Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | Are Women Truly Weaker Than Men? A Modern Perspective Beyond Biology - Powered by Blogger

Last update : September 6th,2025 : 13.32 PM

For centuries, society has wrestled with one question: are women really weaker than men? From old proverbs to cultural traditions, the idea of “female weakness” has been repeated so often that it feels like common sense. But is it actually true, or just a leftover belief from another era? Let’s take a deeper look, beyond muscles and stereotypes, into what “strength” really means in today’s world.

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The Biological Angle (But Not the Whole Story)
It’s true that, on average, men have greater muscle mass and higher levels of testosterone, which often translates to physical strength. That’s biology, plain and simple. Historically, this gave men an advantage in manual labor, warfare, or other physically demanding roles.

But here’s the catch: biology explains part of the story, not the whole narrative. Strength is not only about how much weight someone can lift. Mental strength, emotional resilience, and adaptability are just as important sometimes even more.

Think of childbirth, for example. Women endure physical pain and emotional challenges that most men will never experience firsthand. Does that sound like “weakness”?

Interestingly, studies have shown that women may excel in endurance-based activities. For example, ultramarathon races often see women competing at nearly the same level or even surpassing men because women’s bodies can metabolize fat more efficiently for long-term energy. That means in ultra-distance events, women sometimes hold an edge.

So if we only focus on brute force, men tend to dominate. But if we broaden our definition of strength, the picture looks very different.

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The Weight of Social Conditioning
Much of the so-called weakness attributed to women is actually a result of social conditioning. For centuries, women were discouraged from education, leadership, or even sports. If you tell half the population, generation after generation, that they’re “not supposed” to do something, of course the outcome looks skewed.

The good news? We’ve seen what happens when women are given opportunities. From female CEOs and scientists to world-class athletes, it’s clear that when barriers are removed, women rise to the occasion.

History is full of examples. Marie Curie became the first woman to win a Nobel Prize and remains the only person to win in two different sciences. In sports, Serena Williams dominated tennis for decades, proving physical excellence isn’t confined to one gender. And in politics, leaders like Jacinda Ardern of New Zealand showed remarkable crisis management during times of national hardship.

So maybe it’s not about weakness, but about restrictions.

Redefining Strength in Modern Life
Let’s be real modern life rarely demands the kind of brute physical power it once did. Today’s challenges are about creativity, problem-solving, emotional intelligence, and collaboration.

• Who handles crisis at home with calm and patience?

 

• Who manages the emotional labor of relationships?

 

• Who juggles careers, family, and personal growth while navigating a world full of expectations?

In many of these areas, women often shine. That doesn’t make men weak, either it just proves that strength has many faces.

Consider the COVID-19 pandemic. Research found that countries led by women often responded more effectively, with quicker lockdowns and lower death rates. Leadership in such times isn’t about physical power it’s about decision-making, empathy, and communication.

This shows us that strength today is less about muscles and more about the qualities that help us adapt, survive, and thrive


The Myth Hurts Everyone
Labeling women as “weaker” doesn’t just limit women it hurts men, too. If society tells men they must always be strong, they’re discouraged from showing vulnerability or asking for help. This pressure contributes to stress, burnout, and even higher suicide rates among men.

Toxic masculinity the idea that men must be tough at all costs stems from the same outdated thinking that labels women as fragile. In reality, both men and women benefit when we allow multiple forms of strength to exist.

By holding onto outdated ideas of strength, both genders lose. A Modern Perspective: Complement, Not Compete

Rather than asking who is stronger, maybe the better question is: how do men and women complement each other? Physical differences exist, sure, but they don’t determine value or potential. Emotional balance, shared responsibilities, and mutual respect matter far more in the world we live in today.

A modern perspective sees strength not as a competition between genders, but as a partnership where men and women bring unique strengths to the table and support each other.

For instance, research in workplace teams shows that gender-diverse groups often outperform single-gender groups in problem-solving and innovation. That’s because different perspectives fuel creativity and resilience.

