simply expects visitors to adapt rather than impose their own norms. Being a guest means observing, learning, and respecting the host’s way of life.


The Bonnie Blue Bali case is more than viral news.
It is a lesson in global citizenship. In an increasingly connected world, cultural intelligence is just as important as creativity or influence. Respecting local culture does not reduce freedom; it gives it meaning.

Indonesia remains a beautiful and welcoming country. But respect is the foundation of that welcome. For anyone planning to visit, work, or create content here, the message is clear: understand where you stand, honor local values, and remember that true freedom begins with respect.

If you are planning to visit Indonesia, especially Bali, take time to learn more than just the tourist attractions. Learn the laws, understand the culture, and respect the values of the people who live here. Traveling responsibly is not only safer, but also more meaningful. For content creators and influencers, remember that your audience does not protect you from local law.

Create wisely, travel respectfully, and always place cultural understanding above online popularity. If you found this article meaningful, please share it with friends, fellow travelers, or anyone planning to visit Indonesia. Let this story be a reminder that respect is the key to truly enjoying another country

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, Teknik Blogging - Asep Haryono | TIPS : How to keep your FACEBOOK account secure - Powered by Blogger

Last Update :  December, 10th,2025 :07.57 PM

Almost everyone in this world, young or old, has their own mobile phone or cellphone, am I right? Teenagers today, often referred to as Generation Z, are deeply involved with social media platforms. They act almost like citizen journalists, able to record, upload, and share anything at any time they want. Social media has become a normal part of daily life now. But is that completely harmless?

What about the safety issues we face while using these platforms? My name is Asep Haryono from Indonesia, and I worked in social media for almost thirteen years. Today, I want to share what I know about safety issues on one of the most widely used social media platforms in the world: Facebook.

When people talk about social media, one question always pops up: “Is Facebook still the most popular platform for communication, or has it been overtaken by newer apps like Instagram, X (formerly Twitter), LinkedIn, and others?” The answer is a bit more layered than just yes or no. Facebook remains massive in size and influence, but its role in how people communicate has shifted over time depending on age, region, and purpose.

First, let’s talk numbers. Facebook is still a giant. With over 3 billion monthly active users worldwide, it holds the title as the largest non-messaging social media platform. That’s more than Instagram, X, LinkedIn, or even TikTok can currently claim. In other words, if you’re measuring “popularity” by sheer audience size, Facebook is still on top. People all over the world log in daily to connect with friends, join groups, share photos, and comment on posts. It’s also still a top choice for businesses, marketers, and community leaders because it reaches almost every demographic, from young adults to grandparents.

This is the front page of my personal Facebook account, which I have been using for the past ten years. I use Facebook both for business and for building friendships with people around the world.

But size isn’t the whole story. Communication styles are changing, and this is where Facebook’s dominance starts to show cracks. For example, younger generations teens and early 20s are drifting toward apps like Instagram, TikTok, and Snapchat, where visuals and short-form videos rule. For them, Facebook sometimes feels old-fashioned, even if they still keep an account. On the flip side, older users remain highly active on Facebook, using it not just to chat but also to manage community events, join interest-based groups, and keep up with family

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Another point to consider is the type of communication. Facebook is versatile: it offers Messenger for private chats, Groups for community interaction, Pages for businesses, and News Feed for updates and discussions. It’s almost like a one-stop shop for staying in touch. Compare that with LinkedIn, which is focused on professional networking, or X, which thrives on real-time news and trending conversations. Each platform has carved out its own niche. If you want to talk business, you open LinkedIn. If you want to share a quick thought or follow live commentary, you go to X. If you want to post photos, stories, or reels, Instagram might feel more natural.

Still, Facebook has one big advantage: familiarity. It’s been around since 2004, and most people are comfortable with how it works. That comfort often makes it the “default” tool for communication, especially in regions like Southeast Asia, Africa, and parts of Latin America where Facebook is not just social media it’s practically the internet itself.

