Tag : Internet - Asep Haryono | Floating City in the Clouds: Fake or Fata Morgana? - Powered by Blogger

Have you ever scrolled through your phone and come across a strange video showing a city floating in the clouds? Like... literally a whole city in the sky? Well, that exact thing happened in China back in 2015, and it freaked a lot of people out!

In a place called Foshan, Guangdong Province, people looked up and saw what looked like tall buildings hovering above the clouds. It was like a scene from a sci-fi movie. A few days later, folks in Jiangxi Province also reported seeing something similar. Videos went viral fast with comments ranging from “What the heck is this?!” to “Aliens are coming!”

Some people said it looked like a ghost city floating in the sky. Others called it a real-life version of Studio Ghibli’s “Castle in the Sky.” No matter how you look at it, the scene was seriously wild.

Floating city in the clouds: Fake or fata morgana?
Photo taken from CNN Youtube Channel

Real or Just a Fancy Illusion?

So… what was it really?.Some say it was a hoax a clever video edit meant to stir up social media hype. Others believe it was a rare natural phenomenon called Fata Morgana. Sounds like a cool name for a magic trick, right?

Wait, What’s Fata Morgana?

Let me explain it the simple way. Fata Morgana is basically a mirage like when you're driving on a hot road and it looks like there’s water ahead, but it’s not really there. In this case, the sky acts like a mirror and bends light in weird ways. So a real city

Illustration taken from Top Fives Youtube Channel

far away can appear in the sky, stretched or floating like magic.

Some experts say that’s what happened in Foshan. The atmosphere played a trick on everyone, making buildings from a nearby area appear in the sky. Trippy, huh?

But Still… It Looked Too Real

Honestly, when I watched the video, it didn’t feel like a blurry mirage. The buildings looked sharp and solid like you could touch them. That’s probably why so many people still believe it was something else. A government hologram test? A glitch in the matrix? Something spiritual?

Who knows!

My Opinions
Whether it was a rare trick of the light or something more mysterious, the “floating city” in China is one of those stories that makes you stop and wonder: how much of what we see can we really trust?

It might not have been an alien city or a sign from the sky but it sure made a lot of us look up. Have you ever seen anything like this before? Or would you believe it if you did? 

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Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | Irony or Insult? Netanyahu Nominates Trump for the Nobel Peace Prize - Powered by Blogger

So, here’s something that actually happened on July 7, 2025, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu nominated Donald Trump for the Nobel Peace Prize. Yep. That Nobel. The one meant to recognize people who’ve contributed meaningfully to peace and human dignity.

And who delivers the nomination? Netanyahu himself a man who’s been at the center of military campaigns, deadly airstrikes on Gaza, and decades of a brutal occupation of Palestine. I mean… seriously?

The Nobel Peace Prize medal in gold, featuring Alfred Nobel’s profile, displayed against a blurred background of the U.S. and Israeli flags

It’s almost too ironic to be real.

Let’s give Trump some credit where it’s due: he did help broker the Abraham Accords. Sure, they brought Israel and a few Arab countries closer diplomatically. But peace? A real peace? Not for the Palestinians. The people who’ve lived under occupation, blockades, and bombardment for over 75 years are still suffering. The core issue the illegal occupation of Palestine hasn’t moved an inch.

So, when Netanyahu publicly hands over a Peace Prize nomination to Trump in front of cameras, it’s more than just political theater. It feels like a gut punch to justice. A man whose own hands are far from clean in any conversation about peace, nominating another man whose peace legacy is… well, debatable at best.

And that’s why so many people around the world are rolling their eyes or worse. One viral comment summed it up perfectly:

Netanyahu nominate Trump to achive Peace Nobel Prize in front of reporters, praising his role in supporting peace initiatives, The world could nominate Netanyahu to achieve Destruction Nobel Prize remembering his role in Genocide initiatives in Gaza and illegal occupation of Palestine.”

Let’s be real this isn’t just about awards or recognition. It’s about what message we send to the world. If war criminals and occupiers can throw around Nobel nominations like party favors, where does that leave the people still living under drones, checkpoints, and rubble?


Some might say, "Relax, it’s just a nomination." But it’s more than that. It’s symbolic. It’s tone-deaf. A\nd to many, it’s an insult to the memory of those killed, displaced, or silenced by policies both Trump and Netanyahu have backed

It’s 2025, and the world is still watching Gaza burn. Still watching settlements expand. Still hearing stories of Palestinian children buried under the weight of this so-called “peace.”

So yeah Irony or insult?
You decide. But as for me, I’m not buying the show.
And I know I’m not alone. 

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Tag : entertainment, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Remembering Tommy Page. Before he died, He Used To Meet his fans in Indonesia in 2013 - Powered by Blogger

 If you grew up in the late ‘80s or early ‘90s, you probably know the name Tommy Page. He was the guy with the soft voice, sweet smile, and touching love songs that made many people feel special. For a lot of fans, his song “A Shoulder To Cry On” was the background music of their teenage years. But Tommy Page was more than just a singer he was a kind soul, a music lover, and a person with a deep connection to his fans, especially in Indonesia.

