Tag : Teknik Blogging - Asep Haryono | My Experiences when I Feel Lost in writing a blog post - Powered by Blogger

Hello there. How is it going?
How is your weekend my friends?

I have been writing articles for my blog for more than twelve years. Over that time, I have published more than five thousand blog posts. You might think that after writing that much, ideas would come easily all the time. The truth is, they don’t. Even with years of experience, there are moments when I sit in front of my screen and feel completely stuck. I know I want to write, but I don’t know how to start, what title to choose, or which angle feels right. My mind feels crowded, yet empty at the same time.

This feeling is not unique to me.

Every blogger, no matter where they are in the world, experiences this sooner or later. It happens to new bloggers who are still finding their voice, and it also happens to those who have been writing for years. Feeling stuck does not mean I have lost my ability to write. It simply means my mind needs a small push, or sometimes a gentle pause My fellow bloggers.

One reason we feel blocked is because we put too much pressure on ourselves. We want the title to be perfect before we write the first sentence. We want the article to be well-structured, meaningful, and valuable from the very beginning. When we expect too much too soon, our thoughts stop flowing. Writing becomes heavy instead of natural. In moments like this, it helps to remind ourselves that the first draft does not need to be perfect. It only needs to exist

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Often, the best way to start is to stop thinking too much. Just begin writing whatever comes to your mind, even if it feels messy or unclear. Many good articles begin as simple thoughts, personal notes, or unfinished ideas. Once words start appearing on the screen, your mind slowly follows. Writing creates clarity, not the other way around. You don’t need to see the full picture before you begin. Sometimes, the picture appears while you are already moving.

Feeling stuck with no idea how to start writing a blog post? You must have been in my shoes. This is my work desk that I use every day for work.

I’m sorry for sharing this old-fashioned photo of myself. The photo was taken during my trip to Bali in December 2011. Every time I traveled, I tried to write my travel notes on time using my laptop, as shown in this photo.

Our own experiences are also a powerful source of ideas. Daily life, small struggles, simple lessons, and personal reflections can all become meaningful content. Readers connect deeply with honesty. They appreciate stories that feel real and relatable. Even a moment of confusion or doubt can turn into an article that helps someone else who feels the same way.

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Another helpful approach is to look back at what you have already written. Old articles can be refreshed with new insights, updated experiences, or a different point of view. Over time, we grow, we learn, and our perspective changes. Revisiting old topics allows us to tell the same story in a new voice, one that feels more mature and more personal.

Sometimes, the block has nothing to do with ideas at all. It comes from routine. Writing in the same place, at the same time, every day can slowly drain creativity. Changing your environment, even slightly, can make a big difference. A new atmosphere can help your thoughts move again, like fresh air entering a quiet room.

At the heart of it all, writing should feel like a conversation, not a performance. When you write as if you are speaking to one person, the words tend to flow more naturally. Simple language, honest thoughts, and a calm tone are often more powerful than complex words and perfect sentences. Readers don’t look for perfection; they look for connection.

Feeling stuck is part of the blogging journey. It doesn’t mean you have reached the end. It simply means you are pausing between thoughts, waiting for the next wave of ideas to arrive. Be patient with yourself. Start small. Trust that once you begin, the words will find their way slowly, gently, and naturally, like water flowing forward

If you’re a blogger who has ever felt stuck or confused about where to start, you’re not alone my friend.

Take a deep breath, start with one small thought, and let the words flow naturally. If this article helped you in any way, feel free to share it with fellow bloggers, leave a comment below about your own writing struggles, or bookmark it for the next time you feel blocked.

Writing is a journey, and we grow better by learning from each other.
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Tag : Keseharian, Wisata Kuliner - Asep Haryono | My First Dish of 2026: A Simple Plate of Nasi Uduk - Powered by Blogger

Happy New Year 2026 to all my fellow bloggers

From West Kalimantan, INDONESIA I would like to wish you all a Happy New Year 2026. Let 2026 be a year of learning, growth, and meaningful connections with people from around the world. Stay consistent, stay hopeful, and keep moving forward step by step.

Wishing you peace, success, and happiness throughout 2026

January 1st, 2026 began in a very simple way for me. No big celebration, no luxury breakfast, and no fancy restaurant. Instead, I started the new year quietly, like many other mornings in Indonesia. Early in the morning, around 7:15 AM, I went to my local market near my house. The air was still fresh, the streets were calm, and the new year felt peaceful rather than noisy.