So instead of arguing about who is stronger, perhaps it’s wiser to focus on how both can thrive together.

Expanding the Definition of Strength
When we think of strength, we often picture someone lifting heavy weights at the gym. But strength can also be:

• The mental endurance of a woman studying late at night while raising children.

 

• The emotional resilience of men who open up about their struggles and fight against stereotypes.

 

• The spiritual strength of communities led by women in activism and humanitarian work.

 True strength shows up in everyday life, in ways that muscle alone cannot measure.

Even in physical terms, women demonstrate types of strength that men don’t experience. Pain tolerance during childbirth, recovery after surgery, and even long-term immunity responses differ between the sexes, often favoring women. That’s not weakness it’s power in another form.

So, Are Women Truly Weaker Than Men?
Honestly, the idea that women are “weaker” than men has been around forever, but it’s not really that simple. If we’re talking purely about physical strength, then yes on average, men tend to have more muscle mass and higher levels of testosterone, which can give them an edge in things like upper body strength and speed. That’s just biology. But “weaker” is a tricky word, because strength isn’t only about muscles.

Women often outperform men in areas like endurance, flexibility, and pain tolerance. For example, studies show that women can sometimes handle long-term physical stress better than men, and many women have incredible stamina. Think about childbirth that alone proves a level of strength that men will never fully understand!

And then there’s mental and emotional strength. Women throughout history have shown incredible resilience, balancing careers, families, social expectations, and challenges like discrimination or inequality. Strength here isn’t about how much you can lift at the gym, but how you handle life’s pressures. By that measure, women are definitely not weaker they just express strength in different ways.

So, in a friendly nutshell: men and women are built differently, but that doesn’t mean one is “weaker” than the other. Men might win in raw physical power, but women bring their own unique forms of strength that are just as important, if not more, in some situations. It’s really about balance and complementing each other, rather than ranking one as stronger or weaker.

Summary

At the end of the day, true strength is not about gender. It’s about character, courage, and the ability to face life’s challenges with determination. And that thankfully is something both men and women can share equally.

So what do you think should “strength” only be defined by muscle, or does it go beyond biology? Share your thoughts in the comments, and don’t forget to subscribe for more fresh perspectives every week.

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Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | National Lottery Revenue: Voluntary Tax or Moral Dilemma - Powered by Blogger

If a country runs a national lottery, do you think the revenue from it can be considered a form of tax and used to support national development of the country themselves?

The idea of treating national lottery revenue as a form of tax is interesting, but it’s not quite the same as traditional taxation. Taxes are mandatory payments imposed by the government, while lottery participation is voluntary you choose whether to buy a ticket or not.

That said, in practice, lottery revenue often acts like a “voluntary tax,” especially because many participants may not realize how much they contribute over time.Many governments channel lottery proceeds into public projects, such as education, sports programs, cultural initiatives, or infrastructure development.

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This can help supplement national budgets without directly raising taxes. However, the fairness of this approach is sometimes debated. Critics argue that lotteries can disproportionately affect lower-income individuals, who may spend a larger share of their income on tickets, effectively creating a regressive funding source.

If managed transparently and responsibly, lottery funds can indeed support national development building schools, funding healthcare, or improving public services. The key is accountability: ensuring that the money is used for clear, beneficial purposes and not lost to inefficiency or corruption. So, while it’s not technically a tax, it can function similarly in raising government funds for the country’s growth

"There are over 100 countries globally possibly between 100 and 180 that conduct national (state-run or state-sanctioned) lotteries used as a source of revenue by governments to support national development, public services, or charitable causes.