Who Was Tommy Page?

Tommy Page was born on May 24, 1970, in Glen Ridge, New Jersey, USA. His full name was Thomas Alden Page. He started singing in clubs in New York when he was still very young, and it didn’t take long before he got noticed. He became famous after releasing “I’ll Be Your Everything” in 1990, a song he co-wrote with members of New Kids on the Block (NKOTB). That song reached number 1 on the Billboard chart!

Some people thought he was part of NKOTB, but that’s not true. He worked closely with them and even opened for their concerts, but he was always a solo singer.

A Star With A Big Heart
Tommy wasn’t just a one-hit wonder. He had other beautiful songs like “A Shoulder to Cry On”, “Paintings in My Mind”, and “When I Dream of You”. His songs were soft, romantic, and full of emotions and fans loved him for that.

What made Tommy extra special was his connection to fans. He wasn’t a superstar with a big ego. He stayed humble and often met his fans in person. In fact, he said many times that Indonesia was like his second home.

A memorable moment was when the singer of A Shoulder to Cry On, Tommy Page, was warmly welcomed at Soekarno-Hatta Airport, Tangerang, Banten, on Wednesday, November 13th, 2013, at 14:00 WIB. His concert in Indonesia was clearly something his fans had been eagerly waiting for.

All photos taken from BeritaSatu Youtube Channel

His Visits to Indonesia
Tommy visited Indonesia many times, even before he became super famous. He said he had been to the country about 20 times in the early 1990s! Later, in 2013, he returned for a special concert in Jakarta and Surabaya. Fans were thrilled! He also did meet-and-greet events in 2015 and performed again in Solo and Jakarta in 2016. He always said Indonesian fans were loyal and respectful.

"Some well-known international singers (other than Tommy Page) who came to Indonesia and left unforgettable memories include Selena Gomez (2016), Katy Perry (2012), Shawn Mendes (2019), Ed Sheeran (2024), Coldplay (2023), and Lenka Kripac the singer of “Trouble Is a Friend” who visited in 2009, 2011, and 2013.

And of course, Tommy Page will always have a special place in the hearts of Indonesian fans. But as this list shows, many international artists have also felt the love and warmth of performing here". 

His Personal Life
Tommy Page was openly gay and lived a happy life with his partner, Charlie, and their three children. He was proud of his family and often shared how much he loved them. Later in life, he worked behind the scenes in the music industry, helping young artists and even becoming a music executive at Billboard and Pandora.

His Sad Goodbye
On March 3, 2017, Tommy Page passed away at the age of 46. His death was ruled as suicide, and it was reported that he had been dealing with depression. His passing shocked many people around the world, especially his fans in Asia.

Even though he is no longer with us, Tommy Page’s voice and music still live on. His songs continue to comfort, inspire, and bring back sweet memories. He may be gone, but he will always be remembered not just as a singer, but as a gentle soul who touched many hearts.

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Bagaimana Supaya Kamu Tidak Menjadi Korban Scammer - Powered by Blogger

Mencari teman hidup atau jodoh sudah lazim saat ini di seluruh penjuru dunia. Ini sudah bukan menjadi rahasia umum lagi. Sudah hal yang lazim di jaman serba online sekarang ini, orang mencari informasi apa saja sudah tersedia dengan mudah. Hanya dengan mengetikkan keyword (kata kunci) maka informasi yang kita ingin sudah terhampar di depan mata. Apa pun yang anda inginkan , informasi dengan derasnya begitu mudah didapatkan.

Bagaimana Supaya Kamu Tidak Menjadi Korban Scammer

Namun demikian bahaya akan selalu datang mengintai di sekitar kita. Salah satunya adalah banyaknya Scammer (penipu) di dunia maya. Ada banyak sekali jenis dan tipe para penipu inil. Dan kamu harus waspada terhaoap trik licik mereka yang selalu punya cara baru untuk menjerat anda masuk menjadi korban penipuan mereka. Apa itu di Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, Youtube, WhatsApp, hingga website. Yang namanya penipu ada di sekitar kita yang siap mengintai kapan saja

Romance Scammer (Penipu Asmara)
Apa itu Romance Scammer atau Penipus Asmara? Sahabat bisa mencari sendiri informasinya di Google. Yang ingin saya bagikan di sini adalah resiko atau bahaya bahaya yang bisa anda temui jika bersosialisasi di sosial Media seperti di Facebook, Telegram, WhatsApp, atau website. Saya coba bahas sedikit untuk Jenis penipuan yang satu ini.

Bagi mereka yang kebetulan “jomblo bahagia” mungkin tidak ada masalah, namun bagaimana mereka yang sudah kebelet kepengen cari lawan jenis untuk dijadikan teman hidup, teman kencan, atau apa lah (Saya sendiri tidak menganjurkan –red), ini adalah urusan pribadi kamu. I have nothing to do with that issue. Saya hanya coba membagi bahaya bahaya apa saja yang mungkin kamu dapatkan jika mendapati penipu jenis ini, Romance Scammer

Saya mau bertanya. Apa kamu sering mengunjungi Tinder, atau applikasi pencari teman , atau mengunjungi dating service atau situs kencan? Atau mencari pasangan di saluran Telegram, IG atau apa saja? Saya hanya bertanya saja. No offended please (mohon tidak tersinggung ya brader). Nah scammer sudah bercokol di sana. Mereka.

