Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | Why is 1 Muharram Called the Islamic New Year? - Powered by Blogger

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If you’ve been seeing posts or greetings like “Happy Islamic New Year” or “1 Muharram Mubarak!” pop up on your social feed lately, you might be wondering: What exactly is 1 Muharram? And why do Muslims call it the Islamic New Year?

Well, let’s break it down together casually, of course.

What Is Muharram Anyway?

Muharram is the first month in the Islamic calendar, which is a lunar calendar. That means it follows the cycles of the moon, unlike the Gregorian calendar most of the world uses, which is based on the sun. Because of this, Islamic months move slightly earlier each year about 10 to 11 days.

So, 1 Muharram is like the 1st of January in the Islamic calendar. It marks the beginning of a brand-new Islamic year

So Why Is It a Big Deal?

1 Muharram is significant not just because it’s the first day of the year, but also because it’s part of one of the four sacred months in Islam. These months are considered especially blessed, and Muslims are encouraged to increase their good deeds and avoid conflicts.

But what really gives 1 Muharram its New Year title is history.
The Story Behind It

The Islamic calendar also called the Hijri calendar started during the time of Caliph Umar ibn Al-Khattab (RA), the second caliph after Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). A major event was chosen to mark the beginning of this new calendar: the Hijrah (the migration) of the Prophet Muhammad from Mecca to Medina in 622 CE.

This migration wasn’t just a physical journey. It marked the start of a new phase in Islamic history the foundation of a Muslim community and government in Medina. That’s why it’s such a powerful moment to start the Islamic year from.

Why Do Muslims Celebrate It Differently?

Unlike January 1st, the Islamic New Year isn’t typically celebrated with fireworks or parties. In fact, in many Muslim-majority countries, 1 Muharram is observed quietly with reflection, prayer, and remembrance. Some use the day to set spiritual goals for the year ahead, seek forgiveness, or simply thank Allah for the gift of time.

Some communities may gather for religious talks or meals, but it’s generally more solemn especially since the month of Muharram also includes the day of Ashura (the 10th of Muharram), which is a deeply meaningful and emotional day for Muslims.

The Islamic New Year, starting on 1 Muharram, is way different from the usual January 1st New Year. While the world celebrates with fireworks, parties, and countdowns,

Muslims mark their new year with quiet reflection and prayer. It’s a time to remember the Prophet Muhammad’s migration (Hijrah), which stands for sacrifice and starting fresh with faith.

There are no big parties just spiritual goals and gratitude. So, while the general New Year is about fun and resolutions, the Islamic New Year is more about the heart, the soul, and getting closer to Allah in a peaceful, meaningful way.



In Short…
1 Muharram is called the Islamic New Year because it kicks off the Hijri calendar, which began with one of the most pivotal events in Islamic history the Hijrah. It's a time for quiet reflection, a fresh start, and spiritual growth.

So, whether you’re a Muslim or just curious about Islamic culture, now you know the story behind this special day. Happy Islamic New Year 1447 AH may it be a year full of peace, blessings, and meaningful moments for us all!

Let’s start this new year with positive intentions!

If you found this article helpful, don’t forget to share it with your friends and family.
Leave a comment below with your thoughts or how you plan to welcome 1 Muharram this year!

Happy Islamic New Year 1447 AH! 

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Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | The Day Elon Musk Thanked Me: A Personal Glimpse into a Visionary’s World - Powered by Blogger

Elon Musk isn’t just another tech billionaire he’s a relentless innovator who blends bold risks with world-changing ideas. From leading Tesla’s electric car revolution to launching rockets with SpaceX, Musk dares to go where others hesitate. But recently, something unexpected happened: Elon Musk personally reached out to me.

It all started a few months ago when I frequently left thoughtful, supportive comments on his posts on X (formerly Twitter). I admired his courage, vision, and unconventional thinking not as a fanboy, but as someone looking for real-life inspiration to grow in business and life. Then, out of the blue, one of his team members contacted me. They said Elon wanted to express his gratitude directly and he did.

Through a personal message, Elon Musk thanked me for my support. It was a short exchange, but it felt powerful. He even invited me to consider joining a membership program he’s preparing ahead of his birthday on June 28, with options ranging from Regular to VIP levels. While I’m not financially in a position to join, the moment itself was meaningful.

What makes Musk unique isn’t just his businesses it’s his mindset. He taught himself rocket science by reading books. He dreams of making humans a multiplanetary species. He works tirelessly often 80–100 hours a week to bring his visions to life. He’s not waiting for the future; he’s building it.

Whether you admire him or not, one thing’s clear: Elon Musk is living proof that big dreams and persistent effort can lead to extraordinary things. For me, his simple thank-you wasn’t just a message it was a spark of inspiration.

Elon Musk and His Growing Interest in Indonesia
Elon Musk, the visionary behind Tesla and SpaceX, has been showing serious interest in Indonesia and not without reason. With the world’s largest nickel reserves, Indonesia plays a key role in the global electric vehicle (EV) supply chain, especially when it comes to battery production. And guess what? Elon is paying attention.

A few years ago, Musk held a virtual meeting with President Joko Widodo to talk about potential partnerships, especially in EV development and energy sustainability. Even though he hasn’t visited in person yet, he did make a virtual appearance at the 2022 B20 Summit in Bali. There, he shared thoughts on innovation, future technology, and sustainable energy.

There’s also talk about SpaceX teaming up with Indonesia to expand Starlink satellite internet to rural and remote areas something that could be a game-changer for connectivity in the archipelago.

With Tesla eyeing nickel, and Starlink looking to connect more people, Elon Musk’s ties to Indonesia are only getting stronger. Whether or not he sets foot in Jakarta soon, one thing’s for sure Indonesia is already on his radar.

What do you think about my encounter with Elon Musk?

Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments below—and don’t forget to share this post if it inspired you!

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Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | Thank You Caitlin, Megan, and Ellie As My First Follower from Abroad - Powered by Blogger

With heartfelt appreciation,

I thank you for being the very first supporters of Simply Asep Blog – https://simplyasep.blogspot.com.