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I was actually going to the market for a simple reason, but before going home, I decided to stop for a while. My stomach reminded me that it was time for breakfast. Near the market, there is a small food stall that I already know very well. It is not famous, not viral on social media, but it serves honest food. That morning, I chose something very familiar and very Indonesian: a plate of nasi uduk

What is Nasi Uduk by the way?
Well, Nasi uduk is a traditional Indonesian rice dish. The rice is cooked with coconut milk and aromatic spices like lemongrass and bay leaves, which give it a rich, slightly creamy taste. It is usually served with fried chicken, tofu or tempeh, crackers, chili sauce (sambal), and fried shallots.

People in Indonesia often eat nasi uduk for breakfast, especially from small street stalls or local markets. It is affordable, filling, and very comforting. For many Indonesians, nasi uduk is not just foodit is a part of everyday life and local culture.


I have uploaded two photos here. See at below

My first breakfast of 2026: a simple plate of nasi uduk with fried chicken, crackers, and sambal. Affordable, filling, and full of comfort.  Photo Asep Haryono

Close-up of traditional Indonesian nasi uduk with fried chicken, crackers, sambal, and fried shallots on coconut rice. Photo Asep Haryono

This was not just any breakfast. This was my very first dish of 2026. Somehow, it felt meaningful, even though it was simple. Nasi uduk has always been a comfort food for many of us. It is rice cooked with coconut milk and spices, giving it a rich aroma and taste. For me, starting the year with nasi uduk felt warm and grounding, like coming back to my roots

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The price was also very reasonable. A full plate of nasi uduk with chicken cost about 20,000 rupiahs, which is less than 2 US dollars. In today’s world, where prices keep going up, this felt like a small blessing. Good food does not always need to be expensive.

The plate was simple but complete. There was a piece of fried chicken placed nicely on top of the rice. It looked crispy on the outside and smelled delicious. On the side, there were crackers, adding a crunchy texture. There were also slices of cucumber, fresh and cool, balancing the rich taste of the rice. Another part of the plate was bihun, or rice noodles, lightly seasoned and soft. Of course, no nasi uduk is complete without chili sauce. Just a small spoon was enough to add heat and excitement to the dish.

To complete my breakfast, I ordered a glass of tea. Nothing special, just simple tea, warm and comforting. Sometimes, the simplest drink is the best companion for traditional food. Sitting there, sipping tea and enjoying my nasi uduk, I felt calm. There was no rush. The new year had just begun, and for a moment, I allowed myself to enjoy the silence.

As I ate, I looked around. Other people were also having their breakfast. Some were market sellers, some were workers, and some were just neighbors like me. Everyone had their own plans for 2026, their own hopes and worries. Yet, at that moment, we were all the same sharing a simple morning meal.

This breakfast made me reflect a little. Many people think that a new year must start with something big or extraordinary. But for me, starting 2026 with nasi uduk reminded me that simple things matter. Consistency matters. Showing up matters. Just like cooking rice every morning, life is built from small, repeated actions.

Nasi uduk also reminds me of patience. Cooking it properly takes time. The rice must absorb the coconut milk slowly to get the right flavor. In life, especially in this new year, I want to remember that good results do not come instantly. Whether it is improving my English, growing my blog, or working hard at my job, everything takes time.

This first meal of 2026 may not be memorable for everyone, but it is memorable for me. It represents humility, gratitude, and simplicity. I am grateful that I can still enjoy good food, that I can start the year healthy, and that I have the chance to continue learning and improving.

As I finished my plate and paid the seller, I felt thankful. With a full stomach and a calm heart, I continued my walk through the market. The year 2026 stretched wide in front of me, full of unknown moments. But if this first breakfast is a sign, I hope this year will be simple, steady, and meaningful.

Sometimes, happiness is not found in grand resolutions or expensive celebrations. Sometimes, it is found in a plate of nasi uduk, a glass of tea, and a quiet morning on January 1st.

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If you enjoyed this simple story, feel free to leave a comment below. What was your first meal of 2026? Let’s share small moments that make life meaningful. I say thank you to everyone for their time here.  I really appreciate it

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Breaking News: Deadly Floods Hit Sumatra, At least 1,177 people have died - Powered by Blogger

Disclaimer:
This article is based on publicly available reports and official statements as of January 1, 2026. Figures may change as rescue operations continue. This content is written for informational purposes only.