In terms of user base and overall reach, yes, it remains a heavyweight champion. But in terms of cultural influence, youth appeal, and specialized communication, the crown is increasingly shared with other platforms. In today’s social media landscape, people no longer rely on just one app. Instead, they mix and match, using Facebook for family and community, Instagram for creativity, X for news, and LinkedIn for career connections.

How to keep your FACEBOOK account secure
Just the other day, one of my good friends came to me with a worried look on his face. He told me that he kept receiving emails from Facebook saying someone had requested to reset his password. The weird part? He never asked for it. Not even once.

At first, he thought it was just a glitch or maybe spam. But when it happened again and again, he realized something fishy was going on. He suspected that someone was trying to log into his Facebook account using his email address or phone number. When they couldn’t guess the password, they clicked on “Forgot Password” and tried to reset it. Thankfully, my friend still had access to his email, so the hacker didn’t succeed.

That experience really made me think. What if that happened to me or you? What if someone else is out there, trying to gain access to your Facebook account without you even knowing? Unfortunately, this kind of thing happens more often than we realize, and many people don’t know what to do when it does.

So, here’s what I told my friend and what I’d tell you too if you’re facing a similar issue:

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Step 1: Change Your Password Right Away
Even if no one got in, don’t take any chances. Head over to your Facebook settings and change your password immediately. Make sure it’s a strong one: use a mix of uppercase and lowercase letters, numbers, and special characters. Don’t use common passwords like "123456" or your birthday.

Step 2: Enable Two-Factor Authentication (2FA)
This is a must! Once you activate 2FA, Facebook will require a special code sent to your phone (or generated by an app) whenever someone tries to log in. It’s an extra layer of protection that makes it 10x harder for hackers to succeed.

Step 3: Review Login Activity
Facebook has a helpful tool that shows you where your account is currently logged in. You can find it under Settings > Security and Login. If you see any device or location that doesn’t look familiar, log it out right away and secure your account.

Step 4: Check Your Recovery Info
Make sure the email and phone number linked to your Facebook account are up to date and secure. If there’s anything there that you don’t recognize, delete it immediately

Step 5: Report the Issue to Facebook
Don’t just ignore it report it! Go to facebook.com/hacked and follow the steps. Facebook can help you secure your account and prevent future attacks.


My Opinions
My friend was lucky. He caught the warning signs early and secured his account in time. But not everyone is that lucky. If you’re getting random password reset emails from Facebook, take it seriously. It could be someone trying to hack into your account.

Stay safe online, use strong passwords, turn on 2FA, and always keep an eye on your login activity. Social media is funbut only when it’s secure!

Have you ever experienced suspicious activity on your Facebook account?

Share your story in the comments below!
And don’t forget to share this post with your friends because staying safe online is everyone’s business

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Fast Food Is Not Just a Lifestyle - Powered by Blogger

A few months ago, I stopped by Transmart Kubu Raya to redeem my Point Reward vouchers from Astra Motor Pontianak at Wendy’s and Coffee Bean.

Each point could be exchanged for one menu item at those outlets. At Wendy’s, I received a package consisting of two pieces of chicken, one portion of white rice, and a cup of cola. At Coffee Bean, I got a slice of chocolate cake (I don’t remember the exact name) and one cup of ice-blended drink—also no idea what it was called. Hahaha. I rarely eat “fancy” food like this. I’m not familiar with fast-food names, so I don’t really remember them.

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 Foto Asep Haryono / www.simplyasep.com

 Foto Asep Haryono / www.simplyasep.com

Not Just to Fill Your Stomach

This part is subjective. People go to fast-food outlets for different reasons. One thing is clear: fast-food lovers should not be judged as “junk food eaters” just because these places are often labeled as junk food.Culinary preferences come in many forms, and everyone is different. When it comes to taste especially personal taste here’s no need for debate.