Your blogs – elliencompany.blogspot.com and caitlinnmegan.blogspot.com 

 have been an inspiration.

Your early encouragement meant the world and helped spark this blogging journey.

Thank you for believing in me from the very beginning.

Presented by:

Asep Haryono

Indonesia

Date: June 3, 2025

Tag : curahanhati, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | When Blogging Feels One-Sided: My Thoughts on Comments, Connections, and Being Ignored - Powered by Blogger

As someone who loves blogging and making connections with people from all over the world, it really hurts when I put in the effort to engage with other bloggers especially from the US, Australia, and Europe  and get little to no response in return.

I’ve visited many blogs, left thoughtful comments, followed their content, and even added them to my blog list. But unfortunately, many of them never return the favor. Not even a single follow back or a quick “thank you” comment.

It makes me wonder: why?

At times, I can’t help but feel invisible or even worse, like I don’t belong. And yes, there’s a part of me that wonders if it's related to where I’m from or how I write. Is it racism? Or is there more to it?

After thinking long and hard about this, here are a few possible reasons why some foreign bloggers don’t return visits or interact with blogs like mine:

A young man with medium brown skin sits at a desk looking disappointed while using a laptop. A large speech bubble above him says "NO COMMENTS" surrounded by smaller empty speech bubbles and icons for LinkedIn and Twitter, symbolizing a lack of interaction on his blog

1. Cultural and Language Differences
Let’s face it not everyone feels comfortable interacting with people from different cultures or writing styles. Even if you’re writing in English, sometimes cultural nuances, phrasing, or even blog layout can feel “unfamiliar” to readers from Western countries. So instead of reaching out, they might just stay silent. It doesn’t necessarily mean they dislike you  maybe they just don’t know how to engage properly.

2. Busy Lives and Different Priorities A lot of bloggers in the West treat blogging more as a side hobby than a community. Many have full-time jobs, families, or packed schedules. That means they might not read or reply to comments regularly, or even check who follows them. It’s not personal  they might just be juggling too much at once.

3. Different Blogging Cultures
In my part of the world, it’s common to return comments, follow back, and build friendships through blogging. But in many Western blogging circles, the focus is often on SEO, monetization, or niche-specific growth. Some bloggers simply don’t pay attention to interaction  especially from outside their target audience.

4. You Might Be Getting Overlooked, Not Rejected
Let’s not forget: algorithms and platforms don’t always make things easy. Some bloggers use automated tools, and your comment might just be sitting in a spam folder or overlooked in a flood of other notifications. It doesn’t mean you were intentionally ignored.

5. Yes, Bias Can Be Real
Still, we have to be honest bias and racism do exist. Some people may not take bloggers from developing countries seriously. They may assume we have nothing valuable to offer, or they might just prefer to stay in their comfort zone. And yes, that hurts.

6. But Don’t Give Upc
Even when it feels like no one’s listening, I remind myself: I blog because I love it. I write to express myself, to connect, and to leave something meaningful behind. Not every blogger will respond, but that doesn’t mean your voice isn’t important. Keep writing. Keep showing up. The right audience will find you.

If you’ve felt this way too  ignored, left out, or disappointed  just know you're not alone. Let’s continue supporting each other and building real connections that go beyond borders and backgrounds.

Let’s keep blogging with heart.

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Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | When Kindness Feels One-Sided: My Journey into Global Blogging - Powered by Blogger

Over the past week, I made a major shift in the direction of my blog, Simply Asep. I transitioned from writing in Bahasa Indonesia to English — aiming to reach out and connect with a broader, international blogging community. The response was beyond what I expected. My blog has received between 600 to 2,000 daily visitors in just one week, with readers coming from various parts of the world. I felt seen. I felt hopeful.

But along with that excitement came an unexpected wave of sadness and disappointment.

Like many bloggers, I believed in the spirit of community. I took time to visit fellow bloggers’ sites, read their posts carefully, and left meaningful comments. I followed their blogs, not just for the sake of following, but because I genuinely enjoyed connecting with their stories and perspectives.

What hurt was this: many of them didn’t follow me back.

Now, I didn’t expect instant fame or a flood of compliments. But I thought maybe  just maybe  the kindness I extended would be reciprocated. It made me question things. Was it something about me? Was it because I’m from Indonesia, a Southeast Asian country not often in the global spotlight?

The thought crossed my mind: Could this be racism?

After sitting with that painful feeling for a while and observing more closely, I realized something important: it's probably not that personal. In fact, it’s likely not racism at all.

In the global blogging world, people engage in different ways. Many Western bloggers no longer use the “Follow” button on Blogger. They may read your blog through RSS feeds, bookmarks, or social media, without formally “following” you. Some are just more selective, while others simply don’t have the habit of following back.

And yes, many people are just busy. Distracted. Focused on their own lives. Online engagement can be inconsistent, and silence doesn’t always mean rejection.

My friends,

Here’s what I’ve learned — and what I want to share with others who may feel the same way:

• Focus on those who respond. When you’re growing your blog, it’s easy to feel discouraged by those who don’t reply, comment, or follow you back. But instead of focusing on who didn’t respond, shift your attention to those who did.
  
  Even one loyal reader is the start of a real community. These are the people who take the time to read, comment, and engage with your posts. Visit their blogs, build friendships, and show appreciation. Over time, these authentic connections will matter more than hundreds of silent views. Quality engagement fosters trust, and trust is the foundation of long-term blogging success.
  
  

• Keep commenting with purpose. Generic comments like “Nice post” are easy to ignore. If you want to build real connections, leave thoughtful, meaningful comments that reflect what you actually enjoyed about the post.
  
  Mention something specific a sentence, a story, a personal insight. Ask a follow-up question or share your own perspective in return. Bloggers notice genuine engagement, and they’re much more likely to visit your blog when you show that you’ve read theirs with care. It’s not about flattery — it’s about real human connection. Purposeful comments open doors to deeper blogging friendships and encourage reciprocal support over time.
  