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Indonesia is facing one of its worst natural disasters in recent years as massive floods and landslides continue to devastate parts of Sumatra. According to the latest official data released on January 1, 2026, at least 1,177 people have been confirmed dead, while 148 others are still missing, Around 242,000 people are displaced, living in temporary shelters or with family and friends. . The disaster has affected thousands of families and forced many to leave their homes.

Heavy rainfall over several weeks caused rivers to overflow and hillsides to collapse in Aceh, North Sumatra, and West Sumatra. Entire villages were flooded within hours, leaving residents with little time to escape. Roads, bridges, schools, and homes were destroyed, making rescue efforts extremely difficult.



Impact Across Provinces
The disaster has caused severe damage across three provinces:

• Aceh: Around 530 deaths reported, with dozens still missing 

• North Sumatra: About 365 deaths, many villages heavily damaged 

• West Sumatra: At least 262 deaths, landslides hit rural areas hard

These numbers show how widespread and serious the disaster is.


Mass Displacement and Humanitarian Crisis
Hundreds of thousands of people have been forced to leave their homes. Many now live in temporary shelters such as schools, mosques, and public buildings. Access to clean water, food, and medical care remains a challenge in some locations.

Children, elderly people, and pregnant women are among the most vulnerable. Aid organizations and volunteers continue to distribute food, drinking water, blankets, and medicine.

Pray for Sumatera  A moment of hope and humanity amid the devastating floods in Sumatera, Indonesia, as communities endure loss and rescuers work tirelessly to save lives.

Government and Community Response
The Indonesian government has declared emergency status in affected areas and promised support for recovery and rebuilding. Emergency funds have been released to help victims and repair critical infrastructure.

At the same time, local communities have shown strong solidarity. Volunteers from different regions are helping with evacuation, logistics, and emotional support for survivors.

Looking Ahead
As the new year begins, Indonesia faces a long recovery process. Authorities stress the importance of preparedness and early warning systems to reduce future risks. Climate experts warn that extreme weather events may become more frequent.

For now, the focus remains on finding the missing, helping survivors, and honoring those who lost their lives. This tragedy is a painful reminder of the power of nature and the importance of unity, compassion, and resilience.

May Allah SWT grant mercy to those who passed away, strength to the survivors, and patience to the families affected by this tragedy. Ameen 

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | 9 Ideas for Welcoming 2026: Simple, Meaningful, and Budget-Friendly Family Traditions - Powered by Blogger

Hello my friends/ How is it going? As for me here, I am doing just fine.

As 2025 slowly comes to an end, many of us start to feel something special in the air. The last days of the year always bring mixed emotions , gratitude, relief, hope, and sometimes a little sadness. We think about what we achieved, what we failed to do, and what we want to improve in the coming year.

For many people, welcoming the New Year means big parties, fireworks, traveling, or spending a lot of money. But honestly, a meaningful New Year celebration does not have to be expensive as least for myself and family here in Indonesia. Some of the most beautiful moments are created at home, with family, simplicity, and sincere intention.

This year, as we welcome 2026, my family and I plan to celebrate in a calm, warm, and budget-friendly way. Here are some simple activities that anyone can do to welcome the New Year without spending too much money but with a lot of meaning.

Welcoming 2026 with hope and gratitude may the new year bring fresh opportunities, positive energy, and meaningful moments for us all. Photo Asep Haryono

1. A Family Reflection Night
Before the New Year arrives, we plan to sit together as a family and talk about the past year. This is one of the most important activities because it helps us slow down and reflect.

Each family member can share: One thing they are grateful for in 2025, One challenge they faced or One lesson they learned

This does not need to be serious or emotional all the time. It can be relaxed, honest, and even funny. Sometimes, laughing together while remembering old moments is more healing than we realize.

Reflection helps us appreciate how far we have come and reminds us that every year good or bad has value.

2. Writing Wishes and Goals for 2026
Another simple but powerful activity is writing wishes and goals. Each family member writes: One personal goal for 2026,One goal for the family, and One hope for the world

We can write them on small pieces of paper and put them in a jar, envelope, or small box. Next year, we can open them again and see how much has changed.

This activity is great for children too. It teaches them to dream, to plan, and to express their hopes in a positive way.

3. Cooking a Simple Special Meal Together
Food always brings people together. Instead of ordering expensive food or going out, we plan to cook at home.