Food is still food. It doesn’t matter whether it’s considered elite, like caviar served on a first-class flight. (Sorry, that’s an extreme example!) For those who don’t know, caviar is a very expensive type of fish egg. It’s one of the priciest foods in the world.But does eating caviar automatically make someone a member of the elite class? And does loving simple traditional snacks like kerupuk or bakwan make someone “lower class”? Of course not.

Even though caviar and bakwan are very different, food is still food. Many office workers love traditional snacks bakwan, kerupuk, and others even though they work in professional settings. So what really counts as “elite” food? Is it just the price? Does eating expensive food really raise someone’s social status?

Fast food, for example, doesn’t increase or decrease the prestige of the people who enjoy it. Food is simply part of human needs whether it’s to survive, to feel full, or just to enjoy eating with style. Everything is fine, and everything is valid.

Fast Food Is Not Just a Lifestyle
People often say that eating fast food is a “lifestyle.” They talk like it is simply a choice you make every day. You choose to eat burgers, fried chicken, or instant noodles because you like it, and that becomes your lifestyle. But for me, fast food is not just a lifestyle. It is much more complicated than that. There are many reasons why people eat fast food, and most of them have nothing to do with style, trends, or personal taste. They are connected to real life, real problems, and real situations.

First, fast food is about convenience. Many people today are very busy. Some work more than one job, have long commutes, or take care of children and family. After a long day, not everyone has the energy to cook. Cut vegetables? Season the meat? Wash dishes? That takes time and effort that some people just don’t have. Fast food is quick. You order, you wait a few minutes, you eat. That’s it. For many people, it becomes a solution, not a lifestyle choice.

Second, fast food is often cheaper. In many countries, including Indonesia, cooking at home is not always the cheapest option. Ingredients can be expensive. Not everyone has access to fresh vegetables or a nearby traditional market. Some people live in kosts or small apartments with limited kitchen space. Buying fast food for Rp20.000–Rp30.000 sometimes feels more practical than buying groceries, especially for people who live alone. In this situation, fast food becomes an economic decision, not a fashion statement.

Third, fast food companies know exactly how to attract us. They spend billions on advertising. They use bright colors, catchy songs, cute mascots, and special promos. Their goal is simple: make you crave their food. When you see a juicy burger on your phone or a hot crispy fried chicken on TV, your brain reacts. You start feeling hungry even if you were not hungry before. This is not about lifestyle; this is marketing. And they are very good at it.

Fourth, fast food is everywhere. In big cities, you can find it on nearly every corner. Even in smaller towns, delivery services like GoFood and GrabFood make fast food super easy to get. When something is always there, always open, and always available, people will naturally choose it. It becomes part of daily life not because people want to be “fast food people,” but because the system makes it convenient.

Of course, fast food also affects health. Many people talk about it as if eating fast food means you automatically have an unhealthy lifestyle. But I don’t fully agree. Health is not only about what you eat. It’s about sleep, stress, exercise, mental well-being, and many other habits. A person who eats fast food sometimes but exercises, drinks enough water, and gets enough rest can still be healthier than someone who cooks every day but never moves their body or sleeps only four hours a night.

So for me, fast food is not just a lifestyle. It’s a mix of many things: time pressure, economic situations, marketing influence, convenience, and modern city life. It is something that many people use to survive their busy days, not something they choose to show their identity.

In the end, the most important thing is balance. Fast food is okay sometimes. Cooking at home is good too. We don’t need to judge ourselves or others based on what we eat. Life is already stressful enough. If fast food helps you get through the day, that’s fine. Just make sure you also take care of your body in other ways. Because at the end of the day, your lifestyle is more than just what’s on your plate.

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Nature disaster in Sumatera, Indonesia - Powered by Blogger

Hello guys,  How is it going?
Happy weekend

Indonesia, my beloved country, mourns once more

Indonesia has once again been struck by a major natural disaster, and this time the impact has been especially heartbreaking. In late November 2025, several parts of Sumatra one of Indonesia’s largest islands were hit by severe floods and landslides. These disasters were triggered by days of heavy monsoon rains, made even stronger by a tropical cyclone named Senyar.