In the 1980s, PORKAS and SDSB were both National lottery programs conducted by The Republic of Indonesia that became quite famous (and controversial). Sumbangan Dana Sosial Berhadiah (Social Contribution with Prizes) and Kupon Porkas Sepakbola (Porkas Football Coupon). PORKAS was Criticized by religious groups and anti-gambling advocates, leading to its closure in 1987. SDSB Officially banned in 1993 by President Suharto"


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The morality aspect of a national lottery
This is where things get more complicated . For many religions, including Islam and some branches of Christianity, gambling is considered morally wrong because it’s seen as earning money from chance rather than productive work. In Islam, for example, maysir (gambling) is explicitly prohibited, and lotteries fall into that category. For believers, buying a lottery ticket could be viewed as violating religious principles, no matter how the revenue is used.

From a moral standpoint, even in secular societies, critics argue that state-run lotteries can exploit human vulnerability. They often market the dream of instant wealth, which can be particularly tempting for those struggling financially sometimes leading to addiction or poor financial decisions. This raises the question: is it ethical for a government to profit from its citizens’ hopes and risks, even if the money funds public projects?

On the other hand, supporters claim that since participation is voluntary, it respects personal choice. They argue that as long as the lottery is regulated, transparent, and its revenue is used for the public good, it can be morally defensible in a pluralistic society. Ultimately, morality here depends on one’s worldview religious, cultural, and personal beliefs heavily shape whether lotteries are seen as acceptable or not.

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Apakah Yahudi dan Zionisme Itu Sama? - Powered by Blogger

Apakah Yahudi dan Zionisme Itu Sama? Banyak orang sering menyamakan Yahudi dengan Zionisme, apalagi saat membahas konflik Israel dan Palestina. Tapi sebenarnya, keduanya sangat berbeda. Memahami perbedaan ini penting banget agar kita nggak salah kaprah.

Bendera Israel dan Amerika berdampingan

Yahudi adalah agama. Sudah ada sejak ribuan tahun lalu, penuh dengan nilai-nilai spiritual dan budaya. Umat Yahudi tinggal di berbagai penjuru dunia, bukan cuma di Israel. Mereka menjalankan ibadahnya, merayakan tradisinya, dan berasal dari latar belakang yang sangat beragam. Kamu bisa saja Yahudi dan tinggal di Amerika, Prancis, bahkan Indonesia. Sama seperti agama lain.

Zionisme adalah gerakan politik. Dimulai akhir abad ke-19, tujuannya untuk membentuk negara bagi orang Yahudi. Setelah Perang Dunia II, tujuan itu tercapai dengan berdirinya negara Israel tahun 1948. Banyak orang Yahudi mendukung Zionisme, tapi banyak juga yang tidak. Bahkan, ada orang non-Yahudi yang mendukung Zionisme karena alasan politik atau agama.

Nah, yang sering jadi masalah adalah saat pemerintah Israel melakukan tindakan-tindakan keras terhadap Palestina seperti perluasan pemukiman, pendudukan wilayah, atau serangan militer orang jadi menyalahkan semua orang Yahudi. Padahal, itu salah besar.

Mengkritik pemerintah bukan berarti membenci agama atau etnis tertentu.
Banyak orang Yahudi di seluruh dunia yang juga menentang kebijakan Israel, bahkan sangat vokal menyuarakannya. Beberapa kelompok Yahudi yang anti-Zionisme antara lain:

• Jewish Voice for Peace

• Neturei Karta (komunitas Yahudi Ortodoks yang menolak negara Israel)

• Breaking the Silence (mantan tentara Israel yang bicara soal kekerasan yang mereka saksikan)

Jadi, yuk kita luruskan: jadi orang Yahudi tidak berarti otomatis mendukung Zionisme. Dan menolak Zionisme bukan berarti antisemit. Ini dua hal yang berbeda. Kita harus bisa membahas ini dengan hati-hati dan penuh empati karena ini menyangkut nyawa dan keadilan.

Kesimpulannya
Jangan menilai seluruh agama hanya karena tindakan pemerintah. Mari kita jadi masyarakat yang cerdas dan berhati lembut. Kalau kita mau perdamaian, kita harus mau saling memahami, bukan saling menyudutkan.