Mereka pada umumnya, dan seringnya menggunakan foto profil orang lain (Bukan fotonya sendiri), dan sudah pasti tanpa izin. Nah para penipu ini berpura pura menjadi seorang gadis, dengan tubuh aduhai (maaf), semuanya hanya untuk menarik kamu masuk dalam jebakan “asmara” nya. Tujuannya bisa bermacam macam. Scammer mengintai kantong atau uang kamu, atau kamu menjadi korban scamming mereka. Ini yang harus diwaspadai. Akan saya bahas di judul yang laind ari artikel saya hari ini

Pertanyaannya adalah “Bagaimana supaya Kamu tidak terjebak menjadi Korban para Scammer di Internet”? Yuk saya coba bahas singkat saja dalam artikel ini. Beberapa materi saya petik dari sumber sumber lain

Waspada Tipu Daya Para Scammer
Seperti yang sudah saya sebut di atas, mencari teman baru dari platform media sosial sangat umum saat ini baik untuk pengembangan pribadi atau karir seperti mendapatkan kesempatan baru untuk bekerja di luar negeri dan banyak lagi tujuan lainnya. . Namun suatu ketika, dengan maksut dan alasan tertentu, orang bisa jatuh ke dalam masalah pribadi seperti mencari teman hidup, pasangan hidup di sosial media atau melalui situs situs pencarian teman.

Menemukan pasangan seumur hidup baru bisa menjadi masalah yang sangat serius bagi mereka yang tidak tahu aturan dasar tentang cara berhubungan dengan orang yang baru dikenal di sosial media/ Apa pun alasannya, jangan mudah terjebak atau percaya begitu saja kepada orang yang baru kamu kenal di Internet. Ini saja dahulu kunci utama keselamatan anda. Nah ada beberapa TRIK para Scammer (Penipu) yang bisa kamu pelajari, waspadai, dan hindari jika menemukan gejala gejala mereka akan melakukan ini 

Tawaran Pekerjaan Mudah Gaji Besar 
Nah ini adalah salah satu Trik para Scammer untuk mejebak kamu masuk menjadi korban mereka. Sebenarnya bisa panjang kamau membahas ini, dan tidak akan cukup 1 hari. Namun saya coba rangkum saja ya.
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Nah untuk jenis Penipuan ini, Jika kamu misalnya saat ini sedang mencari pekerjaan, lalu kamu bertemu seseorang yang baru anda kenal di sosial media (Linkedin, WhatsAppa, Telegram atau apa saja sosial media-red) lalu menawarkan kepada kamiu Pekerjaan Mudah dengan Gaji Besar di dalam atau di luar Negeri, tanpa pengalaman kerja, , tanpa dokumen, nah waspadalah. Kamu sedang dipancing masuk dalam jebakan perdagangan manusia.

Sebagai contoh aja ya. Sebagai ilustrasi. Kamu mendapatkan tawaran pekerjaan sebagai penjaga Toko. Misalnya ya. Di Inggris Kamu hanya diminta menyediakan Passport, Koper (Pakaian kamu) saja Semua sudah beres ditanggung oleh Agen Pencari Kerja yang anda kenal itu. Baik Tiket Pesawat Pergi Pulang, Akomodasi, Penhginapan, dan Gaji Besar. Semua dokumen mereka yang urus. Dan ini serius banyak terjadi sekarang. Mereka lah korban perdagangan manusia atau bahasa kerennya adalah Human Trafficking

Begitu anda tiba di Bandara Inggris, anda akan dijemput oleh Agen Pencari kerja, dan Handphone dan Passpor anda akan disita oleh mereka. Kamu akan dibawa ke mobil untuk di bawa ke sebuah tempat atau Gedung dan anda akan ditahan di sana. Anda akan disuruh kerja 24 jam tanpa Gaji.

Passpor dan HP kamu kan sudah ada pada mereka. Nah para Agen Pencari Kerja inilah yang akan menghubungi Keluarga anda di Indonesia, bahwa anda sudah menjadi tahanan mereka, dan akan dilepaskan jika membayar tebusan ratusan juta rupiah. Jika tidak, maka anak mereka akan menjadi budak mereka se umur hidup.

Yang lebih mengerikan lagi jika para korban Trafficking ini di "jual" lagi kepada agen lainya, dan bahkan ada laporan yang menyebutkan mereka diambil organ. Berangkat mencari peruntungan di luar negeri, dengan penuh harapan akan kehidupan yang lebih baik ternyata jadi korban penipuan dan pulang sudah dalam keadaan tidak bernyawa. 