For many people around the world, Indonesia is known as a \beautiful country with rich culture, warm people, and stunning landscapes. But the same nature that makes Indonesia beautiful can also bring enormous challenges. This disaster is a clear reminder of how vulnerable many communities in Indonesia are to extreme weather..

EFFORT: Rescue efforts using a rubber boat were captured on video from a drone. (reuters/kp). Source : kaltimpost.jawapos.com

What Happened in Sumatra?

In the last week of November, extremely heavy rain fell across several provinces in Sumatra. The rainfall was far higher than usual. This sudden and powerful downpour caused: Flash floods , Landslides , Rivers overflowing ,Entire villages being submerged, Roads being cut off , Power and communication lines collapsing

According to official reports, at least 174 people have died, and about 79 are still missing. Many families have lost their homes, their land, and in some cases, their loved ones.

The most affected regions are: North Sumatra , West Sumatra and Aceh

These are large provinces with both cities and rural areas, but in all of these places, the destruction is widespread

Sumatera, Indonesia on MAPS

A Closer Look at the Damage
In total, more than 3,200 buildings have been flooded or destroyed. These include houses, schools, small shops, and places of worship. For many families, it is not just their home that is gone it is also their source of income.

Around 3,000 families have had to evacuate to temporary shelters, which are often crowded and uncomfortable. Many do not have enough clean water, food, or blankets. Some are staying in school buildings or government halls, while others are sheltering with relatives.

On top of that, many roads have turned into rivers. Rescue teams are finding it difficult to reach remote areas because: Bridges have collapsed , Main roads are blocked , Power has been cut for days and Communication networks are unstable

Entire neighborhoods have been seen underwater in drone footage. Some houses were completely swept away by the current. Many areas look like lakes instead of towns.


Why Did This Disaster Happen?

Indonesia sits in a tropical and disaster-prone region. Every year, the country experiences monsoon rains, earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, and tsunamis. But several factors made this event much worse:

1. Tropical Cyclone Senyar A rare weather event in the region, Cyclone Senyar intensified the rainfall and winds, causing sudden flash floods.

 

2. Unstable Soil In many parts of Sumatra, the soil becomes very loose during the rainy season. When the ground is saturated with water, it gives way and causes landslides.

 

3. Deforestation Illegal logging and land clearing have weakened the natural protection of forests. Trees play a big role in preventing soil erosion and absorbing rainwater. Without them, water flows quickly and violently downhill.

 

4. Climate Change In recent years, weather patterns across Southeast Asia have become more extreme. Warmer oceans and unstable atmospheric conditions have contributed to stronger storms and heavier rainfall.

 

Human Stories Behind the Disaster?
Behind the numbers are real people living through the most painful days of their lives. Many survivors say the floodwaters rose extremely fast—sometimes within minutes. People had no time to save their belongings. Some climbed trees, rooftops, or even electricity poles to escape the rushing water.

Parents carried their children on their shoulders. Elderly residents had to be lifted on makeshift rafts. A number of families were separated during the evacuation. Rescue workers reported seeing houses being pulled away by the flood. Volunteers, police, military, and local communities have been working day and night to save those trapped.


How the Government Is Responding
Indonesia’s President, Prabowo Subianto, has coordinated national relief efforts. Military aircraft have been delivering essential supplies to emergency shelters, including: Instant food , Clean water ,Tents , Medicines , Blankets and Portable toilets

Hold on.  What I meant by “portable toilets” . In disaster areas like Sumatra, many public facilities such as bathrooms and toilets are damaged, flooded, or completely inaccessible. Thousands of people are staying in temporary shelters, and without proper sanitation, the risk of disease becomes very high.

This is why the government and humanitarian teams send portable toilets to the affected locations. These mobile units are easy to set up, clean, and move. They help keep the environment hygienic and protect survivors especially children and elderly people from infections like diarrhea, skin diseases, and other health problems that often spread after floods. Hope this simple explanation can make you guys understand even better

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Search teams are still looking for people who may be missing, although the damaged roads and continued bad weather make the process difficult. The Indonesian Meteorology Agency has also warned that heavy rain may continue in the coming days, meaning that more floods and landslides are possible.