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Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | Why Don't American Leaders See the Horrible Things That Settlers and the IDF Do? - Powered by Blogger

Have you ever found yourself watching the news or scrolling through social media and asking, “Why don’t American leaders say something about what’s happening in Palestine?” Honestly, you're not alone.

Many of us around the world are wondering the same thing especially when we see videos of settlers attacking families, homes being bulldozed,f or children being detained by the Israeli military (IDF). The sfilence from powerful voices, especially from American politicians, can be both confusing and frustrating.

So what’s really going on here?

Why the silence?

Let’s start with something simple: they do see it. It’s not like they don’t know. U.S. officials have access to intelligence reports, international news, and diplomatic briefings. The problem is not ignorance, it’s politics.

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America and Israel have been strong allies for decades. The U.S. provides around $3.8 billion in military aid to Israel every year, making it one of the largest recipients of American foreign assistance. To many leaders in Washington, this relationship is seen as "strategic." They see Israel as their key partner in the Middle East, a region that’s full of instability and tension.

The flag of the US and Israel stand side by side

But here's the catch: if a U.S. politician dares to criticize Israel too strongly, even when it’s about serious human rights abuses, they risk being labeled as “anti-Semitic” or “anti-Israel”, even when the criticism is aimed at government policies, not Jewish people. This creates a chilling effect. Most mainstream politicians, especially the older generation, choose to stay quiet rather than stir up controversy.

"Another big factor is lobbying. Groups like AIPAC (American Israel Public Affairs Committee) spend millions every year influencing U.S. politicians.

They have a lot of power in Washington. If a candidate speaks out against Israel’s actions, they might lose campaign funding or face attacks during elections. Some politicians just don’t want to deal with that drama ".


And then there’s the media. A lot of major U.S. news outlets often frame the story from a pro-Israel angle. They’ll highlight rockets fired into Israel, but they won’t show much about how Palestinian families live under military occupation, how settlers take over land, or how the IDF responds to protests. This skewed coverage makes it easier for politicians to avoid the topic altogether.

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To be fair, some brave leaders are speaking up. Politicians like Rashida Tlaib, Ilhan Omar, Cori Bush, and Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez have called out the injustices. But every time they do, they face a huge backlash not just politically, but personally too.


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In the end, it's not that they don’t see. It’s that many choose not to act. Whether it’s fear of losing votes, campaign money, or political power, their silence comes at a very high cost for the people livifng under occupation. So what can we do? Keep asking questions. Keep sharing the truth. Because the more people know, the harder it is to ignore. Trust me

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | "Why Is There Islamophobia in Western Culture" By Jasminsbreakfast - Powered by Blogger

I recently received a few notifications containing responses to my article published on the online media platform titled “Why Is There Islamophobia in Western Culture?” which I posted a week ago. One of the comments came from a female writer who goes by the name “jasminsbreakfast.”

She shared her thoughts in the comment section under the article. I’ve copied and pasted her response below for your reference. Please note that the following article was written entirely by her, and we should, of course, show her the respect she deserves.

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Why Is There Islamophobia in Western Culture
By Jasminsbreakfast


It is actually based on direct interactions with muslims and immigrant communities. Especially women have very negative experiences, sexual harrassement, belittlement, even group violence and rapes. Look at what happened in Sweden and Germany, since the gigantic influx from males from mostly muslim countries. Obviously, Islam itself does not teach cruelty and hate.

And yet, many of these super arrogent toxic men keep stating that they are superior beings and women must obey them like slave. They are the ones who keep saying that this is Islam. Germany and Europe in general also has a huge migrant community from other parts of the world - South America, Asia, but they do not have the reputation of extreme violence, especially against women.

I have many friends who tried to help migrants in the crisis of 2015. In fact over 20% of the German population was practically involved as unpaid volunteers at a time after Angela Merkel called on the population to help. They donated clothes, opened their homes to house migrants, offered them jobs in their businesses. But everyone I know and especially the women where horrified the way they were treated.

