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- Asep Haryono | My Honest Reaction to “POV. Solo Fine Dining at an Exclusive Restaurant” short video on Youtube - Powered by Blogger
The other day, I came across a TikTok video by a user named @AmericanTurk, who showed off his fancy solo dinner at a high-end restaurant in New York City. His video tittle “POV. Solo Fine Dining at an Exclusive Restaurant” What caught my attention wasn’t the food itself though yes, it looked great but the price tag. He spent $300 (about 3.3 million Rupiah) for one meal… and he was dining alone.
As an Indonesian, I couldn’t help but feel a wave of mixed emotions watching that clip. My immediate thought? “That’s what most people in my country earn in a month.”
Yes, you read that right. The average monthly salary for many Indonesians is around $300 USD, sometimes even less. That amount can cover groceries, bills, school expenses, and daily needs for an entire family of three or more for weeks. So seeing someone spend it in less than an hour on a solo dinner felt... honestly, a bit crazy to me.
I’m not saying people shouldn’t enjoy their money. If you work hard and want to treat yourself, go for it. I respect that. But there’s something about flaunting it on social media especially in a world where so many people are struggling that just feels a little tone-deaf.
Was the video meant to inspire others? Or was it more about showing off a lifestyle that most people will never afford? It’s hard to tell. But one thing’s for sure it made me reflect deeply on the huge economic gap between different parts of the world.
In Indonesia, many families budget carefully each day just to make ends meet. Every rupiah matters. We compare prices, plan meals, and make sacrifices. So seeing someone casually drop millions of rupiah on a single meal and treat it like no big deal comes off as a little offensive and even disturbing.
I’m not here to judge the person in the video. Maybe he’s from a wealthy family. Maybe he saved up for that experience. That’s his right. But from a Southeast Asian point of view, I just want to say: $300 is a big deal here. It’s not something we throw around lightly. It's what many of us live on.
So if you’re a content creator out there sharing luxurious moments like this maybe think twice. Not everyone watching is from Manhattan. Some of us are from Pontianak, or Jakarta, or Surabaya. Some of us are watching from small homes, budgeting every meal, and wondering if we’ll have enough for next week.
Viewer discretion is advised. That’s all I’m saying.
As an Indonesian, I couldn’t help but feel a wave of mixed emotions watching that clip. My immediate thought? “That’s what most people in my country earn in a month.”
Yes, you read that right. The average monthly salary for many Indonesians is around $300 USD, sometimes even less. That amount can cover groceries, bills, school expenses, and daily needs for an entire family of three or more for weeks. So seeing someone spend it in less than an hour on a solo dinner felt... honestly, a bit crazy to me.
I’m not saying people shouldn’t enjoy their money. If you work hard and want to treat yourself, go for it. I respect that. But there’s something about flaunting it on social media especially in a world where so many people are struggling that just feels a little tone-deaf.
Was the video meant to inspire others? Or was it more about showing off a lifestyle that most people will never afford? It’s hard to tell. But one thing’s for sure it made me reflect deeply on the huge economic gap between different parts of the world.
In Indonesia, many families budget carefully each day just to make ends meet. Every rupiah matters. We compare prices, plan meals, and make sacrifices. So seeing someone casually drop millions of rupiah on a single meal and treat it like no big deal comes off as a little offensive and even disturbing.
I’m not here to judge the person in the video. Maybe he’s from a wealthy family. Maybe he saved up for that experience. That’s his right. But from a Southeast Asian point of view, I just want to say: $300 is a big deal here. It’s not something we throw around lightly. It's what many of us live on.
So if you’re a content creator out there sharing luxurious moments like this maybe think twice. Not everyone watching is from Manhattan. Some of us are from Pontianak, or Jakarta, or Surabaya. Some of us are watching from small homes, budgeting every meal, and wondering if we’ll have enough for next week.
Viewer discretion is advised. That’s all I’m saying.
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I can understand that. Watching people spend that kind of money on one meal makes me feel the same way. Between my daughter and I we make about $3000 a month and our rent is $950 a month. So I couldn't imagine spending what I would spend in a month on groceries for just one meal.
ReplyDeleteOh really.
DeleteFYI, 1 US Dollar = 16,260 Indonesian Rupiah in today's exchange rate.
So, in other words, $950 a month is equal to about 15,200,000 Rupiah in Indonesia.
If you were to use that $950 to rent a house here, not just for a month but for a full year, you could get a pretty nice place—a fancy house with at least two bedrooms, a garage, and more.
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