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Hello all my fellow bloggers wherever you are.

Today, April 19th, I celebrate my 55th birthday. Reaching this age is both a blessing and a moment of deep reflection. It is a time to look back on my journey the joys, the struggles, the successes, and the regrets and to look forward with hope for the future.

I was born in Jakarta on April 19, 1971. I come from a big family. I have one younger brother, one elder sister, and seven elder brothers. Life in a large family taught me about togetherness, sharing, and resilience from an early age.

Sadly, one of my eldest brothers has passed away, and both of my beloved parents also passed away a few years ago. Their absence is deeply felt, but their values and sacrifices continue to guide my life. Today, our family remains with eight siblings in total, holding on to memories, love, and the responsibility to carry forward our family's legacy.

As I reflect on my life, education has been one of the most important chapters and also one of the deepest regrets I carry in my heart.

I successfully completed my elementary school in 1983, Junior High School in 1986, and Senior High School in 1989. Like many young people at that time, I had dreams of continuing my education and building a better future. However, in 1989, I failed the national state university entrance test. That failure was painful and disappointing, but I refused to give up.

In 1990, I tried again, and by God's grace, I finally passed the national state university entrance test. That moment filled me with hope, pride, and excitement. I began my first year at Tanjungpura University in West Kalimantan, Indonesia, majoring in English. I believed that this was the beginning of a brighter future.

Unfortunately, life had other plans for me.

In 1998, after several years of study, I was forced to drop out of university because I was no longer able to pay the tuition fees. Financial hardship became an obstacle that I could not overcome at that time. Leaving the university without completing my degree was one of the most difficult and heartbreaking decisions of my life. That moment became my first major educational failure, and it is something I have regretted for many years.

Since then, I have continued my life with only a Senior High School certificate. I worked, struggled, and tried to support myself and my family as best as I could. Life moved forward, but the dream of completing my higher education never truly disappeared.

Now, at the age of 55, I sometimes feel that my chances to pursue higher education either in Indonesia or overseas are very limited. When I look at many of my friends from school and university, I see that they have successfully built their careers and continued their education. Some of them studied abroad in countries such as Australia, the United States, and several European nations through scholarships like LPDP and other international programs.

At times, I feel left behind.

There are moments when regret visits my heart, and I wonder what my life might have been like if I had been able to complete my education. I sometimes think about the opportunities I missed and the dreams that were delayed. These thoughts can be heavy, especially when comparing my journey with others.

However, as I grow older, I am beginning to understand a deeper truth about life.

Life is not always about titles, degrees, or achievements. Life is also about endurance, responsibility, faith, and the courage to keep moving forward even when circumstances are difficult. Not every journey is the same. Some people reach their goals quickly, while others must take longer and more challenging paths.

Despite all the disappointments and regrets, I am still standing today.

I am still alive. I am still learning from life. I am still growing as a person. And most importantly, I am still dreaming.

This 55th birthday is not only a reminder of what I did not achieve, but also a celebration of what I have survived. I have faced challenges, losses, and failures, yet I continue to move forward. I have learned patience, humility, and perseverance through life's experiences.

I may not hold a university degree, but I hold valuable lessons gained through hard work and real-life struggles. I may not have reached all the goals I once dreamed about, but I still have time to create new goals and new meaning in my life.

At 55, I choose not to surrender to regret. Instead, I choose gratitude.

I am grateful for life.
I should also consider myself a thankful man because Allah has blessed me with a good and intellectual wife whom I met in 2004. I married a young student from IKIP Semarang in that same year, and we officially started our married life one year later. Her professional journey has been inspiring to witness. She began her career as a kindergarten teacher at KB-TK Islam Al Azhar Pontianak, and later, in 2008, she successfully passed the Government State Officer test (Pegawai Negeri Sipil).

To make a long story short, she has become a very successful career woman in both education and professional fields. One of her proudest achievements was returning from Japan under the Japan Foundation scholarship for a teacher exchange program for vocational schools in November 2025. She has two different degrees: the first degree in English Studies and the second (postgraduate) degree in Educational Administration. 

Her dedication, discipline, and passion for education have always been a source of pride and motivation for me. I am grateful for my family. I am grateful for the lessons that shaped me. And I am grateful for the strength to continue dreaming, even at this stage of my life.

I must also express my deep gratitude for my two wonderful children a son and a daughter. My elder son will soon become a university student, and my beloved daughter is currently in Yogyakarta and is planning to continue her Senior High School education in Pontianak. They are the light of my life and the reason I keep striving to be a better father of my whole family.

Allow me to introduce the members of my family through this simple photo. From left to right: Tazkia Montessori Putri Haryono, myself, Rudi Maryati, S.Pd., M.Pd., and Abbie Muhammad Furqan Haryono. This photo was taken in March 2026, capturing a precious moment of togetherness

This was last year, when I celebrated my 54th birthday at my home. My family gave this anniversary cake to me. How about this year? I am looking forward to their surprise for sure. Wish me luck

Today, I realize that I have complete happiness as a man in this world. Having a good, humble, and intelligent wife and lovely children is one of the greatest blessings that Allah SWT has ever given to me. I will never betray this trust, love, and attention from my whole family, and I must remain grateful every day for what Allah has given me.