Nah ini saja contoh sederhana apa yang terjadi jika kamu menjadi korban Perdagangan Manusia dengan iming iming pekerjaan. Mengerikan tentunya bukan

Termasuk lkamu sebaiknya tidak memberikan informasi penting rahasia kepada orang yang baru kamu kenal di sosial media seperti nomor rekening Bank, atau diminta mengirim foto foto syur kamu kepada orang yang kamu kenal baru di Internet. Ingat Scammer bisa menjadi apa saja, mau jadi cewek bohay sekalipun bisa mereka. Nah jika kamu melewatri batas seperti mengirim intimate picture, bisa jadi kamu akan menjadi korban Blackmail (pemerasan) yang menuntut tebusan.

Sebenarnya masih banyak lagi TRIK TRIK dari para scammer yang akan menakutkan kalau saya bahas semuanya di sini. Mungkin dilain kesempatan Insya Allah akan saya sampaikan dalam tema tema yang lain. Kejahatan dunia maya memang nyata dan selalu mengintai kelemahan kita. Para scammer ini cerdik dan selalu memiliki cara baru untuk memancing kamu masuk ke dalam perangkap kejahatan mereka. Keterbatasan waktu jugalah, bahkan kamu juga pastinya akan bosan jika artike lini terlalu panjang. 

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Tag : curahanhati, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Why Do Westerners Kiss So Much? A Cultural Perspective from My Eyes - Powered by Blogger

I’ve watched countless Western movies romantic comedies, family dramas, even light-hearted sitcoms and one thing keeps catching my attention: kissing everywhere. Not just between lovers, but sometimes between friends, neighbors, or even family members. And I’m not just talking about a polite kiss on the cheek sometimes it’s a real kiss on the lips! As someone from Indonesia, I couldn't help but wonder, "Is this really how they live in real life?"

I try to find out and dive into this fascinating part of Western culture and see what’s really going on.

Minimal illustration of people kissing in different relationships on a beige background

First, Not All Kisses Mean Romance
In many Western cultures, kissing isn’t always romantic. Shocking, I know. In places like France, Italy, or Spain, greeting someone with a kiss on the cheek is totally normal even between men. It’s kind of like our handshake, but more personal. It says, “Hey, we’re close. We’re comfortable.” You’ll see this mostly between friends or family.

But here’s the twist: in the U.S. or U.K., cheek kissing isn’t as common. People usually greet with hugs, waves, or just “Hey!” Still, in some families, a quick kiss on the lips between a parent and child might happen. It’s not romantic—it’s just their way of expressing love.

Friends and Neighbors? Not So Fast…
Movies can exaggerate things. In real life, Westerners don’t usually kiss their friends or neighbors on the lips. If you see that in a film, it’s likely for drama or comedy. While friends might hug, cheek kiss, or do a “kiss on the air” (where their cheeks touch but lips don’t), lip kissing is rare outside romantic relationships or certain family dynamics.

So no your average American or Brit isn't kissing their neighbor on the lips after borrowing some sugar.

"Just like hugs. Hugs in Western culture can mean many things depending on the context. They’re often used to show support, gratitude, comfort, or friendship. In emotional situations like helping someone in need a hug can express what words can’t. It’s a deep, human connection. 

Not all hugs are romantic; many are just gestures of kindness and empathy. I saw in this video how a pregnant homeless woman hugged her helpers it really touched me. That kind of hug is called a gratitude hug, and it’s very common in the West. It's beautiful how a simple hug can mean so much.

In Indonesia, public displays of affection like hugging and kissing even between husband and wife are generally considered inappropriate, offensive, and disturbing to many. Such acts are usually kept private due to cultural and religious values that prioritize modesty and public decency..

Public Displays of Affection
One thing that’s definitely different from Indonesian culture is how public displays of affection (PDA) are viewed. In Western countries, it’s quite normal to see couples holding hands, hugging, or even kissing in public. Most people won’t stare or make a big deal out of it. But in more conservative or traditional societies (like ours), public affection might be seen as disrespectful or inappropriate.

A Cultural Reminder.What’s “normal” in one culture can be “shocking” in another. In Indonesia, physical touch is often reserved for close family or romantic partners—and even then, it’s mostly private. Meanwhile, in the West, showing affection physically is often a sign of openness, honesty, or comfort, not necessarily intimacy.

Kissing on the cheek or lips doesn't always carry the same meaning everywhere.

As someone who grew up in a culture where even holding hands can be controversial, watching these cultural differences play out on screen has been eye-opening. At first, I was confused. Then a bit shocked. But now I understand it’s not about being “too open” or “too loose.” It’s just a different way of expressing love and connection.

Culture shapes how we act, love, and even kiss.
Understanding those differences helps us see the world with more respect and less judgment.

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Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | Accused of Stealing Bread Because of a Lookalike - Powered by Blogger

I just watched a video from Indonesia titled “Emosi Food Vlogger Dituduh Curi Lapis Legit Gegara Mukanya Mirip, Kesal Banyak Komentar Maling” (Food Vlogger Accused of Stealing Layer Cake Because of Her Similar Face, Upset About Many Thief Comments) by Tribun Sumsel.