  

• Invite engagement openly. Many bloggers hesitate to ask for support, fearing they’ll come across as needy. But a polite, warm invitation goes a long way. If someone enjoys your post, there’s nothing wrong with gently saying,
  
  “If you liked this post, feel free to follow my blog or leave a comment  I’d love to hear your thoughts!” This creates an open, welcoming environment and reminds readers that their interaction is appreciated. Some readers may enjoy your content but need a small nudge to engage more actively. Don’t be afraid to ask  you're inviting a connection, not demanding one.
  
  

• Don’t give up. It’s easy to feel invisible when you put your heart into a blog post and hear nothing back. But trust that your voice is being heard even if it’s quiet at first. Many readers don’t comment, but they are still reading and coming back. Keep going. Consistency builds visibility.
  
  Every post you write adds to your presence online. Over time, the right audience  people who truly connect with your message will find you. Stay passionate. Stay present. Don’t give up, because your journey is just beginning, and someone out there is waiting for your next post.
  
  

Blogging is about more than numbers. It’s about connection, growth, and sharing your voice. And sometimes, it takes a little longer for the world to truly listen.

So, to all my readers thank you. And to fellow bloggers, especially those just starting to reach out internationally: don’t let silence steal your spirit.

You belong here.

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

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Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | What the Death of Russian Influencer Arina Glazunova Can Teach Us - Powered by Blogger

What the Death of Russian Influencer Arina Glazunova Can Teach Us  Arina Glazunova, a 24-year-old Russian influencer and TikTok personality, tragically died in the early hours of September 27, 2024, in Tbilisi, Georgia. While walking through First Republic Square with a friend, she was filming herself singing

"For the Last Time" by the Russian boyband Hunger Boys. Distracted by the recording, she failed to notice the edge of an underground subway passage and tripped over a knee-high wall, falling approximately 5 meters onto concrete stairs below. She suffered severe injuries, including a fractured skull and broken neck, and was pronounced dead at a hospital later that morning

The incident was captured on video and widely shared on social media, sparking public outrage over the lack of safety measures at the site.

The wall she tripped over was only 30 centimeters high, leading many to criticize the inadequate infrastructure. In response, local residents created a memorial at the site and called for improved safety standards. Tbilisi's City Hall stated that the underpass was built according to Soviet-era standards, but the tragedy has prompted discussions about updating safety regulations to prevent similar accidents in the future

"It is best to avoid playing with gadgets while walking. This is very dangerous for yourself and the surrounding environment. Using a cellphone or gadget while walking makes your eyesight more focused on the cellphone screen. This condition makes you neglect your surroundings."

Arina was remembered for her vibrant personality, commitment to animal welfare, and work as a public relations manager after graduating from the Russian Presidential Academy of National Economy and Public Administration

Lesson Learned
The internet recently mourned the heartbreaking loss of 24-year-old Russian influencer Arina Glazunova, who tragically fell to her death in Tbilisi, Georgia. While filming a lighthearted video of herself singing and dancing with a friend, she tripped over a low wall and fell down a subway stairwell.

The incident shocked her fans and sparked intense discussions about safety, distraction, and the role of public infrastructure. But beyond the tragedy, there are powerful lessons we all need to take seriously—whether we’re content creators, city residents, or everyday social media users.

In a world of non-stop notifications and video content, it’s easy to lose focus on where we’re walking. Arina’s accident happened while she was filming herself—a common activity for influencers and everyday people alike. The takeaway? Situational awareness is key. No matter how familiar a place seems, accidents can happen in a split second.

We get it—content is king. But it should never come at the cost of personal safety. This tragedy reminds us that the perfect TikTok or Instagram reel isn’t worth risking serious injury—or worse. Pause. Look around. And film safely.

The spot where Arina fell featured a 30cm (knee-high) wall without a railing—an outdated Soviet-era design. Unfortunately, that’s not uncommon in many cities around the world. Municipalities must rethink infrastructure with modern safety standards. Something as simple as a guardrail could save lives.


"There are lots of video of this tragic of Arina appeared on social media posts.  Just use the keyword like "arina glazunova death", all video lists will comes out.  I will not upload any of the videos here. Its too graphic which some people feel so disturbing"

Have you ever walked by a place and thought, “This seems dangerous”? Speak up. Cities should encourage residents to report hazards, and officials must listen. Transparency and action go a long way in making urban areas safer for everyone. Influencers have massive reach—and responsibility. Imagine if content creators started adding “safety first” messages to their posts or showed how they prep safe filming spots. Those little reminders could have a big impact on impressionable followers.

It’s easy to move on after the headlines fade. But real honor comes through action. Arina’s death should inspire governments to improve infrastructure and creators to prioritize safety. Tragedies are painful—but they don’t have to be pointless.

What Next
The loss of Arina Glazunova is deeply saddening. Yet, from her story, we are reminded of a bigger truth: in our hyper-digital age, mindfulness matters more than ever. Let’s stay alert, advocate for safer spaces, and remind ourselves that no viral moment is worth more than our lives.

If this story moved you, share it to raise awareness.
Remind others that no post, no reel, and no content is worth more than life itself.

Speak up about unsafe public spaces

Join the conversation in the comments:

What steps can we take to make our cities and our content safer?

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : curahanhati, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Jessica de Broer and Lusanna Dourma From SOMOI - Powered by Blogger

Quite a while ago—when I was working at the Pontianak Post daily newspaper in Pontianak, West Kalimantan, Indonesia, I received two visitors from overseas. They introduced themselves as officers from an organization called SOMOI. Unfortunately, I did not ask for further details about their country of origin.

 The visitors were Jessica de Boer, a physiotherapist, and her partner Lusanne Douma, an occupational therapist. Both ladies came to my office to share information about child care, especially for children with paralysis.

 I received a reply to an email I sent only from one of them, a few months after their visit on August 19th, 2011. Since then, I have not had any further contact or emails from either of them. I also tried to find more information on the official SOMOI website but was unable to locate it. So far, I have found no official site or further details about the organization.