As I celebrate this birthday, I hold on to the wisdom from the Holy Qur'an that has strengthened my heart during difficult times:

"For indeed, with hardship comes ease. Indeed, with hardship comes ease." (Al-Inshirah 94:5-6)

With this faith, I pray for good health, peace of mind, and the opportunity to continue learning and contributing to society in whatever way I can. I believe that as long as we are alive, it is never too late to grow, to improve, and to pursue meaningful goals.

This is not the end of my story. This is simply another chapter in my journey.

Happy 55th birthday to me.|

Alhamdulillah for everything that Allah has written in my life.

May the years ahead be filled with hope, strength, wisdom, and new possibilities.

Asep Haryono
Kubu Raya, West Kalimantan
INDONESIA

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | Lessons from an Unanswered Invitation - Powered by Blogger

Hello guys.  How is it going? Its me,  Asep Haryono from Indonesia

I miss you all so much especially my fave bloggers like Mrs Ananka from Scotland , Mrs Irina from Russia, and Mrs Mary Kirkland from The United States of America. I really miss you all.  I really do
 
One month ago, around the end of March, I experienced a simple event that at first seemed ordinary, but later gave me a deep lesson. It was not about a big problem or a conflict. It was only about an invitation to gather at my house that did not receive a response as I expected.

As human beings, we have all been in a situation where we wait. We wait for news, for an answer, or for someone's presence. In this experience, I learned that waiting without certainty can be emotionally tiring, even if the situation looks small from the outside.

I have something to share with you in this article.

Please sit back and relax, my friends.

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The Beginning: A Good Intention
At that time, I planned to hold a small gathering at my home. It was not a big celebration. I simply wanted to build friendship with my co-workers who work together with me every day. I invited about twelve friends from one team through our WhatsApp group.

I sent the invitation on Wednesday, March 25th, at 10 a.m. in the morning at my home. I clearly mentioned the date, time, and place, and I hoped they could come to have a friendly conversation while enjoying simple food.

This is my house located in Duta Bandara Complex neighborhood in West Kalimantan , Indonesia. My house nears to Supadio International Airport, only 5-minute drive from my house. By the way, One day I will make a short online tour for you guys up here. Just like online tour to my house someday. I hope so and I know so. Photo Asep Haryono

Together with my family, we started to prepare everything. We cleaned the house, prepared meals, and set aside our time to welcome guests.

For me, inviting people to my home is not just a formality. There is a sense of responsibility as a host. There is a desire to give the best welcome, even in a simple way. There is also hope that the meeting can strengthen relationships and create a warm atmosphere.


The Waiting Day
The day finally arrived. Since the morning, we were ready. The table was prepared, the food was ready, and the house felt more lively. As a host, I felt excited to wait for the guests to come.

I prepared delicious food, including meatballs (bakso), tasty cakes, and non-alcoholic drinks. Most of my friends who were invited are Muslims, including myself. There is only one Christian, who was also very warmly welcomed to join.

But time kept moving.

Morning changed to afternoon. Afternoon changed to evening. Evening changed to night.

Until the end of the day, not one of them came. More than that, there was no message or news to tell me whether they would come or not.

At that moment, honestly, I felt disappointed. Not because they did not come, but because I was waiting without certainty. The feeling of waiting was the hardest part. We had prepared time, energy, and attention, but we did not receive any information.

I believe many people have experienced a similar situation. It is not about how big the event is, but about the feeling of being respected or not respected.


Learning to Calm My Heart
After the event passed, I tried to calm myself and see the situation from a wider point of view. I asked myself: maybe they had other responsibilities? Maybe something unexpected happened that made them unable to come?

In real life, not everything goes according to plan. Everyone has family duties, work responsibilities, and personal matters that sometimes cannot be left behind. It is possible that they wanted to come, but the situation did not allow them to do so.

Thinking about these possibilities made my heart more peaceful. I learned not to judge too quickly. I learned that in social relationships, empathy is very important.


A Positive Development
A few days after that event, something changed. Some of them contacted me through messages. They apologized and explained the reasons for their absence. Some were out of town, some had family matters, and others faced sudden situations.

Later, on another occasion, they came to visit my house. The meeting was short, maybe only ten to fifteen minutes. We talked casually, laughed together, and enjoyed simple food.

The atmosphere, which was once uncomfortable, slowly became relaxed. There was no long discussion about the past. There was no anger or desire to blame anyone. There was only a wish to keep our relationship good.

At that moment, I realized that sometimes problems do not need complicated solutions. Simple presence, a smile, and good intention are often enough.


The Lesson I Learned
From that experience, I learned one important lesson that is very simple but often forgotten: giving information is a form of respect.

When someone invites us, it means they have given their time, energy, and sometimes money to welcome us. Therefore, if we cannot attend, we should inform them as soon as possible.

Giving information is not only about politeness, but also about empathy. By informing others, we help them manage their time and feelings. We show that we respect their effort.

On the other hand, as a host, I also learned to be more patient and understanding. Not every absence means a lack of care. Sometimes it is only a communication problem or an unexpected situation.


Turning Experience into a Reminder
Since that time, I have tried to apply this lesson in my daily life. Every time I receive an invitation and cannot attend, I try to send a message quickly. Even a short message can help maintain a good relationship.