How Local Communities Are Helping Each Other
Indonesia is known for gotong royong, a cultural tradition of mutual cooperation. In times of disaster, this value becomes even more visible. People across the country have started donation campaigns. Volunteers in cities like Jakarta, Bandung, Surabaya, and Medan are collecting rice, Clothes, Milk for babies, Mats,  pillows and Hygiene kits

Many villagers who were not directly affected are helping the survivors by cooking meals, providing shelter, or helping with evacuation efforts. In disasters like these, Indonesians often say, “We are all family.” 

Why Indonesia Faces Such Frequent Disasters For readers around the globe, it is important to understand that Indonesia experiences natural disasters more often than many countries. Here are evergreen insights that will always be relevant: 

1. Indonesia is an archipelago of 17,000 islands This makes logistics difficult during disasters. Roads, bridges, and communication systems are easily cut off. 

2. The country lies on the Pacific “Ring of Fire” This region is known for earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, and active tectonic movement. 

3. The climate brings heavy rain every year Monsoon seasons are predictable, but climate change is \making the rainfall much more intense. 

4. Environmental issues worsen disasters Deforestation, unmanaged development, and land misuse reduce natural protection. 5. Disasters often hit rural, low-income communities 

These areas have limited access to strong buildings, early-warning systems, and emergency services. Understanding these long-term factors helps global readers realize why Indonesia needs consistent international support, not just attention during crisis moments.

How You Can Help
For readers abroad who wish to support Indonesians affected by this disaster, here are some ways: 

• Donate to trusted international humanitarian organizations

 

• Share verified information to raise awareness

 

• Support environmental efforts that protect forests and land

 

• Keep Indonesia in your thoughts and prayers

 

• Advocate for global climate action Even small actions can make a meaningful difference.

 

The people of Sumatra are going through one of the most difficult times in recent years. Homes can be rebuilt and roads can be repaired, but the emotional wounds losing loved ones, memories, and livelihoods take much longer to heal.

Yet, Indonesians are known for their strength, unity, and resilience. As the waters slowly recede and recovery begins, the spirit of gotong royong, compassion, and courage continues to shine. With the support of global friends like you, Indonesia will rise again stronger, wiser, and more prepared for the future. 

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Tag : Keseharian, Wisata Kuliner - Asep Haryono | Bubur Pedas Sambas , The Timeless Taste of Togetherness - Powered by Blogger

Hello everyone. For the past few weeks, I’ve enjoyed posting foodie content and dish reviews, especially for Indonesian audiences to learn more about our local cuisine. However, fellow bloggers from around the world are also very welcome to explore our national treasures, local dishes, and the stories behind them.

Today, I’d like to introduce you to one of our flavorful culinary heritages from Sambas, West Kalimantan, Indonesia a dish that brings warmth, unity, and memories in every spoon: Bubur Pedas, or spicy porridge.

Let’s discover it together

A Dish Born from Tradition
Where is Sambas? Sambas is a historic regency located in the northern part of West Kalimantan, Indonesia, near the border with Sarawak, Malaysia. Known for its Malay cultural roots, lush tropical landscapes, and rich river systems, Sambas is one of the oldest cultural regions in Borneo.

The area is famous for its traditional foods, royal heritage, and warm community traditions. Although not as widely known as major Indonesian cities, Sambas offers a unique blend of history, nature, and authentic local cuisine making it a hidden gem for anyone who wants to explore the true heart of Kalimantan.

In the heart of Sambas, West Kalimantan, lies a humble yet extraordinary dish known as Bubur Pedas a porridge that speaks the language of tradition, unity, and comfort. Although “pedas” means spicy in Indonesian, this dish is not necessarily fiery hot. Instead, it gets its name from the rich blend of herbs and spices that create a warm, comforting, and unforgettable aroma.