They introduced them selves as officers from SOMOI organization: Jessica de Boer and Lusanne Douma.  I have enclosed a photo of those two young ladies.  Jessica de Boer is a Fisioterapis while her partner Lussane Douma is an Okupasi Therapies.  

Both ladies came to my office to share information about child care, especially for children with paralysis. A few months after their visit on August 19th, 2011, I received a reply from only one of them to an email I had sent. Since then, I have not received any further emails or contact from either of them. I also tried to find more information on the official SOMOI website but was unable to locate it.

So far, no official website or details have been found.

Given that the individuals I met, Jessica de Boer and Lusanne Douma, introduced themselves as officers from SOMOI and were involved in child care, especially for children with paralysis, it's possible that SOMOI is a smaller or less-publicized organization, or perhaps a local initiative. It's also worth noting that "SOMOI" could be an acronym or a name used by a group with a different official designation. I am seeking information about the SOMOI organization, particularly regarding its work with children with disabilities. However, based on available information, there doesn't appear to be a widely recognized organization by that name..

 

I need help from all of you.

If you know where I can find Jessica de Boer and Lusanne Douma from SOMOI, please don’t hesitate to let me know. Could you kindly tell me how to reach them in any way possible? I would be very grateful for your help. You can contact me via Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp, or email. I look forward to hearing from you

If you have any information or know how to contact Jessica de Boer or Lusanne Douma from SOMOI, please reach out to me!

Your help would mean a lot. Feel free to message me on Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp, or email. Thank you in advance.

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

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Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | When Your Cheapest Earphones Fail: Lessons from a Budget Buy - Powered by Blogger

I’ve always been a bit of an audio scavenger. Give me a bargain bin at the electronics store, and I’ll emerge clutching the cheapest pair of earphones I can find—just to see what kind of bang I can get for my buck. A month ago, I scored exactly that: a basic, under-IDR 50,000 (≈ $5) set that promised decent sound for listening to music, streaming movies, and making phone calls. And for the first couple of weeks, it absolutely delivered.

First Impressions

Unboxing felt like a mini celebration: glossy plastic, bright accents on the logo, and surprisingly soft silicone tips. I plugged them in, hit play, and the sound was… well, not studio-quality, but definitely “good enough.” Bass had a slight thump, mids were clear, and the highs didn’t screech. I’d happily binge an episode of my favorite show or knock out a to-do list while jamming to lo-fi beats.

Daily Grind

I wore them everywhere: my morning commute, afternoon video calls, evening movie marathons. Somehow they even survived being stuffed into my backpack alongside chargers, notebooks, and last week’s grocery list. At around two weeks in, I noticed the left earbud felt looser in my ear. No biggie—maybe the tip just needed a better fit.

Then came Week Three, and things went downhill fast. One day I heard a sudden pop, followed by silence in the left earbud. A little twisting of the cable near the Y-junction brought the audio back for a moment… then nothing. The wire seemed frayed inside the connector, so I tried every trick in the book—careful bending, gentle tugging, even a hopeful pat on the housing. But the left side was truly gone.

Inside, I felt that familiar twinge of buyer’s remorse. Sure, it was only IDR 50K, but I’d relied on them every single day. And now: lifeless silence on one side, as if I were trying to listen to a podcast through a tunnel.

Lessons Learned

1. Quality vs. Price: Budget earphones often cut corners on cable strength, strain relief, and internal soldering. Spending a bit more can mean tougher materials and longer lifespan.

2. Handle with Care: Even cheap gear can last longer with proper handling—avoid tight loops, gentle storage, and unplug by gripping the plug (not pulling the cable).

3. Know When to Upgrade: Sometimes it pays to invest. In the IDR 100K–200K ($7–$15) range, you’ll find models with reinforced cables, better strain relief, and noticeably improved sound.

What’s Next?

I’m already eyeing an upgrade—nothing extravagant, but perhaps a set with braided cable and metal housings. I’ll still hunt for deals, but this time I’ll balance cost and durability more carefully. After all, chasing the absolute cheapest option left me with just one working earbud.

Final Thoughts

If you’re like me—always hunting for bargains—remember that “saving” IDR 50K up front can cost you double or triple in replacements and frustration. Personally, I’m ready to spend a little more next time for uninterrupted tunes and peace of mind. Here’s to better sound, sturdier cables, and no more one-eared sorrow—cheers!

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Tag : curahanhati - Asep Haryono | My fabulous foster parent from Canada. Mrs Sandy Clement - Powered by Blogger

Indonesia This time I want to tell you a little about my adoptive parents named Mrs. Sandy Clements in Duncan, Canada. We're both fans of the late Michael Jackson pop star album. Why do you want to be my adoptive parent? Then who is Sandy Clements? Where did I know for the first time?

Throughout my record, I have been friends with him for more than 17 years since 1990. At that time I was a big fan of Michael Jackson's songs, and I started trying to "interact" with several communities or Michael Jackson's fans club, which are widely scattered throughout the Internet. The internet I started using was a bit late, namely in the era of 2001 if I'm not mistaken.

SANDY CLEMENTS: This is the profile of Mrs. Sandy CLements, who has supported me as her adopted son. Sandy Clements Facebook photo

So when I was engrossed in a Michael Jackson forum, there was a forum member named Sandy Clement from Canada. Since I can speak English both spoken and written, I also communicate with Sandy Clements on the forum and eventually continue to introduce me by correspondence or correspondence. At that time I did not understand the name E-mail or E-mail

For years, he has been in contact with Sandy Clements through correspondence. From this communication I know that Sandy Clements has been married for the 3rd time. Her current husband Ross treats her well, and finally produces her children who are now grown up.

I have considered him as a child myself, and our conversations on email are mostly about pop star Michael Jackson (because we are MJ fans), and the rest are casual chats about daily activities, hobbies and also about each other's families.

I actually wanted to be invited to his house in Duncan, Canada, but because of the (financial) condition his family was still unable to make it happen. I myself also want to meet her in person  with Sandy Clements in Canada, but I believe it must be gradual because indeed the cost of going to Canada is not a cheap matter. At the moment I haven't been able to make it happen.