This experience also made me more careful in responding to social situations. I do not easily feel offended. I try to see things with a calmer mind and a more open heart.

Because in the end, relationships between people are not only about coming or not coming, but about how we respect each other.


Personal Reflection
Now, when I remember that event, I no longer feel disappointed. Instead, I feel grateful because I received a valuable lesson.

I realize that in social life, small actions can have a big impact. A short message, simple information, or a small explanation can make a big difference in keeping good relationships.

This experience taught me to be more sensitive to other people's feelings. It taught me to be more patient when things do not go as expected. Most importantly, it taught me to continue learning to become a better person.

Because life is not about who is right or wrong, but about how we learn from every experience


How about you my friends?
Have you ever experienced a similar situation, waiting for someone who did not come without any message? Or maybe you once forgot to inform someone that you could not attend an invitation?

Let us learn together from this experience. Start from a simple habit: if you cannot come, give information. If you receive an invitation, respect the time and effort of the person who invited you.

If you have a similar story or lesson, feel free to share it in the comment section. Your story may inspire others. Because in the end, good relationships are built on mutual respect.    

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Indonesia - Asep Haryono | Eid Mubarak in Indonesia: A Joyful Celebration of Faith, Family, and Tradition - Powered by Blogger

Disclaimer

Dear fellow bloggers and friends,

Please accept my sincere apology if I have not been active on your blogs recently. I have been a bit busy for the last few weeks due to the holy Islamic month of Ramadhan and the Eid Mubarak celebrations, and this situation may continue until the end of April.

Because of this busy period, I have not been able to visit my fellow bloggers or leave comments as usual. It does not mean I have forgotten you or your wonderful content. Hopefully, I will be back to normal as soon as possible and can visit you guys again, read your posts, and stay connected like before.

Thank you very much for your understanding and friendship


Asep Haryono
INDONESIA.

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All Muslims around the world are now celebrating Eid Mubarak, also known in Indonesia as Lebaran. This special moment marks the end of the holy month of Ramadan, a time when Muslims fast, pray, and practice self-discipline. Eid is a joyful celebration of gratitude, forgiveness, and togetherness.

Indonesia is the largest Muslim-majority country in the world. For many Indonesians, Eid is the most important holiday of the year. It is not only a religious celebration but also a cultural event filled with meaningful traditions and happy activities.

During Eid Mubarak, all families prepare some food and drinks for the guests who visit. All foods, including cakes, candy, and all non-alcoholic beverages. All you can eat for free.

Photo: Asep Haryono

One of the most famous traditions in Indonesia is mudik, the annual journey when millions of people travel from big cities back to their hometowns. Families reunite after months or even years apart. Roads, airports, train stations, and seaports become very busy, but people are excited because they can celebrate Eid with their loved ones.

Another unique Indonesian tradition is halal bihalal. After Eid, families, neighbors, friends, and coworkers gather to shake hands and ask for forgiveness. People often say, "Mohon maaf lahir dan batin," which means asking forgiveness for past mistakes. This tradition helps strengthen friendship and social harmony.

On the night before Eid, many communities celebrate takbiran. People gather at mosques to chant praises to God. In some areas, there are parades with drums, lanterns, and decorated vehicles. The atmosphere is festive and full of excitement, especially for children.

Many families also practice nyekar, which means visiting the graves of parents and ancestors. They clean the graves, place flowers, and say prayers. This tradition shows respect and love for family members who have passed away.

Food is an important part of Eid celebrations in Indonesia. Families prepare special dishes such as ketupat (rice cakes wrapped in palm leaves), rendang (spiced beef), opor ayam (chicken cooked in coconut milk), and many traditional snacks. Homes are open to guests, and visitors are warmly welcomed throughout the day.


You may read - Rendang. More than just delicious dish.


Another popular custom is wearing new clothes, called baju baru. This symbolizes a fresh start and a new beginning. Children are especially happy during Eid because they often receive small gifts or money, known as Tunjangan Hari Raya or THR” (holiday allowance), from parents and relatives.

Charity is also a very important part of Eid. Muslims give zakat fitrah, a donation to help people in need. This ensures that everyone can celebrate Eid with dignity and happiness.

In simple words, Eid Mubarak in Indonesia is a beautiful mix of religion, culture, and community. It is a time to forgive, share, and celebrate life with family and friends.

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | My Opinion on the US–Israel Attack on Iran: A Concern About War and International Law - Powered by Blogger

Disclaimer:
Hello my friend. How is it gong?.  Its been a while.   By the way this article is a personal opinion written from the perspective of an ordinary citizen. I am not a politician, a government official, or a foreign policy expert. I am simply a citizen of the world who is observing international events and sharing personal thoughts and concerns.

Thank you so much.

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The world is once again watching rising tensions in the Middle East. Recent news reports about military strikes involving the United States, Israel, and Iran have raised serious concerns about the possibility of a wider conflict in the region.

For many people around the globe, events like these are deeply worrying. War in one part of the world can quickly affect many other countries, whether through economic instability, political tensions, or humanitarian crises.

As an ordinary citizen of The Republic of Indonesia, living far away from the Middle East, I can only follow the news and try to understand what is happening. However, like many others, I cannot ignore the serious questions that arise when military actions take place between sovereign nations.