The men always tried to grope or touch them without consent, kept telling them that "everyone" knew that German women were sluts and would have sex with anyone. And if they refused sex with strangers, the men would be insulted and become violent.

Apparently having lots of sex with German women was something the traffickers promised them. Germany has a huge several million strong muslim Turkish community. But we have never ever experienced this kind of harrassement ever before. Group rapes, even rapes in swimming pools of children were basically non existent.

Now German pools need security and many pools have been changed into private clubs, so families can feel safe again. The only people responsible for the reputation of a community, is the community itself.

Do you ever hear people being scared of Canadians? Or people from the Phillipines? Koreans? We live in an instant connection community and if Muslims want a better reputation they have to be very, very honest and deal with the issues in their communities, especially the lowly treatment of women.

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Cambodia and Thailand at war. Possible treat to Southeast Asia's Stability and unity - Powered by Blogger

Updated : 28 Agustus 2025 : 07.33

Have you been following the news lately? Things are heating up between Cambodia and Thailand, and not in a good way. These two countries, both members of ASEAN (Association of Southeast Asian Nations), are now facing a serious armed conflict that’s raising alarms across Southeast Asia. So what’s going on? And why does it matter to the rest of us in the region?

As a citizen of the Republic of Indonesia, my country is a member of the South East Asian Countries, is so sad to see and watch our neighbor countries at war.

I want to speak up

The fighting started around disputed border areas, especially near old temple sites like Preah Vihear and Ta Muen Thom. But this isn’t just about ancient stones and mapsthere are deep political tensions, national pride, and military buildups involved. Now that both sides are using weapons like artillery and even fighter jets, it’s no longer just a border skirmish.

It's spreading beyond Cambodia and Thailand.

First, ASEAN’s Unity Is at Risk ASEAN has always promoted peace, non-interference, and friendly cooperation. Now, with two of its members at war, that peaceful image is starting to crack. People are asking: If ASEAN can’t stop this conflict, can it really keep the region stable?

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Second , Trade and Tourism Are Suffering The Cambodia and Thailand border is a busy place for trade, small businesses, and tourism. With the conflict, many of those routes are now closed or unsafe. Truck drivers, market sellers, and hotel owners are feeling the hit. Tourists are canceling plans. Investment is slowing down. In short, the economy on both sides and even in nearby countries is being affected.

Third, Refugee Crisis at the Border. Over 160,000 people have already fled their homes. Many are seeking safety in nearby towns, shelters, or across the border. It’s a growing humanitarian crisis, and countries like Vietnam and Laos are worried about how it might spill over into their territories too.

Fourth. Global Powers Are Watching Here's where it gets tricky. If Thailand leans toward the West (like the U.S.), and Cambodia relies more on China’s support, it could drag in bigger international powers. That would turn a local fight into something more dangerous possibly a proxy conflict right in the heart of Southeast Asia.

Fifth. ASEAN’s Reputation Is on the Line This war is testing ASEAN like never before. Can the organization act quickly enough to mediate peace? Or will this be another case where words are plenty but actions are weak? Right now, ASEAN leaders are scrambling to hold emergency talks. Fingers crossed that something positive comes from that soon

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Malaysia Steps In: A Voice of Peace
As the biggest country in ASEAN, Malaysia is known for its role as a peacemaker in the region. I am pleased that The Malaysia government has already offered to act as a mediator between Cambodia and Thailand, urging both sides to calm down and sit at the table. Malaysia has called for a ceasefire and opened the door for ASEAN-led dialogue. They’ve also been working with humanitarian groups to provide refugee support and food aid to those affected.

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And it’s not just about helping others Malaysia knows that if this conflict spreads, it could affect regional trade, tourism, and security, including Malaysia itself. So, stepping in as a peace broker is not only the right thing to do it’s also a smart move for everyone.