It does not have to be fancy. It can be:A favorite family dish like Bakso, Nasi Goreng, Tofu and many Indonesian dishes, Simple homemade snacks. a small dessert everyone likes

The most important part is cooking together. When everyone helps even a little it creates teamwork and warmth. The kitchen becomes a place of laughter, stories, and togetherness.Sometimes, the memory of cooking together is more special than the food itself.

4. Celebrating Without Fireworks: A Safer and Kinder Choice
Fireworks are often seen as a symbol of New Year celebrations. The bright colors and loud sounds may look exciting, but fireworks can also be risky and harmful. Every year, accidents happen, especially to children, and pets often become stressed or frightened by the noise. Fireworks can also disturb neighbors and contribute to air and noise pollution.

Because of this, many families are now choosing to welcome the New Year without fireworks. Instead of loud explosions, they celebrate with simple and peaceful activities such as talking together, enjoying music, praying, playing games, or doing a quiet countdown at home. Welcoming 2026 does not require fire and noise starting the year safely and calmly with loved ones can be far more meaningful.

5. Movie Night or Story Time at Home
After dinner, a simple movie night is a great way to relax. We can choose: A family movie A comedy Or something inspiring

Another idea is story time. Parents can share stories from their childhood, or families can watch old photos and videos together. This helps younger family members understand their roots and appreciate family history.

No cinema tickets needed just a screen, some snacks, and time together.

6. Prayer and Gratitude to Start the New Year
For Muslim families just like my family members and relatives, starting the New Year with prayer and gratitude is deeply meaningful.

We plan to: Thank Allah for bringing us through 2025, Ask for guidance, health, and peace in 2026, and Pray for our family, friends, and the world. This moment reminds us that life is not only about plans and goals, but also about faith, patience, and trust. Beginning the year with gratitude helps set a calm and positive tone for the months ahead.

7. A Simple Midnight Countdown
When midnight comes, we don’t need fireworks or loud celebrations. A simple countdown at home is enough.

We can: Count down the last seconds of 2025 together Exchange smiles, hugs, and kind words and Say “Bismillah” as 2026 begins. This quiet moment often feels more sincere than crowded celebrations. It reminds us that the New Year is not about noise, but about new beginnings.

8. Cleaning and Resetting the House
Cleaning before the New Year is not just about tidiness it is symbolic.

By cleaning together, we Let go of the old year Create space for new energy and Start 2026 with a fresh environment. Even simple cleaning tasks can feel meaningful when done as a family. It also teaches responsibility and teamwork.

A clean home often brings a clearer mind.

9. Giving and Sharing, Even in Small Ways
Starting the year by giving is a beautiful habit. It does not require a lot of money. We can: Share food with neighbors Donate clothes we no longer use and Help someone in need, even with small kindness

Giving reminds us that happiness grows when it is shared. It is a powerful way to welcome a new year with compassion.

A Simple New Year, A Meaningful One
For all my family here in Indonesia, Welcoming 2026 does not need luxury or big expenses. What truly matters is intention, togetherness, and gratitude. Simple activities done with love can leave deeper memories than expensive celebrations.

As we say goodbye to 2025, let us remember that every year teaches us something. And as we welcome 2026, let us do it with hope, humility, and hearts full of gratitude.

Sometimes, the simplest celebrations are the most meaningful ones.

How do you and your family welcome the New Year? I’d love to hear your traditions and thoughts. Please share them in the comments below.

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Indonesia - Asep Haryono | Bonnie Blue and the Harassment of the Indonesian Flag in London - Powered by Blogger

Recently, the name Bonnie Blue became popular on social media in Indonesia. Many people were confused and asked what really happened.

Hold your horses. Who Is Bonnie Blue?
Bonnie Blue is a British online content creator. Earlier this month, she was in Bali and got into trouble with Indonesian authorities. After an investigation, she was deported from Indonesia and banned from returning for several years. At that point, many Indonesians thought the issue was finished.

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However, things got worse.

After returning to the UK, a video appeared online showing Bonnie Blue near the Indonesian Embassy in London. In the video, she wore the Indonesian flag attached to her clothing in a way that made it drag on the ground while she walked. For many Indonesians, this felt very disrespectful.