The flags of Israel and the United States flying side by side with a military tank behind them, symbolizing military alliance among them

Rising Military Tensions
According to international news reports, the United States and Israel launched military strikes on targets inside Iran. These attacks reportedly focused on military facilities and strategic locations. In simple opinion.

The United States and Israel started a war. 

Supporters of these actions argue that such strikes are necessary for national security and self-defense. However, Iran has responded with missile and drone attacks, increasing the risk of a wider conflict.

When tensions escalate like this, the situation can quickly become dangerous not only for the countries involved but also for the entire region especially in the region of the middle east.


The Human Cost of War
History has repeatedly shown that the greatest victims of war are often ordinary people. Civilians or even school students can lose their homes, their safety, and sometimes their loved ones.

Beyond the battlefield, wars also create economic hardship, displacement, and long-term instability. These humanitarian consequences can affect generations.

For that reason, many people around the world feel deeply concerned whenever new military conflicts begin.


My Questions About International Law
Another important issue raised by this conflict is the question of international law. Iran is a sovereign nation, and the use of military force against another country often raises legal and ethical questions under international law.

The United Nations Charter, established after the Second World War, was designed to prevent countries from using force against each other except in limited situations. In general, military action is considered legitimate only in cases of self-defense or when authorized by the United Nations Security Council.

Because of this principle, some observers argue that attacks on another sovereign country without clear international authorization could be seen as a violation of international law. Others, however, believe the strikes may be justified as defensive measures.

These debates are complex and often involve political, legal, and security considerations.


The Need for Diplomacy
Despite these disagreements, one thing remains clear: war rarely brings lasting solutions. Diplomacy, dialogue, and negotiation are often the most effective ways to resolve international disputes. Many global organizations and leaders have repeatedly called for de-escalation and peaceful solutions.

In a world that is increasingly interconnected, conflict in one region can quickly affect the stability of many others.


The Role of the United Nations
Many people around the world are asking: Where is the United Nations in this conflict?

The United Nations was created after World War II with the main goal of maintaining international peace and preventing wars between countries. In situations like the current tensions involving the United States, Israel, and Iran, the UN is expected to encourage dialogue and reduce the risk of a wider conflict.

The United Nations Security Council can hold emergency meetings and discuss possible diplomatic solutions. The UN Secretary-General, António Guterres, has also urged all parties to avoid further escalation and to respect international law.

However, the UN has limitations. Decisions in the Security Council often depend on powerful member states, and disagreements among them can make it difficult to take strong action. Because of this, the UN’s role is often focused on diplomacy, mediation, and encouraging peaceful solutions rather than directly stopping conflicts.


My Final Reflection
As someone who lives far from the Middle East, I may not fully understand every political detail behind this conflict. But as a human being and a citizen of the world, it is difficult not to feel concerned when military actions escalate between nations.

History has shown that wars often begin with strong words and military actions, but they leave behind deep wounds that can last for generations.As ordinary citizens, we may not hold political power, but we can still hope and speak for peace, respect for international law, and dialogue between nations.

In the end, the future of our world should not be decided only by weapons and military power, but by wisdom, diplomacy, and the shared hope that humanity will choose peace over conflict.

I have a few questions by the way

I really have no idea what the President of the United States was thinking when he decided to bomb another sovereign country with Israel without approval from the United Nations.
Why is Trump so sure that the American people want this war? Why does he bring America into harm’s way and put the country in a dangerous position, possibly becoming isolated from the world?
Why does he send American troops to be sacrificed and die for Israel, a country whose citizens do not pay taxes to the United States?
Why does America, under the administration of President Trump, seem to prioritize Israel and put Israel first instead of Americans?

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Viral Words, Real Consequences: The LPDP Scholarship Controversy Explained - Powered by Blogger

DISCLAIMER : This article discusses a recent controversy in Indonesia involving an LPDP scholarship awardee. The issue has attracted strong public reactions and has been widely covered by both online and offline media. The content is intended for informational purposes only and does not aim to spread hate or make personal attacks (Asep Haryono)..

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The issue about LPDP scholarship alumni is now becoming a hot topic on social media. The names Dwi Sasetyaningtyas and her husband, Arya Iwantoro, are being widely discussed after a video of their statement went viral onlinee

Who Is Dwi Sasetyaningtyas?
Dwi Sasetyaningtyas is known as an LPDP scholarship awardee with an academic and professional background in engineering and sustainability. She completed her undergraduate study in Chemical Engineering at Institut Teknologi Bandung (ITB), one of Indonesia’s leading universities. After that, she continued her master’s degree in Sustainable Energy Technology at Delft University of Technology in the Netherlands through the LPDP scholarship program.

Professionally, she has experience working in the private sector, including at Procter & Gamble (P&G), a multinational company. She has also been involved in environmental and sustainability initiatives, focusing on education and sustainable living awareness.

Her educational journey was supported by Lembaga Pengelola Dana Pendidikan (LPDP), a government-funded scholarship program aimed at developing Indonesia’s human resources.

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In the video, there was a sentence that shocked many people: “It is enough that I am an Indonesian citizen, my child does not have to be.” Or “Cukup aku aja yang WNI anak anak saya jangan..” Many netizens felt that this statement sounded disrespectful to Indonesia. As a result, the public reaction was very strong. Some criticized them harshly, while others asked the government to take firm action. .