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Bubur Pedas is believed to have originated from the Malay community in Sambas, where it has been passed down through generations. It’s a dish that reflects the spirit of gotong royong working together because it’s often prepared in large batches during community events, Ramadan, or festive gatherings. Everyone contributes: some chop vegetables, others roast rice or prepare spices. It’s not just cooking it’s togetherness in action.


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The Signature Flavor of Sambas
Bubur Pedas (often spelled Bubbor Padas in local dialect) is a very special and beloved traditional dish from Sambas, West Kalimantan. Despite the name “pedas” meaning spicy, it’s not always overwhelmingly hot the “spicy” part usually refers to the rich blend of herbs and spices used, not just chili.

It’s a savory rice porridge made with ground rice cooked together with finely chopped vegetables such as fern tips (paku), long beans, bamboo shoots, sweet potato leaves, and various local greens. The mixture is enriched with ground roasted rice, which gives it a distinct nutty flavor and thicker texture compared to ordinary porridge.

The aroma comes from a mix of local herbs and spices lemongrass, galangal, turmeric, ginger, and garlic all cooked together in coconut milk or water. Traditionally, it’s served with fried anchovies (ikan teri), roasted peanuts, and fried shallots on top.

Bubur Pedas isn’t just food; it’s a symbol of togetherness, often cooked in large batches during Ramadan, community gatherings, or traditional celebrations in Sambas and nearby regions like Sarawak, Malaysia, where the recipe has also become popular.

A Symphony of Ingredients and Flavor
What makes Bubur Pedas truly special is its unique preparation. The base starts with roasted rice that is ground until fine, giving the porridge a thicker, nuttier texture. This is then cooked with fresh vegetables fern tips, long beans, bamboo shoots, cassava leaves, and sweet potato leaves along with aromatic spices like lemongrass, turmeric, galangal, ginger, and garlic.

When simmered together, the ingredients create a warm, earthy, and herbal flavor that’s unlike any other porridge in Indonesia. To finish it off, it’s topped with fried anchovies, roasted peanuts, and crispy shallots a delightful combination of crunch, aroma, and taste.

More Than Just a Meal
For the people of Sambas, Bubur Pedas is more than food it’s a symbol of unity, care, and gratitude. It’s a reminder of simpler times when families gathered to share one big pot of porridge after a long day of fasting or during community celebrations.

Even today, many families in Sambas and even across the border in Sarawak, Malaysia continue this tradition. Each household might have its own version, slightly different in ingredients or taste, but the heart of the dish remains the same: sharing warmth and kindness through food.


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My Own Experience
Yesterday, I had the pleasure of enjoying Bubur Pedas once again and it reminded me why this dish never fades from memory. The moment the first spoon touched my tongue, I could taste the harmony of roasted rice, fresh greens, and that subtle hint of spice. The aroma alone brought back childhood memories and the comforting feeling of being home.

I took two photos at below

A serving of Bubur Pedas Sambas enjoyed at home  rich with vegetables, herbs, and roasted rice, paired with warm rice and fried tofu for a complete local meal. Photo by Asep Haryono

A close-up look at Bubur Pedas  showcasing its fresh greens, aromatic spices, and hearty texture that make this Sambas specialty so distinctive and comforting. Photo by Asep Haryono

As I captured the above photos for my blog at above,

I realized something Bubur Pedas isn’t just delicious; it’s a living story of Sambas itself. It’s proof that simplicity, when touched by love and heritage, can become timeless.

Why Bubur Pedas Will Always Matter
In a world that keeps changing, Bubur Pedas stands as an evergreen treasure of West Kalimantan. It’s a dish that connects generations, reminding us that food is more than just nourishment it’s identity, memory, and pride.

So, the next time you visit West Kalimantan, don’t miss the chance to taste Bubur Pedas. Let it tell you its story one spoonful at a time.