The point is: a lady is angry because many people accused her of being a thief not because there’s proof, but simply because she looks like the person suspected of stealing in the video.

Imagine you’re a food vlogger your world revolves around good eats, trying out new restaurants, sharing recipes, and snapping drool-worthy food pics. Life is good, right? But then, out of nowhere, you're being called a thief. Not because anyone caught you in the act. Not because there’s any real \evidence. But because someone who kind of looks like you was seen in a blurry CCTV clip… stealing bread.

Yep, that actually happened. And honestly?
That’s not just frustrating it’s totally unfair.


Mistaken Identity: A Real Problem
We’ve all heard stories about people getting mistaken for someone else. It happens. People can share similar features, wear the same hairstyle, or dress alike. That doesn’t mean they’re guilty of a crime. But in this case, a female food vlogger got caught in a whirlwind of accusations just because her face resembled someone caught on grainy security footage.

This kind of mistaken identity is more than just awkward it can be dangerous. Especially in today’s online world where judgment happens fast and facts come way later.

As soon as the clip started making the rounds, the internet did what it always does people went wild. Commenters flooded the vlogger’s pages, calling her names, accusing her of being a thief, and basically trashing her character. No trial. No context. \Just instant judgment based on shaky footage and a hunch. Let’s be real here: social media isn’t the place to decide who’s guilty or innocent. Yet people treat it like it’s the ultimate courtroom. That rush to judge? It’s reckless. And it can ruin someone’s life.

Now think about what that must feel like. You’re minding your business, maybe editing a cute food video, when you open your phone and find a storm of hate comments. You’re being called dishonest and shady all for something you didn’t do.

That kind of public attack can seriously mess with someone’s mental health. Anxiety. Shame. Fear. It’s enough to make anyone want to disappear from the internet completely. And for what? A case of mistaken identity?

We’ve Gotta Do Better
Before we slam someone with accusations or hit “send” on that angry comment, let’s take a step back and ask ourselves: Do I actually know what happened? Could this be a misunderstanding? What if this person isn’t the one in the video?

Because if we’re wrong and there’s a good chance we might be we could be contributing to the destruction of someone’s peace, reputation, and career. All because we acted too fast. The food vlogger didn’t steal bread. She just happens to resemble someone who might have. That’s not a crime that’s just an unlucky coincidence.

So instead of jumping on the hate train, how about offering some support? Or, at the very least, giving her the benefit of the doubt until there’s actual proof?

Let’s choose kindness over chaos.
The internet has enough trolls already. 

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Tag : Wisata Kuliner - Asep Haryono | My Honest Reaction to “POV. Solo Fine Dining at an Exclusive Restaurant” short video on Youtube - Powered by Blogger

The other day, I came across a TikTok video by a user named @AmericanTurk, who showed off his fancy solo dinner at a high-end restaurant in New York City. His video tittle “POV. Solo Fine Dining at an Exclusive Restaurant” What caught my attention wasn’t the food itself  though yes, it looked great but the price tag. He spent $300 (about 3.3 million Rupiah) for one meal… and he was dining alone.

As an Indonesian, I couldn’t help but feel a wave of mixed emotions watching that clip. My immediate thought? “That’s what most people in my country earn in a month.”

Yes, you read that right. The average monthly salary for many Indonesians is around $300 USD, sometimes even less. That amount can cover groceries, bills, school expenses, and daily needs for an entire family of three or more for weeks. So seeing someone spend it in less than an hour on a solo dinner felt... honestly, a bit crazy to me.

I’m not saying people shouldn’t enjoy their money. If you work hard and want to treat yourself, go for it. I respect that. But there’s something about flaunting it on social media especially in a world where so many people are struggling that just feels a little tone-deaf.

Was the video meant to inspire others? Or was it more about showing off a lifestyle that most people will never afford? It’s hard to tell. But one thing’s for sure it made me reflect deeply on the huge economic gap between different parts of the world.

In Indonesia, many families budget carefully each day just to make ends meet. Every rupiah matters. We compare prices, plan meals, and make sacrifices. So seeing someone casually drop millions of rupiah on a single meal and treat it like no big deal comes off as a little offensive and even disturbing.

I’m not here to judge the person in the video. Maybe he’s from a wealthy family. Maybe he saved up for that experience. That’s his right. But from a Southeast Asian point of view, I just want to say: $300 is a big deal here. It’s not something we throw around lightly. It's what many of us live on.

So if you’re a content creator out there sharing luxurious moments like this maybe think twice. Not everyone watching is from Manhattan. Some of us are from Pontianak, or Jakarta, or Surabaya. Some of us are watching from small homes, budgeting every meal, and wondering if we’ll have enough for next week.

Viewer discretion is advised. That’s all I’m saying.

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Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | Why Do Foreigners Speak So Many Languages? - Powered by Blogger

I’ve always found this both funny and fascinating. I’ve watched many enutertaining YouTube videos like Just for Laughs: Gags, What Would You Do (WWYD), and Australian Border Force. These videos not only entertain me but also help me practice my English listening skills because I’m still on my English journey, by the way.