Maybe for now, let us stay in touch by only relying on communication channels via messenger on Facebook. I have offered Sandy Clements for a video call but the problem is on the device or devices he is using. Until when we only communicate via the Internet, and he also doesn't know. When can I meet you in person in Canada, I also don't know and neither Sandy Clements. (Asep Haryono)

Tag : curahanhati, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Mengenang Ade Irma Suryani Nasution - Powered by Blogger

Pontianak Dalam waktu yang tidak lama lagi Insya Allah tanggal 1 Oktober 2024 adalah Hari Kesaktian Pancasila. Hari yang sangat bersejarah bagi Bangsa Indonesia. Namun ditanggal 1 Oktober itu, tepatnya kembali ke masa silam 1 Oktober 1965, salah satu putri kesayangan Jendral A H Nasution yakni Ade Irma Suryani Nasution meninggal dunia terkena tembakan Pasukan Cakrabirawa yang datang untuk menculik sang jendral.

REKA ADEGAN :  Ini adalah cuplikan film Pengkhianatan G30 S PKI.  Sebuah reka adegan saat Ade Irma Suryani Nasution dengan tubuh bersimbah darah tertembus peluru Pasukan Cakrabirawa sedang digendong sang bunda.  Ini reka adegan yang sangat menharukan penulis.  Sumber foto dari Youtube

Ade Irma Suryani Nasution menjadi perisai sang ayah. Menurut berbagai informasi yang tersebar di berbagai alamat situs dari searching di Google, terdapat beberapa kesaksian yang menyatakan bahwa Ade Irma Suryani Nasution tertembus 6 (enam) butir timah panas yang dilesatkan oleh Tentara Cakrabirawa saat itu. Ade tertembus peluru dari bagian belakang. Baca selengkapnya dari salah satu artikelnya di sini.

Sejumlah catatan menyebutkan bahwa Ade Irma Suryani Nasution walau sudah berlumuran darah tertembus peluru namun Ade tidak menangis. Ade Irma Suryani Nasution sempat mendapat pertolongan darurat para dokter di Rumah Sakit yang berusaha keras menyelamatkan nyawanya. Namun sayang nyawanya tidak tertolong. Berbagai catatan menyebutkan Ade Irma Suryani Nasution berjuang melawan rasa sakit di Rumah Sakit selama 5 (lima) hari. 

Dan sebuah catatan menyebutkan akhirnya Ade Irma Suryani Nastuion meninggal dunia pada tanggal 6 Oktober 1965 tepat pada pukul 02.00 WIB. Ade dimakamkan pada tangagl 7 Oktober 1965 di pemakaman di kompleks Walikota Jakarta Selatan, Jalan Prapanca Raya. Salah satu sumber lengkapnya di sini dan juga dibaca di sini

Bukan maksud untuk melow apalagi hanyut terbawa suasana, namun penulis suka atau tidak suka tetap merasa terharu membaca kisah kisah tentang Ade Irma Suryani Nasution dari berbagai sumber. Dari foto foto yang penulis liat dari berbagai situs di Internet, Saat tertembak Ade Irma Suryani Nasution berusia 5 (lima) tahun. Ade Irma Suryani Nasution saat itu mungkin seusia anak Taman Kanak Kanak (TK) atau Kelompok Bermain.

Sejumlah barang barang kesayangan Ade Irma Suryani seperti tas kecil, boneka, Botol Air Minum, Sepatu dan lain lainnua. Masih tersimpan dengan baik.  Sumber foto Micomovic Blog

Terbukti dari foto foto yang penulis liat di Internet ada banyak benda kesayangan Ade Irma Suryani Nasution seperti boneka, botol air minuman dan lain lain. Cantik parasnya. Sahabat blogger dapat dengan mudah mendapatkan foto foto Ade Irma Suryani Nasution dari Google dengan mengetikkan kata kunci (keyword) nama lengkapnya.

Andai Ade Irma Suryani Nasuion masih hidup mungkin Ade Irma Suryani Nasution berusia sekitar 64 (Enam Puluh Empat Tahun) pada tanggal 1 Oktober 2024 nanti. Mungkin Ade Irma Suryani Nasution sudah menjadi seorang Menteri. Mungkin Ade Irma Suryani Nasution sudah menjadi tokoh Nasional. Tokoh masyarakat. Mungkin sudah menjadi Doktor lulusan Luar Negeri. Serta mungkin mungkin lainnya.

Kini Ade Irma Suryani Nasution sudah tenang di pangkuan TUHAN YME dan seluruh masyarakat dan Bangsa Indonesia akan selalu mengenang sosok Ade Irma Suryani Nasution. Sosok Ade Irma, putri yang mengagumi sang Ayah dan mengidolakannya. Sang Ayah yang juga sangat menyayangi putrinya.

 Bukan maksud terbawa emosi, namun pada umumnya anak perempuan lebih dekat dengan sang ayah daripada ibunya. Saya juga punya anak perempuan yang usianya kini sudah 7 tahun, saya bisa memahami betapa sayangnya putri dan ayah dan ayah kepada putrinya

Bangsa Indonesia akan selalu mengenai Ade Irma Suryani Nasution. Kisah seorang putri yang menjadi perisai hidup sang Ayah. Sosok Ade Irma Suryani Nasution akan selalu bersemayam di hati sanubari seluruh Bangsa Indonesia

Akan kuingat selalu Ade irma suryani
Waktu dipeluk dipangku ibu
Dengan segala kasih
Kini ia terbaring dipangkuan tuhan
Senang dan bahagia hatinya
Kini ia terlena tertidur terbaring
Nyenyak dipelukan Tuhannya

(Ade Irma Suryani, pencipt. AT. Mahmud)


 (Dari Berbagai Sumber) 

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Pontianak Biasanya orang akan senang jika mendapat surat cinta dari orang yang dicintainya entah itu pasangan resminya, selingkuhan (oops), pacar, atau dari kerabat dan handai tolan. Namun tidak untuk “surat cinta” yang satu ini adalah berupa selembar surat yang berisi peringatan atau teguran untuk segera melunasi tunggakan PDAM. Nah kalau “surat cinta” yang satu ini sudah datang, bersegeralah untuk memenuhi kewajiban pelanggan yakni membayar tunggakan.