In the video, she was seen wearing the Indonesian national flag (Merah Putih) attached to her clothes in a way that made it touch and drag on the ground while she walked. We saw this as extremely disrespectful to  a simbol of a sovereign of a country Of Indonesia
Source : MIFA TV Youtube Channel

Following the immoral content case in Bali,
Bonnie Blue is up to no good again by insulting the Indonesian flag
See the video

Source : VIVA Youtube Channel

Freedom of Speech or Disrespect?
After the controversy involving Bonnie Blue and the Indonesian flag, some people began asking an important question: Was this freedom of speech, or did it cross a line?

Freedom of speech allows people to express opinions, criticism, and ideas without fear. It protects open discussion, even when opinions are unpopular. However, freedom of speech is not unlimited.

In this case, the issue is not about expressing an opinion or criticizing Indonesia, my country. I have an opinion that the controversy comes from how the Indonesian national flag was treated. A national flag is not just fabric. It represents a sovereign country, its people, and its history.

For many Indonesians, seeing the Merah Putih dragged on the ground felt like a deliberate act of disrespect, not a form of political or artistic expression. That is why the reaction was strong and emotional.

Is it harassment? That depends on local laws, especially since the incident happened outside Indonesia. Is it hate? Some people believe it shows contempt toward a nation, even if it was meant as provocation or attention-seeking.

This situation reminds us that freedom of expression works best when balanced with cultural awareness and respect. In a connected world, actions can travel far and their impact can be bigger than expected.

My friends...

The Indonesian flag is not just a symbol. It represents independence, history, and sacrifice. That’s why people reacted strongly. Social media quickly filled with criticism, and public figures also spoke out.

The Indonesian government later made a formal complaint to British authorities. Even though the incident happened outside Indonesia, officials said that disrespecting a national flag is not acceptable.

Many Indonesians see her actions as disrespectful to the Indonesian flag, which is why the reaction was so strong. Please do not do that again.

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | One God, Many Beliefs: An Islamic Reflection on Christmas, Jesus, and Respect - Powered by Blogger

DISCLAIMER : This article reflects my personal beliefs as a Muslim and is written with respect for all faiths.

Every year when December comes, the world seems to slow down just a little. Streets light up, songs about peace and love play everywhere, and people greet each other with words like Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays. For many, it is a joyful time. For others, especially those of different faiths, it can also bring questions, reflections, and sometimes confusion.

As a Muslim, I often get questions like: Do Muslims believe in Jesus?Why don’t Muslims celebrate Christmas?Why does Islam reject the Trinity?

This blog post is not written to attack or convert anyone. It is simply a casual and friendly reflection from an Islamic point of view, while fully respecting other religions and beliefs. Faith is personal, and mutual respect matters more than winning arguments.

Jesus in Islam: Nabi Isa (Peace Be Upon Him)
Let’s start with something many people don’t realize: Muslims do believe in Jesus. In Islam, Jesus is known as Nabi Isa (عيسى عليه السلام), and he is one of the most honored prophets. Muslims believe that:

• He was born miraculously to Maryam (Mary), who is deeply respected in the Qur’an 

• He performed miracles by the permission of Allah 

• He preached worship of One God • He will return near the end of time

So when Muslims hear about Jesus during Christmas season, it does not feel foreign or strange. We respect him deeply. However, the difference lies in who Jesus is believed to be.Christians believe Jesus is divine the Son of God. Muslims believe he is a prophet, not God, and not the son of God. This difference is important, but it does not cancel out respect.

One God, many beliefs an illustration symbolizing respect, dialogue, and understanding between Islam and Christianity.
Illustration generated using AI for editorial purposes.

Why Muslims Do Not Celebrate Christmas
Many people assume that Muslims reject Christmas because they reject Jesus. That is not true.Muslims do not celebrate Christmas mainly because:

• The Qur’an does not mention a date for Jesus’ birth 

• Islam does not support celebrating religious events that are not part of its teachings 

• Christmas today is both a religious and cultural holiday, often centered around beliefs Islam does not share

This does not mean Muslims are against joy, family gatherings, or kindness. Islam encourages all of these but within its own religious framework. Many Muslims still say things like Happy Holidays or respond politely to Christmas wishes. That is about good manners, not religious agreement.

The Trinity: Why It Feels Confusing to Muslims
One of the biggest questions Muslims have about Christianity is the concept of the Trinity: God the Father God the Son and God the Holy Spirit Christians say this is one God in three persons.