Have you ever tasted something like Bubur Pedas before? Share your story or memory about this unique dish in the comments or tag me on social media with your own Bubur Pedas moment! Let’s celebrate this Sambas treasure together 

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | My Opinion About Thanksgiving: The Spirit of Gratitude and Global Traditions - Powered by Blogger

Thanksgiving isn’t commonly celebrated in Southeast Asian countries, including Indonesia, because the holiday is deeply rooted in North American history and culture. It originated from early European settlers in the United States and Canada who held harvest feasts to give thanks. Since these events are not part of Southeast Asia’s historical or cultural background, the tradition didn’t develop here.

Thanksgiving is celebrated abroad on the fourth Thursday of November. This year, it falls on November 27, 2025. It’s a special day to give thanks, share meals, and enjoy time with family and friends

In countries like Indonesia, my country for sure, people have their own cultural celebrations related to gratitude and harvest such as Syukuran, Selamatan, or local harvest festivals so Thanksgiving doesn’t naturally fit into the local cultural calendar.

However, the influence of Western media and global culture means some people in Southeast Asia now enjoy Thanksgiving-themed content, special dinners, or sales promotions, even if the holiday itself isn’t officially celebrated.

OUR VERSION OF THANKSGIVING Members of the community enjoy a simple and heartfelt syukuran feast at the mosque, enjoying meals and coffee,   a beautiful display of gratitude and togetherness. Photo by Asep Haryono

For the US people or many European countries, you probably know that Thanksgiving is one of the most celebrated holidays of the year. As far as I concern, Families gather, delicious food fills the table, and people take time to reflect on what they are grateful for. But in Southeast Asia, including my home country Indonesia, Thanksgiving is not widely celebrated.


So, why is that, and what can we learn from it?
Even though Thanksgiving is not part of our local tradition, its ideas are universal. The core message of this holiday gratitude, family, sharing, and togetherness resonates with everyone. Let’s explore what makes Thanksgiving so special, how it is celebrated in other countries, and how we can take inspiration from it in our own lives.

Thanksgiving has its roots in North America. The story goes back to the early 1600s when European settlers, known as the Pilgrims, arrived in what is now the United States. Life was hard in the new land. The settlers struggled with harsh weather, unfamiliar crops, and the challenges of building a community from scratch.

After their first successful harvest, they held a feast to give thanks for the food, safety, and help from the local Native Americans. This event is often considered the first Thanksgiving. Over time, Thanksgiving became an annual celebration, eventually becoming a national holiday in the United States in 1863, during President Abraham Lincoln’s time.

Although the history is very American, the lesson is universal: celebrating gratitude and the good things in life. And that is something everyone can relate to, no matter where you live.


Iconic Thanksgiving Traditions
One of the most fun parts of Thanksgiving is how it is celebrated. Some traditions are well-known around the world, and others are uniquely American.

Food is the heart of Thanksgiving. The centerpiece is usually a roasted turkey, often served with stuffing, mashed potatoes, cranberry sauce, and gravy. Sweet treats like pumpkin pie and pecan pie are also very popular. Some families have their own unique twist on these dishes, adding regional flavors or family recipes that have been passed down for generations.

Family and Friends are a big part of the celebration. Many people travel long distances to gather for the holiday. It is a time for reconnecting, sharing meals, telling stories, and enjoying each other’s company.

Fun Activities include watching parades on television, American football games, or volunteering at local charities. Some families even start the day with a “Turkey Trot,” which is a fun run or walk to celebrate the holiday and stay active.

Even outside the United States, Thanksgiving has inspired local versions in other countries. For example, in Canada, the holiday is celebrated in October, and some countries like Japan and the Philippines have adapted certain aspects of the holiday, mostly food-centered celebrations or school events about gratitude.


The Universal Message: Gratitude
While the turkey and parades are fun, the most important part of Thanksgiving is gratitude. It’s about pausing your busy life and reflecting on what you have family, friends, health, or simply daily blessings.