SURAT PERINGATAN : Lembaran peringatan dari PDAM agar segera melaukan pembayaran tunggakan yang wajib dipatuhi oleh para pelanggan setianya.  Foto Asep Haryono

Sebagai warga negara yang baik (law abiding citizen) yakni warga negara yang patuh kepada hukum dan undang undang negara, dan menikmati fasilitas yang diberikan negara seperti Listrik, dan lain sebagainya maka wajib memenuhi kewajibannya seperti membayar iuran tepat pada waktunya, dan dalam hal ini adalah tunggakan atas fasilitas layanan air bersih yang diberikan oleh negara, melalui lembaga resminya yakni PDAM

Mengapa bisa terlambar membayar tagihan PDAM?
Well tentu ada banyak faktor penyebabnya. Selain memang tidak ada duit pada saat itu juga karena kebiasaan kita sendiri yang sering melalaikan jadual atau waktu pembayaran Iuran atau tagihan PDAM yang sudah mulai dibayarkan dalam rentang periode mulai tanggal1 hingga 20 setiap bulannya.

 Ada banyak cara pembayaran yang bisa kamu lalukan untuk membayar iuran bulanan PDAM bisa langsung mendatangi kantor pelayanan di tempat kamu, atau cara praktis dengan membayar melalui applikasi dan atau melalui Bank Transfer, nah mudah bukan.

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Sebab bisa saja kamu tidak sempat untuk datang langsung ke kantor Pelayanan PDAM untuk membayar tagihan PDAM bulanan kamu, nah dengan membayar via applikasi atau transfer bank bisa dilakukan dimana saja, di rumah, di kantor bahkan saat di kamar mandi pun kamu bisa melakukan transaksi pembayaran secara Online melalui perangkat gadget kamu. Nah semakin mudah bukan, tidak perlu repot repot keluar rumah. 

Apa Sanksinya jika TIDAK Membayar Tunggakan. 
Ini Pengalaman saya sendiri.  Yang saya tau jika kamu tidak segera membayar Tunggakan atas bulan bulan yang belum dilunasunya maka PDAM akan melakukan tindakan seperti Pemutusan SEMENTARA  sambungan AIR di rumah pelanggannya hingga tagihan atau tunggakan terbayarkan lunas.

METERAN PDAM : Nah jika kamu TIDAK melunasi Tunggakan PDAM, maka tindakan tegas akan dikenakan yakni Pemurtusan Total atau Bongkar Rampung Instalasi PDAM di rumah kamu.  Jika mau melunasi tunggakan, maka akan dikenakan lagi biaya pemasangan KEMBALI instalasi ini. So eh jadi jangan telat membayar Tunggakan PDAM ya.  Foto Asep Haryono

Dan jika sampai Batas waktu tenggang atau TEMPO juga belum juga dibayarkan oleh pelanggan yang menunggak, maka tindakan keras diambil yakni BONGKAR RAMPUNG instalasi PDAM di rumah kamu,  Dan ini luamyan juga    Maksudnya jika kamu melunasi tunggakan rekening PDAM, nah masih harus membayar lagi biaya PEMASANGAN KEMBALI Instalasinya dengan angka nominal yang cukup besar.   

Nah seram kan. 

Makanya jangan terlambat membayar Tunggakan Tagihan PDAM ya


Pembayaran Tunggakan secara Online
Ketentuan Pembayaran Tagihan Bagi Yang Menunggak/ Khusus untuk wilayah Kabupaten Kubu Raya, Propiinsi Kalimantan Barat ada ketentuan yang berlaku bagi pelanggan yang menunggak pembayarannya dengan ketentuan sebagai berikut


1-3 Bulan Tunggakan
Pertama,Buka aplikasi BCA Mobile di Handphone kamu, pilih menu M-Payment, Pilih Publik/Utilitas. Pilih PAM, Pilih Wilayah Kubu Raya, dan masukkan ID No Pelanggan PDAM kamu ya. Pastikan semua data yang kamu masukan sudah benar lalu kirim SEND

Kedua, jika kamu pake SHOPPE, nah klik Pulsa, Tagihan dan Tiket, Pilih PDAM, Pilih Wilayah, dan masukkan No ID Pelanggan kamu dan lanjutkan pilih Mode pembayaran


1 Bulan Tunggakan
 Pembayaran tunggakan PDAM bisa dialkukan online juga bagi mereka yang hanya terlambat 1 Bulan Tunggakan yakni dengan membuka aplikasi M-Banking Kalbar, M-Banking BNI / BCA / BSI / BRIMO / Link AJA / Tokopedia / Shoppe / Indomaret / Alfamart / Dana / Lazada / Gojek dan Buka Lapak. Terserah mana saja yang kamu sukai bebas bebas aja. 


Bagian Penutup

Oh ya ada sedikit TIPS dari penulis ykani agar tetap BERHEMAT dalam menggunakan AIR walaupun kamu mampu mebayar berapa saja atas AIR yang kamu konsumsi dari PDAM.   

Berhemat bole bole saja bukan dan bukankah MUBAZIR adalah hal yang tidak baik.  Ingatlah selalu di belahan dunia saja masih banyak orang yang kekurangan sumber air bersih, jadi mari kita mulai berhemat dalam menggunakan AIR.  Salah satu TIPS dari saya adalah untuk tidak membiatrkan KRAN Air terbuka hingga air mengalir deras berjam jam, 

Jadi pastikan KRAN Air PDAM di rumah kamu dalam keadaan terkunci atau ditutup jika akan pergi meninggal rumah,  Nah itu saja TIPS saj,  Sederhana memang namun kadang hal yang sesederhyana ini sering tidak diindahkan orang.  Yuk mulai berhematr dalam menggunakan AIR Negara.  (Asep Haryono)

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Pontianak Hampir bisa dipastikan Blogger akan menulis artikel artikel yang diketahui dan disukainya di blog pribadinya masing masing.  Sungguh sangat menyenangkan tentunya bisa menuliskan, melaporkan kejadian, mereview sesuatu, apa saja yang menjadi kesukaannya untuk blognya masing masing.   