One hilarious video I recently watched was from BigDawsTV, titled “GOOGLE TRANSLATE GONE WRONG PRANK!!” It really made me laugh out loud. If you haven’t seen it, I highly recommend searching for it on YouTube. Just type the title in the search bar you won’t miss it!

This image taken from BigDawsTV Youtube Channel

But while watching it, something interesting popped into my head as an English learner: “Why are these foreigners able to speak so many different languages besides English?” They already speak English fluently so what motivates or enables them to speak French, Spanish, Arabic, or Chinese as well? That curiosity pushed me to dig deeper into the topic.

Why Foreigners Speak Multiple Languages
The more I researched and reflected, the more I realized that being multilingual isn’t just about being “smart.” There are actual reasons why some people learn foreign languages easily. It mostly comes down to environment, early exposure, necessity, and motivation.

In many countries especially in Europe and parts of Africa it’s normal for people to grow up speaking two or three languages. In places like Switzerland or Belgium, you’ll find children speaking French, German, Dutch, and English from a very young age. Their schools teach multiple languages, their neighbors speak different dialects, and crossing the border often means switching languages. It becomes a natural part of life.

Many of them also start early as kids which gives them a head start. Their brains absorb different sounds and structures more easily than adults do. And let’s not forget that many people are naturally curious and love learning languages just for fun, culture, or travel.

The Difference: Foreign Language vs. Second Language
This brings me to the terms “second language” and “foreign language”, which are often misunderstood. So what’s the difference?

• Learning English as a Second Language (ESL) means I am learning English in a country where it is spoken daily like the U.S., UK, Canada, or Australia. People in that situation are surrounded by English, so they need to use it to work, study, shop, or socialize. It becomes part of their daily survival.

• On the other hand, learning English as a Foreign Language (EFL) means I am learning English in a country where it is not used every day like my country,Indonesia. That’s my case. I don’t use English at the market, at school, or while talking with neighbors. I have to actively seek out English by watching YouTube, reading, or writing blog posts like this one.

That’s what makes my journey different. I’m learning English as a foreign language, and I need to create opportunities to practice. It’s not always easy, but it’s definitely rewarding.

This is me with the Collins COBUILD English Dictionary. I’ll share the background story of this dictionary in my next blog post. This photo was taken a few years ago at my home

My Language Learning Journey
So no, I didn’t grow up speaking five languages. But that’s okay. I’m proud to say I’m learning English step by step from Indonesia, on my own terms. Watching videos, reading articles, blogging, and engaging online all help me make progress.

Every new word I learn is a small victory. I might not be fluent in several languages (yet), but I enjoy the process. And for me, that’s what really matters.


Are you learning English like me where it’s not spoken around you every day?

Or are you living in a place where English is part of daily life?

I’d love to hear your story. Leave a comment below, and feel free to share this post with fellow learners!

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, Travelling - Asep Haryono | Things Foreign Tourists Always Ask About Indonesia - Powered by Blogger

As someone living in Indonesia and often chatting with people from around the world, I’ve noticed something fun: foreign tourists are really curious about my country. Whether they’re messaging me online or coming here for the first time, they often ask similar questions. Some of them are funny, others are thoughtful, and many show just how little the world really knows about Indonesia. So I thought why not write about it?

One of the most common things people say is, “So… Bali is Indonesia, right?” That one always makes me smile. Bali is indeed part of Indonesia, but it’s just one of over 17,000 islands! It’s kind of like saying Paris is the same as Europe. Bali is stunning, no doubt, but there are so many other beautiful places in Indonesia like Yogyakarta, Lombok, Labuan Bajo, and Raja Ampat. There’s a whole world to discover here beyond just Bali’s beaches and cafes.

Another question I get a lot is about language. “Do people speak English in Indonesia?” Well, the answer is yes sometimes. In touristy areas, sure, many locals speak basic English, especially those working in hospitality. But in more rural or everyday places, it’s mostly Bahasa Indonesia. Some even speak their own regional languages, like Javanese or Sundanese. Still, tourists who learn just a few local words like “terima kasih” (thank you) usually earn a big smile from locals.

Religion also comes up a lot. “Is Indonesia a Muslim country?” people ask. It’s true that Indonesia has the largest Muslim population in the world, but we’re not a religious state like Saudi Arabia. Indonesia officially recognizes six religions, and we live quite peacefully with each other. You’ll see mosques next to churches, Hindu temples, and even Buddhist monasteries. That’s one thing I really love about our country it’s so diverse.

I used to be a licensed tour guide in West Kalimantan for over 10 years. During that time, I guided many tourists, both in groups and individually. This photo was taken in April 2020  quite a while ago when I was guiding two tourists from different countries: Miss Jen (left) from Manila, the Philippines, and John (middle) from Canada. We took this photo together at Istana Kadriyah in Pontianak

And of course, there's the food question. Everyone wants to know what Indonesian food is like. I always say: spicy, flavorful, and full of surprises! Whether it’s nasi goreng, rendang, sate, or gado-gado, our dishes are packed with taste. But beware of sambal our chili sauce. It may look innocent, but it can light your mouth on fire if you’re not used to it!