Please stop the war

I often think of Southeast Asia as a peaceful region with friendly neighbors and lots of delicious food. But what’s happening between Cambodia and Thailand is a wake up call. It’s a reminder that peace needs effort, dialogue, and real leadership. Thankfully, countries like my country , Indonesia, are stepping up to help calm things down before it gets worse. Let’s hope the fighting stops soon for the sake of both countries, and for the entire region of the South East Asian

We have already witnessed the conflict between Russia and Ukraine, and the brutal battle between Palestine and Israel. So please, let’s not drag the peaceful South Asian countries into a high-tension situation that could escalate into a regional confrontation potentially even leading to World War III.

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Do You Believe God Made Women Weaker Than Men? - Powered by Blogger

Last Update : August 30th,2025 : 21.23 PM


This is one of those timeless questions people often ask: “Did God make women weaker than men?” It’s a topic that goes beyond science and religion, touching culture, history, and everyday life. The short answer is no, women are not weaker, just different Biology: Strength Isn’t One-Dimensional

From a biological perspective, yes, men usually have more muscle mass and physical strength because of hormones like testosterone. That’s why many competitive sports separate men and women, it’s about fairness, not superiority.

But strength isn’t just about muscles. Think about childbirth, for example. The resilience, endurance, and pain tolerance required is something men cannot experience. Women’s bodies are designed for this incredible task, which proves strength comes in different forms. So, while men may lift heavier weights, women often show a deeper kind of strength that’s just as vital.

Spiritual Equality
When it comes to faith, most religions affirm that men and women are equal in value. In Christianity, both were created in God’s image. In Islam, both men and women are equally accountable for their actions and equally rewarded for their faith.

The idea that women are “less” doesn’t come from God it usually comes from cultural traditions over time. At the spiritual level, men and women are created to complement, not to dominate one another.

Different Strengths, Same Value
Men and women bring unique strengths to the table. Men may show more physical power, while women often excel in emotional intelligence, resilience, and multitasking.

Look at family life: mothers are often the ones who hold everything together during tough times. That’s not weaknessthat’s a different kind of strength that’s equally important for survival and growth.

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Culture vs. Reality
Cultural stereotypes have historically limited women’s roles. For centuries, women were told to stay silent, serve men, and avoid leadership. But when women finally got the chance to lead in politics, science, business, and sports they proved they are just as capable as men.

From leaders like Angela Merkel to scientists like Marie Curie, history shows women’s strength shines in many forms beyond physical power.

Emotional and Mental Strength
Another overlooked side of strength is emotional and mental resilience. Women are often better at handling long-term stress, navigating complex emotions, and providing comfort in times of crisis.

And honestly, it sometimes takes far more strength to forgive, nurture, and persevere than to simply rely on physical muscle.

So, Did God Make Women Weaker?
The answer is no. God didn’t make women weaker—He made men and women different. Both genders are equal in dignity, even if their strengths manifest differently.

Instead of comparing who is stronger or weaker, we should focus on how these differences complement one another. Together, men and women bring balance, stability, and growth to society.


Let’s not forget: women carry life, give birth, raise families, and bounce back from pain in ways that many men couldn’t imagine. That takes a kind of strength that isn’t about muscles or lifting weights it's about endurance, emotion, and mental resilience.

In many religious teachings, like Islam and Christianity, God didn’t create women to be less important or weaker. Instead, men and women are seen as different but equal in value. Each was given strengths that serve different purposes. For example, some believe men were designed to be protectors, and women as nurturers. But these roles are not strict or limiting they complement each other.

Here’s the thing: strength comes in many forms. Women have led countries, survived wars, raised children alone, and spoken truth to power. If that’s not strength, then I don’t know what is.

Conclusion

So, to answer the question No, I don’t believe God made women weaker than men. I believe God made us different for a reason, and both genders have strengths that the other may not have. That’s the beauty of balance.