Sungguh menyenangkan juga jika artikel yang kita buat dan posting di blog mendapatkan apresiasi dari para pembacanya, namun yang lebih utama adalah artikel yang kita tulis itu bermanfaat bagi para pembacanya dan menjadi inspirasi banyak orang untuk berbuat kebaikan, kemajuan, dan kesejahteraan bersama. 

Tentu sungguh sangat menyenangkan, bukan

Hal ini juga saya rasakan beberpa bulan terakhir ini.  Bukan karena aktifitas menulis melainkan rasa malas yang sedikit sedikit mulai menggerus saya belakangan ini yakni "Mengapa Sekarang Saya jadi Malas Menulis di Blog".   To be honest, this is very personal reasons that I should not share it with you/ What the heck.  People might know what it is. Why Not


DOMAIN Direbut orang
Saya memiliki sebuah nama domain yakni "simplyasep" dengan ekstensi DOT COM mungkin hingga 5 atau 7 tahun lamanya saya memegang kendali atas nama domain itu  Nama domainnya dari rumahweb yang memang menjadi andalan saya selala beberapa tahun terakhir ini.   

Service Ruamhweb sangat oke banget, dan Teknisi Support dari Rumahweb angat membantu para customer setianya.  Saya suka RumahWeb.  Naiknnya harga sewa DOMAIN tidak jadi menjadi masalah bagi pafra customernya, karena rumahweb sudah terbukti sangat oke banget.

Nah sejak domain saya direbut oleh pihak ke III yang sudah sata WHO IS siapa pelaku "PEDOMOR" alias "Perebut Domain Orang" nya adalah sebuah perusahaan di negara Paman Sam alias di Amerika Serikat. Dan untuk menunggu nama domain itu avalable kembali juga sangat panjang karena sudah dikontrak hingga 1 tahun ke depan.  Saya memang masih memikirkan DOMAIN maksudnya nama domain yang lain, namun apa pun nama domainnya nanti tentu kerja keras akan kembali diperkukan agar record traffic yang sudah ada sekarang ini bisa dikejar kembali

LAPTOP : Ini adalah laptop yang saya pakai sendiri, ada ceritanya nanti di edisi yang akan datang menygapa Laptop ini punya nilai sejarah buat saya.  Yuk aktif menulis blog lagi.  Foto Asep Haryono

Karena apa?  Traffic yang baik sekarang ini seperti score DA (Domain Authority) dan PA (Page Authority) melekat pada domain FREE di Blogspot, dan jika memiliki nama domain diperkiraan akan jatuh kembali ke titik NOL, ini hanya asumsi saya saja saja.   

Saya berharap dalam waktu yang tidak terlalu lama, saya akan segera memiliki nama DOMAIN yang baru dengan masa sewa yang mungkin 1 tahun lagi namun harus terus dipantau.  Jangan sampai telat untuk memperpanjang sewanya seperti yang saya alami sebelumnya ini.    Karena terlambat memperpanjang nama domain, akhirnya nama domain kesayangan saya itu akhirnya "lepas" dan direbut orang

Saya tidak akan membahas apa manfaat memilii Blog yang aktif dengan domain berbayar, karena sudah ada dimana mana di Google saja sudah bertebaran dimana mana orang membahasnya. 

Namun secara pribadi bagi saya sendiri adalah dengan memiliki BLOG yang aktif dan dengan domain berbayar  , saya punya kesempatan untuk mengais rupiah atau dollar dari Blog seperti program Guest Posting,  Endorse, paid article, bahkan ikut lomba lomba menulis blog, dan bisa punya banyak teman Blogger dari seluruh Indonesia bahkan dunia. masih banyak lagi lainnya.  

Sebenarnya masih banyak lagi lainnya yang bagi saya sendiri berpengaruh padaq aktfifitas saya menulis di blog.  Namun demikian saya masih terus beruapa melawan diri saya sendiri, dan menundukkan diri sendiri untuk kembali terjun ke "medan laga" aktif menulis sebagai sebuah keindahan, kesenangan yang tidak akan ada habis habis hingga waktu terus bergulir.   

Selamat Menulis Blogger semua.
Keep Posting

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Pontianak Hampir Malam itu hari Rabu Malam Kamis tanggal 7 Agusus 2024 sekitar Pukul 21.45 WIB saya membuka Halaman Facebook saya, dan melihat update dan postingan dari kawan kawan saya seperti biasa, namun ketika mouse saya arahkan ke Update postingan terbaru Marote Ismael (Saya akrab menyebutnya dengan panggilan Gus Ote-Red) yang mencuit "Selamat jalan Benz Bharaktha alias abang besak, semoga mendapat tempat.yang layak di sisi-Nya... " membuat saya tidak percaya.  Bang Ote itu orangnya seru, sering Gurau, bercanda dan Humoris.  Maka begitu Bang Ote memposting wafatnya Ben Bharakta tentu saja saya tidak percaya biasa biasa..

"Ah paling juga becanda lagi" gumam saya dalam hati  

Namun setelah saya membaca Reply atau komentar di postingannya itu membuat saya mulai merinding, gelisah dan merasa cemas, Apakah ini becandaan khasnya Bang Ote?  Kalau becandaan, kok komentar yang masuk di postingannya kalimat kalimat serius.  Saya mulai cemas dn was was perqsaan saya bercampur aduk saat itu

KENANGAN : Ini foto yang saya ambil dari video saya sendiri saat saya berkunjung ke Redaksi Pontianak Post, Hari Rabu 12 Juni 2019 sekitar jam 20.15 WIB, satu satunya foto saya bersama Almarhum Benz Bharakta yang saya miliki sendiri dan tetap saya simpan sebagai kenangan kenangan saya bersama Almarhum Benz.  Al Fatihah.   Foto Asep Haryono

Saya kemudian menelpon langsung kepada Bang Ote mengenai Postingannya itu, naun telepom saya tidak diangkatnya.   Apakah nomor Bang Ote sudah ganti nomor HP/WA?, atau memang sudah jelang larut malam.  Maklum saat saya telpon Bang Ote jam sudah menunjukkan Pukul 22.30 WIB lebih, suatu rentang waktu yang tidak lazim menelpom Malam malam.  Namun karena penting saya lakukan juga malam itu. 