When it comes to what to wear, tourists are often unsure. Can they wear shorts or bikinis? In places like Bali or beach resorts, that’s completely fine. But in smaller towns or religious sites, modest clothing is more appropriate. Indonesians are generally very polite, and they appreciate it when visitors respect local customs, even in small ways.

Safety is another big concern. Tourists often ask if Indonesia is safe, and I’d say yes, for the most part. As in any country, there are places where you should be careful, especially in busy city areas. But overall, Indonesians are warm, kind, and happy to help. Just use common sense watch your belongings, avoid political protests, and don’t wander around alone late at night.

People also wonder how we get around in such a big country. Well, we’ve got everything Grab and Gojek (like Uber), buses, ferries, and even low-cost domestic flights. In Jakarta, we have a growing MRT system, though traffic jams are still part of daily life. If you're visiting, just prepare for some delays and stay patient.

What I really wish people knew is that Indonesia is more than palm trees and volcanoes. It’s a living, breathing place full of stories, culture, humor, and heart. If you’re planning to visit, I hope you go beyond the tourist hotspots, talk to locals, and experience something real. And no we don’t ride elephants to school. That one still makes me laugh every time.

So, have you ever been to Indonesia?
Or maybe you’re planning a trip?
I’d love to hear your thoughts or questions.

Let’s chat in the comments!

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Wisata Kuliner - Asep Haryono | What Happened to the Internet’s Most Dramatic Chef? Salt Bae: ? - Powered by Blogger

Remember when Salt Bae, real name Nusret Gökçe, was everywhere? Sprinkling salt like a magician, flexing in tight white tees, and slicing golden tomahawk steaks at your favorite celebrity’s table? Yeah, those days were wild. But if you’ve been wondering what happened to him lately, you’re not alone.

Here’s a quick update on the rise, stall, and pivot of Salt Bae and his restaurant empire.

Big Dreams in the U.S. But Not for Long
Salt Bae’s flashy Nusr-Et steakhouse chain once had a big presence in the United States. From Miami to Beverly Hills, his restaurants attracted influencers, football stars, and curious foodies. But in 2025, that all changed. Locations in Dallas, Las Vegas, and Beverly Hills all quietly shut down. As of now, only New York City and Miami are still open.

Why the sudden exit? Overpriced steaks (some over $200), stiff service charges, and mixed food reviews didn’t help. Customers started calling it overrated. One former diner even called the experience “insane” on Reddit and not in a good way

You may also read  Salt Bae - The Kardarshian Steak.


Dubai Still Rules
While his U.S. ventures took a hit, Salt Bae’s Dubai location is still going strong. He personally called it his most important and most profitable restaurant. Clearly, the Gulf region still loves the Salt Bae vibe gold steaks and all.

Shifting the Spotlight: Europe & the Middle East
Salt Bae isn’t giving up. He’s just switching lanes. His next big moves include Mexico City, Rome, Ibiza, and maybe even Monaco. He’s also eyeing spots in Saudi Arabia, including Jeddah, Mecca, and even NEOM, the futuristic mega-city. Interestingly, he recently shut down his Riyadh branch, but says even bigger plans are on the way in the Middle East.

Still Viral But Not Always in a Good Way
Salt Bae still pops up online but not always for steak-slinging. A viral video from Munich in 2025 showed him being escorted away from a Champions League celebration. Many thought he was kicked out of a party, but he denied it. He’s had a few PR hiccups like this over the past year, and it’s starting to chip away at the cool, smooth image he once had.

The Verdict?
So, is Salt Bae done? Not quite. He’s just shifting gears. The U.S. might have grown tired of his glittery gimmicks, but the Middle East and Europe still want more. Dubai remains his stronghold, and with 40 global locations in his sights, he’s far from giving up.

But let’s be honest the magic of that viral 2017 salt sprinkle has faded a bit. Whether or not he can reinvent himself beyond the meme remains to be seen

What do you think\

is Salt Bae still a culinary icon or just a faded meme?
Drop your thoughts in the comments and don’t forget to share this post if it made you hungry or nostalgic

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia

Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | Human Trafficking Still at Large — Be Aware - Powered by Blogger

When we talk about human trafficking, especially cases involving organ harvesting, we’re entering one of the darkest and most disturbing realities in the modern world. While sex trafficking and forced labor are sadly common topics in the news, organ trafficking remains largely underground but it’s happening.

Several recent reports including those featured on YouTube and major online news platforms have exposed shocking stories where victims were not only trafficked for work but ended up being threatened with death or organ removal if they couldn’t pay ransoms. It sounds like a horror movie, but it's real.