What matters more than “who’s stronger” is how we treat each other. Do we respect women for who they are, or do we just compare them to men using unfair standards?Y

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It’s time we appreciate strength in all its forms even the quiet, emotional, or spiritual kind.The belief that women are inherently “weaker” is a cultural stereotype, not a divine truth. True strength comes in many forms: physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. Women have proven time and time again that they are every bit as strong as men just in different ways.

What You Can DO
What do you think about the idea of “strength” between men and women? Do you see it more as a difference rather than inequality? Share your thoughts in the comments belowI’d love to hear from people around the world.

If you found this article insightful, don’t forget to share it with your friends or on social media. Let’s spread the message that equality isn’t about who’s stronger, but about respecting each other’s unique strengths..

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Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | Do You Trust a Lot of People? - Powered by Blogger

Hello my friend. How is it going
How is your Sunday?

Do You Trust a Lot of People?. This is a question that really gets you thinking. It may sound simple, but it can actually reveal a lot about someone’s personality and life experience.

Some people are naturally open. They trust easily, give people the benefit of the doubt, and believe that most people are good at heart. And honestly, that’s a beautiful way to live but it doesn’t always work out so well. Then there are others who’ve been hurt before. Maybe they’ve had close friends betray them, or they've been taken advantage of, so now they’re extra cautious. They only trust a few, and the rest? Well, they keep them at a distance.

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Somewhere in between.
I’ve had people in my life who proved to be trustworthy the kind of friends you can call at 2 a.m., or talk to when life feels too heavy. But I’ve also met people who smiled to my face and gossiped behind my back. People who disappeared when things got tough. So with time, I’ve learned to be more selective.

But here’s the thing we all need trust to survive. We trust the driver in the car next to us to stay in their lane. We trust the barista to make our coffee without poison in it (ha!). We trust friends to keep our secrets, partners to be faithful, and coworkers to do their jobs. Life simply doesn’t work without some level of trust.

That said, I don’t believe we should just trust everyone blindly. That’s not kindness that’s being naïve. Trust should be earned, not handed out like free samples at a supermarket. You can still be polite, respectful, and warm without giving people access to your personal life until they’ve shown they deserve it.

There’s also an important difference between being kind and being gullible. Kindness is a strength. But being gullible can get you hurt, used, or manipulated. So yes, be kind, but protect your energy too. Pay attention to people’s actions, not just their words.

Over time, I’ve realized that it’s not about the number of people you trust it’s about the quality. You don’t need a hundred friends. You just need a few who are genuine, loyal, and show up when it matters. Those are the ones worth trusting.


So, do I trust a lot of people?
No, not really. But the ones I do trust I trust them deeply. And that feels enough.Would you trust many people if you could start over, or do you prefer keeping your circle small? Let me know your thoughts in the comments

I’d love to hear from you.

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | The Online Dilemma for Individuals and Businesses - Powered by Blogger

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I have looked at several official websites, both business and personal, where people intentionally display their real personal information online to be viewed by people around the world especially for business purposes. They clearly include their real contact details (address, phone number, email address) so that potential customers can contact them for more information about their products.

On the other hand, I’ve found that many individuals online are not interested in providing their personal contact details. Instead, they prefer to use general chat options such as Facebook Messenger or the Facebook comment section, which feel safer than exposing their private information. This is understandable.

FYI. This is my actual laptop I use every day at my home. I purchased online a few years ago. Old fashion type with very old window version as well.

Privacy vs. Visibility:
In today’s digital world, there's an interesting contrast happening across social media and online platforms. On one side, many individuals especially bloggers and everyday internet users are becoming increasingly cautious about sharing personal information. On the other side, online businesses are expected to be transparent, providing real addresses, phone numbers, and contact details to build trust. So why is this happening, and what risks are involved?

Many social media users are now choosing to keep their phone numbers, real names, and even profile pictures private. And it’s easy to understand why. With rising concerns about cyberbullying, scams, identity theft, and doxxing, protecting your personal data online is no longer optional it’s essential.