This message is very relatable in my country Indonesia and Southeast Asia. We may not celebrate Thanksgiving officially, but we have our own ways of showing gratitude. For example, Indonesians have Syukuran, a ceremony to give thanks for blessings, or Selamatan, a communal celebration often held for birthdays, harvests, or other milestones. These traditions, like Thanksgiving, bring people together, celebrate what we have, and foster a sense of community.

Practicing gratitude doesn’t need a holiday. Even small actions can make a big difference:

• Share a meal with your family or neighbors.

 

• Reflect on what you are thankful for at the end of each day.

 

• Volunteer or help someone in need.

 

These are all ways to bring the spirit of Thanksgiving into everyday life


Global Influence and Modern Adaptations
In today’s global world, Thanksgiving is slowly becoming more visible outside North America. Western movies, TV shows, and social media have introduced the holiday to people around the world. Some restaurants and cafes in Southeast Asia even offer Thanksgiving-themed meals in November, giving locals a chance to experience a taste of the tradition.

Many people also enjoy the idea of Thanksgiving without waiting for the fourth Thursday of November. They can host a special dinner, bake a pumpkin pie, or gather friends and family simply to express gratitude. The important thing is the spirit of the holiday, not the exact date.

This adaptability makes Thanksgiving content very relatable for global audiences. People everywhere are interested in learning about other cultures while connecting it to their own life experiences.


Why Thanksgiving Matters
So, why should we care about Thanksgiving, even if we don’t officially celebrate it in Indonesia?

Thanksgiving reminds us to pause and reflect on our blessings. It emphasizes family, friends, and community values that are universal. And it encourages acts of kindness, sharing, and helping others.

Even if I never eat turkey or watch an American football game, I can still celebrate the essence of Thanksgiving. For example, I can:

• Host a “Gratitude Dinner” with my family.

 

• Write down three things I am thankful for every day.

 

• Volunteer at a local charity or community event.

These small actions help us live happier, more connected, and more meaningful lives. And in a world where many people focus on what they lack, Thanksgiving or simply the idea of gratitude offers a refreshing reminder of what really matters.

By writing about Thanksgiving from this angle, I hope I don’t just teach Indonesian readers about a foreign holiday, I inspire them to adopt values and habits that improve our own lives

My Experience of our version of the thanksgiving
In Indonesia, we have a wonderful tradition of sharing food with our neighbors, and I’ve realized it is very much like the spirit of Thanksgiving celebrated in the United States. In our communities, it’s common to exchange meals as a way of showing kindness and appreciation.

For example, I might prepare a simple plate of homemade dishesvegetables, rendang, or a local cake and deliver it to my neighbor. In return, they often give me food in exchange, sometimes the same dish, sometimes something different.

This small act is more than just sharing meals; it is a reflection of togetherness, care, and mutual respect. Through this practice, we celebrate not only the food itself but also the relationships and connections that make our community stronger.

Personally, this has become my way of adopting the spirit of Thanksgiving. Even though we don’t officially celebrate the holiday in Indonesia, these exchanges remind me of its core message: gratitude, generosity, and the joy of giving.

Every time I share food or receive something in return, I feel a sense of warmth and connection that is universal. It shows that the essence of Thanksgiving appreciating what we have and sharing it with others can be embraced anywhere, in any culture.


Conclusion
Thanksgiving may not be widely celebrated in Southeast Asia, but its core message is universal. Gratitude, family, community, and giving back are values that transcend cultures and borders. Whether it’s through food, tradition, or simple daily practices, we can all embrace the spirit of Thanksgiving in our own way.

This November or any time of the year take a moment to reflect on your blessings, share a meal with loved ones, or help someone in need. That is the heart of Thanksgiving, and it is a tradition that everyone, anywhere, can appreciate.

So, even if I don’t eat turkey or watch a parade, I can still celebrate the holiday by being thankful and sharing that gratitude with the people around me. After all, the spirit of Thanksgiving is not just a day it’s a way of life.

How do you express gratitude in your daily life?
Share your favorite way to celebrate thankfulness in the comments below, and let’s inspire each other

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"