From an Islamic point of view, this concept feels confusing and difficult to understand. Islam teaches absolute monotheism, known as Tawhid.This belief is clearly summarized in Surah Al-Ikhlas, one of the shortest but most powerful chapters in the Qur’an:

“Say: He is Allah, the One. Allah, the Eternal Refuge. He neither begets nor is born. And there is none comparable to Him.” (Qur’an 112)

For Muslims, this verse answers the question of God completely and clearly. Allah is One no division, no partners, no offspring. This is why Muslims respectfully disagree with ideas like the Trinity or the Son of God. It is not confusion it is a different theological foundation. Is Christmas “Made Up”?

Another common discussion point is whether Christmas is divinely commanded or human-made.Historically speaking: The Bible does not state December 25 as Jesus’ birth date The date was chosen centuries later Many Christmas traditions come from older cultural and seasonal customs

From an Islamic perspective, this reinforces the idea that Christmas is a human-established tradition, not a divinely mandated event. That said, this does not mean it is meaningless to Christians. Faith gives meaning to traditions, and people experience spirituality in different ways.

Respecting Differences Without Compromising Belief

Here is an important point: believing Islam is the truth does not require disrespecting others. Muslims are confident in their faith. Islam teaches clarity, consistency, and pure monotheism. At the same time, Islam also teaches adab good manners, humility, and respect.

The Qur’an itself says there is no compulsion in religion.

So when Muslims interact with Christians, Jews, or people of any other belief, the goal should not be to argue aggressively, but to: Explain beliefs honestlym Listen respectfully and Maintain peace

Disagreement does not equal hatred.

Why Interfaith Conversations Matter
In today’s global world, we interact with people from many cultures and religions online, at work, and in daily life. Misunderstandings happen easily. Someone may think Muslims reject Jesus. Someone else may think Christians worship three gods. These ideas usually come from lack of communication, not bad intentions. Talking openly but politely helps remove fear and stereotypes.

I can say: “This is my belief as a Muslim.”, “I respect your faith, even though mine is different.” And “We see God differently, and that’s okay.” These simple sentences can keep conversations peaceful and meaningful.

Conclusion
Faith is deeply personal. For Muslims, the message of One God as described in Surah Al-Ikhlas is complete and satisfying. It leaves no confusion about who Allah is.For Christians, Jesus and Christmas hold deep spiritual meaning.

We do not need to agree to respect each other. As a Muslim, I am confident in Islam as the truth. At the same time, I believe good character, honesty, and respect are just as important as belief itself.

If this reflection feels uncomfortable to some, that is understandable. Differences can be uncomfortable. But respectful dialogue is always better than silence or hostility. At the end of the day, peace begins with understanding and understanding begins with listening.

Happy holidays to those who celebrate, and peace to everyone. 

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Eating with Bare Hands in Indonesia - Powered by Blogger

Indonesia is one of the most incredible countries in the world, known for its rich national character and diverse cultures. Today, Indonesia is gaining more international recognition not only for its amazing cuisines, but also for its deeply rooted cultural heritage. Among these traditions, two simple yet powerful practices often surprise and captivate people from other parts of the world: kissing hands known in Bahasa Indonesia as cium tangan and eating with bare hands.

At first glance, these practices may seem old-fashioned or even unusual, especially to people who come from highly modern and fast-paced societies. In many countries, physical contact such as hand-kissing may feel too personal, and eating without cutlery may be considered impolite. However, in Indonesia, these traditions carry deep meanings. They reflect values of respect, humility, togetherness, gratitude, and strong emotional bonds between people.

Growing Up with These Traditions
When I was a child, especially during my elementary school years, I saw many children my age naturally practicing these traditions in their daily lives. Kissing our parents’ hands before going to school or after returning home was not something we learned from textbooks or formal lessons it was simply part of everyday life. We did it almost automatically, without being told, because we saw adults and older siblings doing the same.


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Eating with bare hands during family meals was also very common. Whether it was breakfast, lunch, or dinner, sitting together and sharing food using our hands created a special atmosphere. There was a sense of closeness and equality at the table. No one felt distant or superior. Everyone shared the same dishes, the same space, and the same experience.

These simple routines shaped our attitudes from a very young age. They taught us manners, respect, and emotional awareness in a natural way. They were not strict rules enforced by fear or punishment, but habits formed through love, repetition, and example

This is my hand as I eat a traditional Indonesian meal with bare hands, a daily practice rooted in simplicity and togetherness.  Photo by me

I am on the right side having meals with bare hands in Bali together with staff and personnel from KangGuru Indonesia, most of them Australian nationals, sharing a relaxed and friendly moment.