This photo is courtesy of Warta Kota Production, showing the moment when Dwi proudly displayed the British passport and proof of British citizenship of her second child, which sparked controversy in Indonesia.

Just watch her complete video here


This was the moment when Indonesian Finance Minister Purbaya expressed anger and disappointment and threatened to blacklist Dwi Sasetyaningtyas after her content went viral, in which she said she was reluctant to allow her child to become an Indonesian citizen. Watch the full video

Video of Warta Kota Production

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Agreement to Return LPDP Funds.
This controversy did not stop at social media debate. The issue became more serious because Dwi is known as an awardee of the Lembaga Pengelola Dana Pendidikan (LPDP), a scholarship program funded by the Indonesian government. .
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LPDP is a government scholarship program created to support the development of Indonesia’s human resources. The funds come from the state budget, which means they come from public taxes and also from government financial management. .
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Indonesia’s Minister of Finance, Purbaya Yudhi Sadewa, expressed his disappointment regarding the viral statement. He explained that Arya Iwantoro had not yet completed his service obligation, which is one of the requirements of the LPDP program. . Because this obligation was not fulfilled, returning the scholarship funds became the agreed consequence. .

By the way, let me explain a little bit about the rule
You should now this

Under the agreement signed with Lembaga Pengelola Dana Pendidikan (LPDP), scholarship awardees are required to return to Indonesia after completing their studies and contribute to the country for a certain period. This obligation is commonly known as the “2N rule,” meaning graduates must serve in Indonesia for twice the length of their study period.

Just take a look at the info graphic at below

For example, if someone studies abroad for two years, they are expected to contribute in Indonesia for four years. In some older contracts, the rule was “2N+1,” which required an additional year of service. If an awardee fails to fulfill this commitment, they may face sanctions, including the obligation to return the scholarship funds, potentially with interest, and restrictions on future involvement in government-related programs.

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According to the Minister, the Director of LPDP had already spoken with Arya, and he agreed to return the money used from LPDP, including the interest. The exact amount of money and interest is still being calculated. .
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The Minister also reminded other LPDP recipients to respect the country and remember their responsibilities. .
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Responsibility Is Not Just a Formality.
LPDP is not just a “free scholarship.” Every awardee signs a contract that includes several responsibilities. These usually include finishing their studies on time and serving Indonesia for a certain period after graduation. .
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This service period is a way to give back to the country. The government invests in their education, and in return, the awardees are expected to contribute to national development. .
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So, if someone does not complete their obligation, there are financial and administrative consequences. In this case, returning the funds plus interest shows that LPDP has clear rules and enforcement. .
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Blacklist Sanction.
Besides returning the money, the Minister also confirmed there will be a blacklist sanction. This means the person involved will not be able to work in roles connected to the Indonesian government in the future. .
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This kind of sanction can have a long-term impact, especially for someone whose career may involve government institutions or public projects. .
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Public Money, Public Trust.
The Minister also emphasized that LPDP funds come from taxpayers and even from government debt. In other words, this is public money. It is not private funding. The main goal of LPDP is to create high-quality human resources who can help Indonesia grow and compete globally. That is why commitment and loyalty to the country are important values in this program. .
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This case also opens a bigger discussion. In the digital era, one statement on social media can spread very fast and bring serious consequences. Freedom of speech is important, but responsibility is also very important. .
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A Lesson for All of Us.
This situation can be a reminder for everyone, not only for LPDP awardees. Words matter. Actions have consequences. For scholarship recipients funded by the state, there is not only a written contract but also a moral responsibility. For the public, it is also important to understand the full context before judging. .
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At the end of the day, programs like LPDP are long-term investments for Indonesia’s future. Public trust must be protected with integrity, respect, and responsibility

What do you think about this issue? Do you agree with the decision to return the funds and impose a blacklist? If you are from England or a British blogger, please feel free to share your thoughts in the comments.

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

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Disclaimer: This article is written in Indonesian and is primarily intended for readers in Indonesia. For fellow bloggers and friends from the United States, Scotland, Germany, Russia, and other European countries, please feel free to use Google Translate or any other translation tools to better understand the content of this article. Thank you for your understanding and continued support.

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Terlambat Beberapa Jam
Ada bagian yang menarik lainnya yang ingat ceritakan di paragraf kedua ini. Bahwa di hari wafatnya Ayah Almarhum Sudjud , yaitu pada tanggal 22 Juni 2014.   ada cerita yang unik yang menarik. Jadi ceritanya begini informasi bahwa Ayah itu sudah berpulang itu sudah diterima ya, sejak lama dari pihak keluarga, yaitu saya dapat kabar dari kakak di Bekasi, baik melalui pesan singkat WA ataupun dari sambungan telepon bahwa proses pemakaman akan segera dimulai, saya pun segera booking penerbangan langsung dari Pontianak ke Jakarta

Jadi saya dan istri serta anak memutuskan berangkat hari itu juga, hari Jumat, tanggal 22 Juni 2014.   dengan menggunakan  pada pukul 7 pagi. Namun sayang sekali pada saat tiket sudah tercetaj, kalau nggak salah ya, kalau nggak salah itu terjadi delay atau penunda dan delaynya lebih dari 3 jam atau 5 jam. Sedangkan pada saat itu prosesi pemakaman harus segera dilaksanakan. Kondisinya sudah mendesak. Namun Allah memutuskan, Ayahanda sudah berpulang ke Rahmatullah itu di hari pagi saya dan keluarga sudah bersiap-siap berangkat pada pukul 7.

