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A Heartbreaking Story from NTT, Indonesia, That Makes Us Think

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For most of us in Indonesia, 10,000 rupiahs (less than 1 USD) is just small money enough for a parking fee or buying candy. It may seem simple, but for a young elementary school girl in NTT, Indonesia, it was not simple at all. She ended her life because she could not afford a book and a pen that cost less than 10,000 rupiahs.

Today I want to share a very sad story from Nusa Tenggara Timur (NTT). It is not a light topic, but I feel it is important for us to talk about it. A fourth-grade female elementary school student in
Ngada Regency, East Nusa Tenggara, with the initials YBS, ended her life on Thursday (29/1) afternoon.

A 10-year-old elementary school student in Ngada, NTT,Indonesia died in a heartbreaking way. She was just a little girl, still in fourth grade, still dreaming, still learning, still hoping for her future. But her life ended too soon.

According to local news reports, this child came from a very poor family. Before the tragedy, she had asked her mother for money to buy simple school supplies notebooks and a pen. These are things many of us take for granted. But for her family, even these basic items were difficult to afford.

Her mother reportedly could not give her the money because they were struggling just to survive. They did not have enough for food, let alone school materials. The little girl felt hopeless, ashamed, and deeply stressed. Sadly, this pressure became too heavy for her young heart.

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Local officials and community leaders later spoke about the case with tears in their eyes. Even the Governor of NTT expressed deep sadness, saying this tragedy showed how serious poverty still is in some parts of Indonesia.

What makes this story even more painful is that this child was described as smart and polite. She was not a problem student. She was a good kid who simply wanted to learn and go to school like other children.

For most of us in Indonesia, 10,000 rupiahs (less than 1 USD) is just small money enough for a parking fee or buying candy. It may seem simple, but for a young elementary school girl in NTT, Indonesia, it was not simple at all. She ended her life because she could not afford a book and a pen that cost less than 10,000 rupiahs.
For most of us in Indonesia, 10,000 rupiahs (less than 1 USD) is just small money enough for a parking fee or buying candy. It may seem simple, but for a young elementary school girl in NTT, Indonesia, it was not simple at all. She ended her life because she could not afford a book and a pen that cost less than 10,000 rupiahs.  Photo Asep Haryono


This image is courtesy of Tribun Lampung and shows the girl’s handwritten letter to her mother. Local police confirmed that the letter was prepared by the girl before she decided to end her life by hanging herself under a tree
This image is courtesy of Tribun Lampung and shows the girl’s handwritten letter to her mother. Local police confirmed that the letter was prepared by the girl before she decided to end her life by hanging herself under a tree.

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The notebook and pen that the girl asked for cost less than 10,000 IDR, or under 1 USD. She wrote a final letter by her own hand as a farewell message to her mother before she took her life near a tea tree not far from her hut. In the letter, she told her mother not to be sad and to let her go forever. For me, this is an extremely touching and heartbreaking story

This case reminds us that education is not just about schools, teachers, or exams. It is also about access. A child should never feel desperate because of books or pencils. No child should feel that they are a burden just because their family is poor.

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 For me, this story is a wake-up call. It makes me think about how lucky many of us are , we have books, phones, internet, and even the chance to write or read blogs like this. Meanwhile, some children are still fighting just to get a simple pen and a notebook.


By the way, lack of access to school supplies can be caused by many factors. One of the most likely reasons is extreme poverty or living below the poverty line, which can contribute to mental or psychological problems in children. If there is no adult around to listen to a child’s sadness, this can lead them to make a terrible decision such as suicide.

For me personally, this is truly one of the most tragic and heartbreaking stories I will remember for the rest of my life. This young girl should not have died because of a lack of access to school supplies. I also have a daughter, and I am sure many parents who have daughters would feel the same way as I do.

I hope this tragedy will push the government of the Republic of Indonesia, schools, and communities to care more about poor students. Free education should really mean free including notebooks, uniforms, and basic supplies.

Most of all, I hope no other child will ever feel so alone, so ashamed, or so hopeless again. May this little girl rest in peace. And may her story remind us to be kinder, more aware, and more grateful every day.This story is painful, but it should make us think and act. If you feel moved, here’s what you can do: Support Education for Poor Children in your area



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8 comments:

  1. What a tragic story, dear friend! A little girl killed herself! Children mustn't die! Children must live!

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    1. Dear Irina, thank you so much for your empathy and kind heart.

      This story also deeply broke my heart. I completely agree with you children must live, dream, and feel safe, not suffer like this. I really hope this tragedy will make more people care and act so no other child ever has to go through such pain. Thank you for reading and for your care, my friend.

      Happy Saturday. Happy weekend

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  2. That is terrible Asep. I cannot believe such a young girl that age would even think about committing suicide. What a horrible thing for her mother to go through. It made me cry. :-(

    Hopefully your governement take action and help those who need help.

    Hope you have a good weekend Asep. It's been raining here in Scotland and very windy too.

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind and caring words, my friend Mrs Ananka.

      Yes It is truly heartbreaking, and I also hope our government will do more to protect vulnerable children. Stay safe and warm in the Scottish weather, and have a peaceful weekend too.

      Big hello from me here in Indonesia

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  3. That is absolutely heartbreaking to hear.

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    1. Hi Ma'am
      Good morning
      Its 08.52 AM here

      Well, tank you so much for your care and empathy.. It really is heartbreaking, and it still weighs heavily on my mind. I just hope this story can remind us to be kinder and to care more about children who are struggling.

      I truly appreciate you reading and commenting.

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  4. Anonymous7:52:00 PM

    Very sad maybe she had depression issues as well. -Christine cmlk79.blogspot.com

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    1. Many people believe that an “anonymous” visitor who leaves a live link in a blog comment should be treated as spam, and I generally understand this concern. In many cases, anonymous comments with links are posted by bots or self-promoters who do not really read the article but only want traffic or backlinks.

      This can lower the quality of discussion and even hurt a blog’s credibility with search engines. However, I don’t think every anonymous comment with a link is automatically bad. If the comment is thoughtful, relevant, and truly adds value to the topic, the link can actually be helpful. The key issue is not anonymity itself, but the intention and quality of the comment.

      hope you can understand this stuff. Thanks for your comment.

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