Telepon saya tidak diangkatnya

Saya telepon yang lain juga tidak diangkat,  Namun Alhamdulillah Telepon saya diangkat oleh Bang Heriyanto Sagiya (Pimpinan Pontianak Post) yang "rela" saya telepon malam malam untuk memastikan kabar postingan Bang Ote mengenai Wafatnya Benz Bharakta apakah memang benar adanya/  Dan Bang Heriyanto Sagiya pun membenarkan berita bahwa Benz Bharakta telah meninggal Dunia hari Senin tanggal 5 Agustus 2024.   Dari flyer atau iklan di Harian Pontianak Post pun sudah memuatnya

Seketika itu juag langsung lunglai dan lemas badan saya.  Innalillahi Wainna Ilaihi Radjiun (Sesungguhnya kita semua Manusia adalah makhluk ciptaan Allah SWT, dan kepada Allah SWT pulalah kita semua akan kembali)
.   

Bang Benz Oran Baik dan Suka Menolong
Almarhum Benz Bharakta pernah membantu saya saat saya bertarung dalam Lomba Blog atau Blog Contest yang diselenggarakan oleh Mimpi Propert., Lomba Menulis Blog  Tingkat Nasional di Jakarta pada tahun 2014 yang silam. Sudah lama memang namun akan selalu saya ingat masa masa itu.

Dari sekitar 150 peserta yang sudah mengirimkan Naskah Tulisan Lombanya, Tulisan saya yang berisi dan berjudul "Ingin Punya Rumah Sendiri" lolos  masuk 20 (dua puluh)besar dan kemudian semua karya Finalis 20 besar ini karya karya tulisannya akan dipajang di Taman Ismail Marzuki Jakarta.   

dan oleh sebab itu semua Finalis 20 orang ini (Termasuk saya tentunya)  diminta oleh DEWAN JURI untuk membuat tulisan tersebut dibuat dalam lembaran seperti KORAN karena akan dipajang di Taman Ismail Marzuki Jakarta, dan akan mengundang Masyarkat untuk juga memberikan BOBOT Penilaian terjadap karya 20 Finalis ini,

Saya pun menghubungi Almarhum Benz untuk membantu membuatkan dan mendesainkan Tulisan saya yang masuk Finalis 20 besar itu untuk dijadikan lembaran KORAN (sperti pra cetak) untuk di PRINT oleh Panitia karena saya dan 19 peserta FINALIS lainnya semua karya dalam bentuk HALAMAN KORAN akan dipahang di Taman Ismail Marzuki (TIM) Jakarta untuk juga dinilai langsung oleh Masyarkat.  Dan Alhamdulillah dengan sigap Almarhum Benz mendesainkan Halaman Koran dari Tulisan saya dengan cepat.   

Naskah pun saya kembali kirim ke Panitia Lomba di Jakarta

Alhamdulilah JUARA II

Alhamdulillah  kabar saya keluar sebagai Juara II diperoleh dari Informasi WA dari Mba Una yang saat itu ada di TIM Jakarta. Mba Una Blogger kawakan yang sering travel ke berbagai negara di duni.   Mba Una mengirimkan informasinya yang datang langsung di Pameran yang berlokasi di Taman Ismail Marzuki Jakarta sore tadi (21/9/2014).

Daftar Lengkap Para pemenang 1, 2 dan 3 adalah Sbb :

Juara I : Fariz Chamim MLG. (Malang)
Juara II : Asep Haryono (Pontianak)
Juara III : Ifan Andri Prastya (Wonogiri)

Saya dinyatakan keluar sebagai Juara II pada tanggal 21 September 2014 di Taman Ismail Marzuki (TIM) Jakarta.  Saya tidak dapat hadir untuk kemerima Hadiah itu  secara langsung dengan datang ke JAKARTA, dan Panitia juag tidak menyediakan Tiket PP untuk Para Pemenang 1, 2 dan 3

Alhamdulillah. Hasil karya saya yang berisi dan berjudul "Ingin Punya Rumah Sendiri" yang masuk nominasi 20 (dua puluh) besar Blog Kontes Mimpi Properti dinyatakan sebagai Juara II. 

Dan sebagai gantinya karena salah satu pemenang dari Luar Jakarta (Saya sendiri yang berada di Pontianak, Kalbar-Red), maka hadiahnya di kirim melalui Pos  Saya sudah sertakan sertakan foto saat saya menerima Kiriman HADIAH nya, dan juga DESAIN Koran goresan Almarhum Bang Benz Bharaktha. 

Lihat di bawah ini

Desain Almarhum Benz Bharaktha

Hadiah dan Gelar Juara Ini Untuk Mu Sahabat

Alhamdul.illah ataz Izin dari Allah SWT melalui tangan dingin Almarhum Benz Bharakta, saya Juara II Lomba Blog Nasional (Blog Contest) saat itu, foto dan gambarnya sudah saya sertakan di atas.

Alhamdulillah.

Terima Kasih Bang Benz Bharaktha.

Semua HADIAH dan Gelar Juara ini untuk mu sahabat


Saya bersaksi Almarhum Benza Bharaktha orang yang baik dan suka membantu

Selamat Jalan bang Ben
Selamat Jalan sahabat ku

Doa ku selalu menyertai mu sahabat. Semioga Almarhum diterima segala amal ibadahnya dan mendapat tempat yang layak di Sisi Allah SWT  Dan semoga keluarga yang ditinggalkan diberikan Kesabaran, kekuatan dan keIkhlasanoleh Allah SWT .

Aamiin Ya Rabbal Alamin

I will never forget you buddy

Rest in peace 

Selamat Jalan Sahabat ku Benz Bharaktha



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