Samuel Donner is a U.S.-based content creator and social media personality, best known for his work on TikTok and other platforms. He is recognized as a TikTok star and online personality, and he is also involved in podcasting and storytelling content.Recently, he visited Bali for his content and was seen enjoying meals with his bare hands, just like the local Balinese people.
Source : IG @samueldonner

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The Meaning Behind Eating with Bare Hands
Eating with bare hands is not just about tradition it is also about connection. In many parts of Indonesia, food is enjoyed not only with the mouth, but also with the sense of touch. Using hands allows people to feel the texture and temperature of the food, creating a more intimate and mindful eating experience.

This practice also symbolizes togetherness. When people eat with their hands from shared dishes, it encourages patience, sharing, and mutual respect. People become more aware of others at the table. They take only what they need and make sure everyone has enough. In this way, eating becomes a social activity, not just a physical necessity.

For many Indonesians, eating with bare hands also represents simplicity and humility. It reminds us that happiness does not always come from luxury or sophistication. Sometimes, it comes from simple moments sharing rice, side dishes, and laughter with family or friends.

Seen Through Foreign Eyes
In recent years, many foreigners have shown interest in these Indonesian traditions. Through YouTube videos, travel vlogs, and cultural documentaries, people from different countries have expressed admiration for the simplicity and warmth of Indonesian daily life.

Many of them say they feel touched by how children respect their parents and elders. Some are surprised to see families eating together, using their hands, laughing, and talking without distractions. For people who live in stressful and highly individualistic environments, these scenes feel peaceful and meaningful.

What Indonesians often consider ordinary turns out to be extraordinary to outsiders. These traditions represent something many people are searching for: connection, calmness, and genuine human interaction.

Adopting Indonesian Values
For foreigners who live in Indonesia for a long time, these practices often become familiar and comfortable. Some begin to practice kissing hands or “cium tangan” in Indonesian language when greeting older Indonesians. Others start eating with bare hands, especially when sharing meals with local families.


Read also -Why Bakso Holds a Special Place in the Heart of Indonesians


Slowly, without realizing it, they adopt parts of Indonesian culture into their own lives. What once felt strange or outdated begins to feel logical and deeply human. These traditions stop being seen as cultural curiosities and instead become meaningful life lessons.

Tradition in a Modern World
In a world that is becoming more digital and fast-paced, traditions like especially eating with bare hands may seem old-fashioned. However, they offer an important reminder: modern life does not have to erase human values. Technology can move forward, cities can grow taller, and lifestyles can change but respect, humility, and togetherness should remain. Indonesian culture shows that tradition and modernity can coexist. Simple gestures can still carry powerful meanings.

Through eating with bare hands and cium tangan, Indonesia quietly teaches the world that true progress is not only about innovation and speed. It is also about staying connected to family, to community, and to our shared humanity.

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Have you ever experienced eating with bare hands or greeting elders with cium tangan in Indonesia?

Share your thoughts, memories, or experiences in the comments below and let’s keep this cultural conversation alive ..


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Hope you all got a fabulous day, right
Happy Tuesday my friends

As we all knew that on 14 December 2025, a terrorist-style mass shooting took place at a Hanukkah celebration near Bondi Beach in Sydney’s eastern suburbs during the first night of the Jewish festival. Around 1,000 people had gathered for the “Chanukah by the Sea” event when two gunmen, believed to be a father and son, opened fire from a footbridge beside Archer Park

Many media reported that by the end of the incident, 16 people were confirmed dead, including a 10-year-old girl, an 87-year-old Holocaust survivor, and community leaders at the event; dozens more were wounded, including children and police officers. One of the shooters was killed by police, and the other was wounded and taken to hospital in critical condition. A bystander was widely praised for tackling and disarming one of the attackers, likely saving many lives.

The attack began in the early evening and lasted about 10 minutes, with witnesses describing chaotic scenes as hundreds of people fled in panic. Authorities and international media quickly characterised the shooting as a targeted antisemitic terrorist attack.

Today article is not talking about the moslem guy as a genuine hero which got internationally attention by his bravery and widely praised for tackling and disarming one of the attackers. I am interested in discussing why people associated as a targeted antisemitic terrorist attack. 