Namun karena pesawatnya delay beberapa jam, Saat saya masih di bandara pihak keluarga sudah menghubungi saya lewat sambungan telepon agar saya yang masih di Bandara menunggu keberangkatan ikhlas karena almarhum Ayah sudah harus segera dikebumikan tanpa kehadiran anaknya. Dalam Islam pemakan orang tua harus dihadiri oleh seluruh anak anaknya.  Sayalah satu satunya anak almarhum yang tinggal di Kalimantan Barat sedangkana kakak kakak di Jakarta, Tanggerang dan Bekasi. dan itu di pulau Jawa

Jadi prosesi pemakaman almarhum di Bekasi tidak dapat saya hadiri karena saya masih di Bandara menunggu delay selesai. jadi saya baru tiba di rumah duka di Jalan Sarbini Bekasi, komplek Jakasampurna Bekasi, itu habis zuhur. Jadi terlambat beberapa jam di hari yang sama..

Kenangan Indah Selama Hayat
Sebenarnya pada saat itu di bulan Agustus 2013, pada saat saya berlibur di Bekasi bersama keluarga istri dan anak juga di rumah lama di Bekasi, di jalan Sarbini Bekasi. Sebenarnya saya ada semacam firasat, bukan firasat sih, semacam ada pendapat bahwa dalam al-Quran, jadi bahwa tidak manusia yang jiwa pasti akan kembali ya.

Setiap makhluk yang berjiwa akan segera kembali ke pencipta Allah SWT. Jadi pada saat saya pulang ke rumah orang tua gitu kan, pada bulan Agustus 2013 bersama istri dan anak-anak ya, saya saat itu ketemu dengan ayah ibu di situ otomatis ya. Dan saya udah berpikir ini kapan lagi kesempatan saya bisa buat foto bareng dengan ayah ibu saat itu, pada saat itu masih hidup.

Saya bersama ibunda tercinta  Foto diambil pada bulan Agustus 2013.  Inilah salah satu harta ku yang paling berharga dalam hidup ku. Ibu aku rindu. Foto Rudi Maryati

Saya bersama kedua orang tua. Foto diambil pada bulan Agustus 2013.  Kapan lagi saya bisa foto bareng bersama orang tua saat mereka masih hidup. ini tinggal kenangan. Inilah harta ku yang paling berharga dalam hidup ku. Foto Rudi Maryati

Jadi Alhamdulillah saya memiliki harta yang paling berharga, harta yang tak ternilai yaitu foto saya bersama ayah dan ibu lengkap pada saat mereka masih hidup. Dan akhirnya Alhamdulillah beberapa foto berhasil take saat itu, yang Agustus 2013 menjadi foto abadi dan menjadi harta yang berharga yang sangat saya jaga sampai sekarang, tahun 2026. yaitu saya berfoto dengan ayah, ibu, saya duduk di tengah, ibu berada di sebelah kiri dan ayahnya di sebelah kanan.

Tunggu saya Ayah Ibu
setelah kedua orang tua sudah berpulang, dan rumah orang tua yang ada di sana akhirnya dijual, ya, dijual. Dan hasil penjualan rumah orang tua itu dibagikan ke sembilan bersaudara. Saya anak kedelapan dari sembilan bersaudara, semuanya dibagi rata.

Terus salah satu wasiat dari ibu yang berhasil saya temukan suratnya agar anak-anak seluruh keluarga tetap bersatu, tetap berpegang pada tali Allah, dan kami anak-anaknya diminta tetap saling bersilaturahmi. Oleh karena itu, kami membentuk grup yang bentuk grup diisi anggota-anggota keluarga dari kakak, saya sendiri bersama adik. Wasiat lainnya agar semua anggota anggota memperhatikan saudara perempuan satu satunya. Dari 9 bersaudara di keluarga saya.  Hanya 1 saudara perempuan. Sisanya semuaya laki laki. 

KENANGAN : Selama saya di SMA di Bekasi (86-89), saya tinggalnya di kamar di sebelah kanan ini, tampak jendelanya.  Kenangan indah. Ini rumah kenangan. Saya pernah tinggal di rumah ini bersama kedua orang tua bertahun tahun lamanya  Foto  Asep Haryono

Namun kakak yang tertua, ya, Sukanta, juga sudah berpulang. Jadi tinggal yang tersisa ini ya, tinggal delapan bersaudara kumpul dalam satu grup keluarga. Jadi walaupun kita berbeda-beda tempat, berbeda lokasi, ada yang tinggal di Jakarta, ada yang tinggal di Bekasi, ada yang tinggal di Bogor, Kakak yang paling jauh di kota Kalimantan Barat, tetap bersilaturahmi dalam grup.