This form of transnational trafficking usually begins with fake job offers. Victims are recruited online promised high-paying jobs in Thailand or Malaysia. But once they arrive, their passports are taken, and they’re sent to Cambodia instead, where they are locked in scam compounds and forced to work under threat. Most are made to commit cybercrimes, like online fraud or phishing scams, targeting people from around the world.

Here’s the darkest part: if they fail to meet quotas or their families can’t pay to rescue them, they are told to sell an organ often a kidney to pay their so-called "debt." Some survivors have spoken out, sharing that they received only a fraction of the money while the traffickers kept the rest. In several tragic cases, victims returned home dead and mutilated, their bodies missing vital organs.

One of the most heartbreaking cases is the story of Azwar (32), victim of Human Trafficking go viral on social media in Indonesia ,

Indonesia Study Case
One of the most heartbreaking cases is the story of Azwar (32), a resident of Dusun II, Bunut Village, Asahan Regency, North Sumatra. He dreamed of becoming a singer in Malaysia. In April 2025, he was recruited by a man named Hasan from Medan, who promised him a singing job with a salary of $800 USD. But instead of arriving in Malaysia, Azwar was trafficked to Cambodia and allegedly sold to a scam syndicate.

Trapped in one of these criminal centers, Azwar managed to send video messages and calls to his family, possibly hinting at the abuse he was enduring. Not long after, his family received the devastating news: Azwar had fallen from the third floor of a building. He died in terrible condition, and his death remains suspicious. Was it an accident? Suicide? Or was he killed?

Unfortunately, Azwar is not alone. His story echoes many others. Victims from Indonesia, the Philippines, and Vietnam are being funneled into underground scam networks run by syndicates based in China, Taiwan, or Myanmar, using Southeast Asia as their operations base.

While authorities from Indonesia, Thailand, and Cambodia have begun working with Interpol and ASEAN, these criminal networks move fast and many victims are still unaccounted for. We must stay alert, educate others, and expose these stories. Let Azwar’s tragedy be more than just a headline let it be a wake-up call for stronger protection, harsher punishment for traffickers, and more support for the victims.

What Can You Do?
If someone offers you or someone you know a job overseas that seems "too good to be true," double-check the details. Always go through official government channels and registered agencies. If you suspect a trafficking case whether in your neighborhood or online report it immediately to local authorities or trusted organizations like BP2MI, Komnas Perempuan, or your local police.

Share stories like Azwar’s. Many victims fall into traps simply because they didn’t know the risks. One post, one conversation, can make a difference.

Support the victims. If you can, donate or volunteer with NGOs helping survivors of trafficking. Every bit helps in their recovery. Let Azwar's story open our eyes. Let’s stop pretending this isn’t happening. Together, we can raise awareness, demand justice, and stop the cycle of modern slavery. \

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : International - Asep Haryono | 4th of July: A Celebration Beyond Borders - Powered by Blogger

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Today is the 4th of July the day Americans celebrate their independence from British rule back in 1776. It’s one of the biggest holidays in the United States, full of fireworks, backyard barbecues, red-white-and-blue decorations, parades, and loud music everywhere. But here I am, thousands of miles away in Indonesia, feeling excited too. You know why? Because this celebration isn’t just for Americans. The meaning behind it actually reaches far beyond their borders.

Its me whit the US flag as my background. How was it?

Let me tell you why.
At its heart, the 4th of July is about freedom, independence, and the power of unity. When the 13 original colonies in North America decided to break away from British control, they weren’t just making history for their own people  they were sending a message to the world. That message? People deserve a voice. They deserve to choose their own future. That idea has inspired many other countries since then, including mine.

Even though I’ve never been to the U.S., I’ve watched many Independence Day celebrations online. From big fireworks shows in New York City to the presidential speech in Washington, D.C., the whole country seems to come alive. There’s something about seeing people proudly wave their flags, sing their national anthem, and gather with their friends and family it feels very human, very warm, and very powerful.

But wha\t’s even more interesting is how people outside America also take part in the spirit of the day. You might see locals in other countries wearing American flag t-shirts, joining online discussions, or even hosting small American-themed gatherings just for fun. Businesses around the world also love to join in offering 4th of July sales or promoting U.S. brands. It's like the celebration has become a bit of a global thing!

Of course, there’s more to it than just fireworks and hot dogs. The 4th of July reminds us to look back and appreciate the struggles people went through for their freedom. It also invites us to think about how we can protect those values in our own communities. After all, freedom isn't something that should only belong to one country it’s a shared dream, and something we all should cherish and fight for, no matter where we live.

You  guys may also read "A Quick History Break And Fun Fact Of 4th Of July

As someone from Indonesia, I might not celebrate the 4th of July with a picnic or sparklers, but I do feel a connection. It reminds me of our own independence day on August 17th  the pride, the history, the hope for a better future. Different dates, same feelings.

So whether you're American or not, maybe today you can take a moment to reflect on what independence and freedom mean to you. You don’t need fireworks to celebrate that. Just appreciating the idea and remembering how far we’ve all come as nations that’s already something powerful.

Happy 4th of July to all my American friends out there  and to everyone around the globe who believes in freedom, equality, and unity.

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"