The word “antisemitic” became widely known and internationally recognized during the Palestine–Israel confrontation

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The prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and disturbing history that spans centuries. It is rooted in stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities.Antisemitism persists to this day and can manifest in various forms, including hate speech,

vandalism, exclusionary policies, and even acts of terrorism targeted specifically at Jews.Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in inter group contempt towards Jewish individuals.

Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.Jenkins and colleagues conducted a study to examine negative attitudes toward Arab-Americans.

Their research found that participants were less willing to interact socially with Arab-Americans compared to other ethnic groups, indicating a bias and discrimination towards this specific group. This supports the idea that discrimination and prejudice exist across various ethnicity and can impact different groups differently.

Antisemitism, the prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and disturbing history that spans centuries. It is rooted in stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities.Antisemitism persists to this day and can manifest in various forms, including hate speech, vandalism, exclusionary policies, and even acts of terrorism targeted specifically at Jews.

Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in intergroup contempt towards Jewish individuals. Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.Jenkins and colleagues conducted a study to examine negative attitudes toward Arab-Americans.


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Their research found that participants were less willing to interact socially with Arab-Americans compared to other ethnic groups, indicating a bias and discrimination towards this specific group. This supports the idea that discrimination and prejudice exist across various ethnicities and can impact different groups differently.

Antisemitism is not only a form of hate speech but also a deeply ingrained prejudice and discrimination against Jewish people. It is characterized by negative stereotypes, scapegoating, and systemic oppression that have persisted throughout history.These biases and discriminatory behaviors not only marginalize and harm Jewish individuals but also contribute to the perpetuation of harmful stereotypes and the exclusion of Jewish communities from society.


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In order to address this issue, it is important to educate individuals about the harms of antisemitism, promote inter group understanding and empathy, and actively work towards dismantling the structural and cultural factors that contribute to antisemitism. Antisemitism, a form of prejudice and discrimination against Jewish individuals, has a long-standing history marked by stereotypes, scapegoating, and systemicAntisemitism: A Historical and Present-day Issue Antisemitism: A Historical and Present-day IssueAntisemitism:


A Historical and Present-day Issue
Antisemitism, the prejudice and discrimination against Jews, has a long and troubling history that spans centuries. It is rooted in negative stereotypes, misinformation, and irrational fear, leading to widespread persecution and violence against Jewish communities (Brustein & King, 2004).

Historically, antisemitism has manifested - in various forms, including pogroms, expulsions, and the Holocaust, which saw the systematic murder of six million Jews during World War II. Today, antisemitism persists in different guises, from hate speech and vandalism to exclusionary policies and even acts of terrorism.

Research has shown that exposure to hate speech and discriminatory attitudes can contribute to the normalization of antisemitism, leading to a decreased sensitivity towards its offensive nature and an increase in inter group contempt towards Jewish individuals (The Surprising Way to Tackle Prejudice in the Real World, 2023). Furthermore, societal factors such as media representations and political discourse can either perpetuate or challenge antisemitic beliefs.

The impacts of antisemitism are far-reaching, as it not only harms Jewish individuals and communities but also undermines the values of diversity, inclusion, and human rights. To address this issue, it is crucial to educate individuals about the harms of antisemitism, promote inter group understanding and empathy, and actively work towards dismantling the structural and cultural factors that contribute to this form of prejudice and discrimination


What Happens Now
This is a complex and sensitive issue, and it’s important to separate criticism of a government’s policies from prejudice against an entire people or religion. Here’s a careful breakdown:

1. Protesting actions vs. attacking a people: Protests against the Israeli government’s actions in Gaza are usually aimed at specific policies or military actions, not at Jewish people as a whole. Criticizing a state’s military operations is not automatically antisemitic

2.   Allegations of antisemitism: Governments or officials sometimes label criticism as antisemitic to delegitimize protests or shift the narrative. While antisemitism is real and serious, it is important not to conflate legitimate political protest with hate speech against Jewish people. 

3. Global perspective: Around the world, people have the right to peacefully protest human rights violations. Accusing all protesters of antisemitism risks silencing important conversations about human rights and accountability. 

4.Nuanced approach: Each protest or statement needs to be examined individually. Are protesters targeting a state’s policies, or are they spreading hatred against Jews as a group? This distinction is crucial.

In short, while antisemitism is unacceptable, labeling all criticism of Israel as antisemitic oversimplifies a complex situation and risks undermining genuine human rights advocacy.

why this labeling happens politically and strategically?
And how it affects international responses.

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