Sebuah satu manfaat dari digital ya. Kalau kita nggak harus bertemu secara fisik, kita bisa ketemu di grup, seolah-olah kita bertemu secara langsung. Dan sekarang pada saat ini, saya sudah tidak punya kedua orang tua lagi. Saya kini sudah Yatim Piatu (tidak mempunyai ayah dan Ibu atau sudah ditinggal ayah dan ibu wafat) dan saya akan terus bersilaturahmi dengan saudara-saudara semuanya baik secara langsung, baik melalui sambungan Telepon walaupun obrolan di WhatsApp.

Karena saya adalah salah satunya anggota keluarga yang tinggal jauh dari keluarga. Semua kakak atau abang saya berada di Pulau Jawa, di Jakarta, Bogor, Tangerang. Saya sendiri berada di Pontianak, Kalimantan Barat.

saya mengucapkan Milad Tahun kepada Ibunda tercinta 8 Februari 2026 yang jika Ibu saya masih hidup di bulan Februari ini sudah berusia 88 tahun tahun 2026 ini. Ibunda Almanu lahir di Semarang pada tanggal 8 Februari 1938. Jadi beliau masih hidup, beliau berusia 88 tahun.

Saya sebagai salah satu anak almarhumah, mengucapkan Selamat Ulang Tahun Ibu. Semoga Ibu di sana mendapat limpahan dan rahmat Allah SWT, Allah mengampunkan segala dosa-dosanya dan menjadikan kuburnya jadi taman-taman syurga. Saya menulis artikel ini dengan terharu dan insya Allah kita akan segera bertemu lagi.

Ibu, tunggu aku

Mari kita kirimkan Al-Fatihah untuk kedua orang tua kita, baik yang masih bersama kita maupun yang telah lebih dulu berpulang. Hargai setiap detik kebersamaan sebelum semuanya hanya menjadi kenangan
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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Welcoming the Arrival of 1 Ramadan 1447 Hijri - Powered by Blogger

Tomorrow night, Wednesday evening or Thursday night, is expected to be the beginning of 1 Ramadan 1447 Hijri or 18th of February . The coming of the holy month of Ramadan is always a special and meaningful moment for Muslims, both in Indonesia and around the world.

What Does Fasting in Ramadan Mean? .
Fasting in Ramadan is one of the five pillars of Islam. During this month, Muslims do not eat or drink from dawn (before sunrise) until sunset. But fasting is not only about staying away from food and water. .

It is also about controlling our behavior, words, and thoughts. Muslims try to avoid bad actions such as lying, gossiping, or hurting others. Ramadan is a time to become more patient, more grateful, and more caring toward people in need. It is a month of spiritual growth, self-discipline, and stronger connection with God. Through fasting, Muslims learn empathy for the poor and appreciate the blessings they have in daily life. .

However, as usual, the official start of Ramadan in Indonesia waits for the decision of the Minister of Religious Affairs through the isbat meeting based on moon sighting (rukyatul hilal). This announcement is very important because it becomes a guide for Muslims in starting the fasting month together.

In general, people in Indonesia follow the government’s decision to keep unity and togetherness in worship. Even though many people predict that Ramadan may start tomorrow night, we still wait for the official announcement.

Personally, I and all Muslims have prepared ourselves to welcome this holy month. The first night of Tarawih prayer will be a hopeful beginning, and the next day we will start the first day of fasting. May this Ramadan bring blessings, health, and peace to all of us

Breaking the fast can be done anywhere, including in places like the one shown in this photo. People can enjoy free snacks or meals for iftar, both adults and children, at the local mosque. Photo by Asep Haryono
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Tradition and Meaning of Ramadan in Indonesia
In Indonesia, from Sabang to Merauke, Muslims begin the day with suhoor before the Fajr (dawn) prayer. After the Fajr prayer, fasting begins and continues until Maghrib (sunset), which is the time to break the fast.

Fasting is not only about holding hunger and thirst. Muslims also learn to control themselves. We avoid bad words, gossip, harmful actions, and negative behavior. Ramadan teaches patience, sincerity, and self-control.

Personally, I want to make Ramadan 1447 Hijri (2026) the best Ramadan in my life. I want to improve myself, increase my worship, and use this holy month in the best way possible.

The Tradition of Iftar and Togetherness
One strong tradition in Indonesia during Ramadan is providing food for breaking the fast. Almost all mosques, prayer rooms, and Islamic centers provide free iftar meals for the congregation.

The purpose is to strengthen friendship and unity among Muslims. Many people come early to the mosque to break their fast together before performing Maghrib prayer. The food and drinks usually come from donations. Everything is given free to everyone, including travelers who cannot go home in time.

This is ‘Pasar Juadah’ in Pontianak, West Kalimantan, Indonesia. People buy various foods and drinks here to enjoy when breaking their fast. Photo courtesy of Prokopim Kota Pontianak/Ruai TV.

Another popular tradition, especially among young people like Gen Z and Gen Alpha, is sharing “takjil on the road.” They give free snacks and drinks to people at traffic lights or on the streets before sunset.

In Pontianak, West Kalimantan, there is also a special Ramadan market called Pasar Juadah. This market sells many kinds of food for iftar, such as traditional cakes and snacks. The atmosphere is lively and exciting before Maghrib.

The Tradition of Tarawih and Qur’an Recitation
One important tradition during Ramadan is Tarawih prayer. In Islamic teaching, Tarawih is a highly recommended sunnah prayer. Almost all mosques in Indonesia hold Tarawih prayer every night during Ramadan.

In Indonesia, some people pray 11 rak‘ahs and others pray 23 rak‘ahs. Both are correct and have strong religious foundations. There is no need for debate. Muslims are free to choose according to their belief and habit.

Tarawih is performed after the Isha prayer. After that, many mosques continue with tadarus, which means reciting the Qur’an together. Some people read one juz every night so they can complete 30 juz by the end of Ramadan.

This tradition strengthens faith and builds togetherness during the holy month.

Closing
In closing, I hope that I and my family can carry out all Ramadan worship activities well, starting tomorrow, God willing. May we be able to follow all the good deeds of Ramadan without any shortcomings. I pray that this Ramadan becomes the best Ramadan in our lives. Ameen.

Finally, I would like to say to all Muslims in Indonesia: Happy fasting in the month of Ramadan. May our fasting this year be the best in our lifetime. May Allah give us health, protection, and guidance so that we can complete this holy month with full blessings..

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | A Giant Hole in Aceh, Indonesia: What Is Really Happening? - Powered by Blogger

Disclaimer
This article is based on publicly available news reports, expert explanations, and general geological information in Indonesia. The author is not a professional geologist or scientific expert. The purpose of this writing is for information and awareness only.

Hello my friends. How is it going?

A strange and worrying natural phenomenon has been attracting attention in Aceh, Indonesia. A giant hole in the ground often called Lubang Raksasa Aceh keeps getting bigger year by year. Many people are curious, scared, and confused: What is this hole? Why is it growing? And should people be worried?

Let’s take a closer look in simple and easy-to-understand terms.

The giant hole is located in Pondok Balik Village, Ketol District, Central Aceh Regency (Aceh Tengah), North Sumatera, Indonesia. This area is surrounded by hills, farmland, and small communities.

At first, the hole was not very big. Local residents said it started as just a small crack or depression in the ground. But slowly and sometimes suddenly the land kept collapsing.
Now, the hole has grown into something shocking.|
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Reaching Over 3 Hectares! Giant Sinkhole in Central Aceh Widens, High-voltage Power Line Collapses.  Image from Kompas TV PalembangYoutube Channel

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How Big Is It Now?
Recent reports say the hole covers around 30,000 square meters, or about three hectares. To imagine it simply, that is roughly the size of several football fields put together.If you stand at the edge, it looks deep, wide, and dangerous. From above, satellite images clearly show how the hole has expanded over many years.

This is not something that appeared overnight it has been developing for decades.

Is It a Sinkhole?
Many people call it a “sinkhole,” but geologists say it may not be a typical sinkhole like those found in limestone areas. Instead, experts believe this giant hole is caused by underground soil erosion, a process sometimes called piping erosion. This happens when water slowly washes away soil beneath the surface, creating empty spaces underground.

Over time, the land above becomes weak and eventually collapses. Central Aceh often receives heavy rainfall. Rainwater seeps into the ground and moves through the soil. Because the area has loose volcanic soil from ancient volcanic activity, the ground is more vulnerable to erosion. As water flows underground, it carries tiny soil particles away. Little by little, the underground space becomes bigger until the surface can no longer support itself and caves in.

This is why the hole keeps expanding, especially during rainy seasons.

Why Are People Worried?
The growing hole is not just a strange natural sight it is a real threat my friends Local residents are concerned because: Farmland near the hole is at risk of collapsing, Some roads have been damaged or cut off, Houses and small buildings could be affected if the hole expands further and People feel unsafe living too close to the area

For farmers, this is especially stressful. Their land is their livelihood, and losing it to a giant hole is heartbreaking. Local and national authorities are aware of the situation. Experts from geology and public works departments have visited the site several times.

Their main efforts include: Studying the ground and soil conditions, Trying to control and redirect water flow away from the unstable area, Strengthening nearby land to prevent further collapse and Planning long-term solutions to reduce risk

However, this is not an easy problem to fix. Nature does not always cooperate, and stopping underground erosion completely is very difficult.

A brief history
According to local stories and research, this phenomenon likely began in the early 2000s. At that time, the hole was much smaller and did not attract much attention.But over the years, as more land collapsed, people started to realize this was not a normal crack in the ground it was something much more serious.

Now, it has become one of the most unusual and alarming geological sites in Indonesia.

My friends. The giant hole in Aceh is not the only one on Earth. Similar natural phenomena have appeared in other countries.n One famous example is Xiaozhai Tiankeng in China, the deepest sinkhole in the world, surrounded by very high cliffs and dense forest. Another is the Great Blue Hole in Belize, a massive circular sinkhole underwater that attracts divers from around the world.

The third is Taam Ja’ Blue Hole in Mexico, also underwater and believed to be one of the deepest blue holes ever discovered.

My friends...

The giant hole in Central Aceh Indonesia is both amazing and worrying. It is a real example of how slow natural processes can lead to big disasters over time.For now, local communities and authorities must work together to stay safe and find the best possible solutions.

Nature is beautiful but it can also be dangerous.

What do you think about this giant hole in Aceh? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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