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Online anonymity also offers freedom. People want to express themselves, join conversations, or comment freely without fear of judgment or harassment. That’s why you often see pseudonyms and avatars instead of real faces on platforms like Reddit, TikTok, or Twitter.

"It doesn't happen to me. If you visit my blog, you’ll clearly see that all my contact details are publicly displayed. My email, phone number, and other personal information are real.

I'm not afraid of being scammed or having someone misuse my contact details or photos for their own benefit. All my friends already know me well. Even though I haven’t experienced any serious online scams in years,

I will definitely stay more cautious with all my online activities moving forward"




For Businesses Must Be Transparent
In contrast, online businesses operate in a completely different environment. They need to be visible and accessible. Potential customers want to know they’re dealing with a real, trustworthy business. That means showing an actual address, business phone number, and clear identity. Without that, people simply won’t buy.

Also, for legal reasons, platforms like Google Business, Facebook Pages, or marketplaces like Amazon often require verified business details. This builds credibility, ensures accountability, and helps with online visibility in search engines.

Scammers Are Watching

Here’s the twist. While businesses need to be transparent, that same visibility also makes them prime targets for scammers. Public contact details are often scraped from websites or social media and used for: Fake orders or refund scams, Phishing emails pretending to be customers or banks, Business identity theft (cloning websites or brand pages), Phone calls using social engineering to steal information, The more open you are, the more exposed you become,

How to Be Smart and Stay Safe
Balancing online visibility with security starts by being mindful of what you share. It’s a good idea to use only essential information like a business phone, a professional email address, and a general location such as your city while keeping personal details private. Strengthening your digital presence is also important. Make sure your website uses HTTPS, update your plugins regularly, and install basic security tools such as firewalls to prevent unwanted access.

It helps to separate personal and business accounts so your professional activity doesn't overlap with your private life. For instance, using different platforms or profiles for your business keeps things organized and more secure. When you receive unexpected emails, messages, or payment notifications, take a moment to double-check their source. Verifying things before responding can prevent unnecessary risks or misunderstandings.

Also, keep an eye on how your brand appears online. Every so often, search your business name to make sure it hasn’t been copied or misused. If something looks suspicious, acting early can protect your reputation and customer trust. Taking these thoughtful steps helps you stay visible, credible, and safe in the digital world.

The online world is full of opportunity, but also full of risk. For individuals, privacy is protection. For businesses, visibility is survival. The key is to find the sweet spot where you're open enough to grow, but cautious enough to stay safe.

If you found this article helpful, feel free to share it with fellow bloggers, small business owners, or anyone trying to grow their online presence safely. Have your own tips or stories to share? Drop a comment below or message me I’d love to hear your thoughts!

I think that will be all for now my friend

Just be cool

Stay smart, stay safe, and keep creating
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Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | Irony or Insult? Netanyahu Nominates Trump for the Nobel Peace Prize - Powered by Blogger

So, here’s something that actually happened on July 7, 2025, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu nominated Donald Trump for the Nobel Peace Prize. Yep. That Nobel. The one meant to recognize people who’ve contributed meaningfully to peace and human dignity.

And who delivers the nomination? Netanyahu himself a man who’s been at the center of military campaigns, deadly airstrikes on Gaza, and decades of a brutal occupation of Palestine. I mean… seriously?

The Nobel Peace Prize medal in gold, featuring Alfred Nobel’s profile, displayed against a blurred background of the U.S. and Israeli flags

It’s almost too ironic to be real.

Let’s give Trump some credit where it’s due: he did help broker the Abraham Accords. Sure, they brought Israel and a few Arab countries closer diplomatically. But peace? A real peace? Not for the Palestinians. The people who’ve lived under occupation, blockades, and bombardment for over 75 years are still suffering. The core issue the illegal occupation of Palestine hasn’t moved an inch


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So, when Netanyahu publicly hands over a Peace Prize nomination to Trump in front of cameras, it’s more than just political theater. It feels like a gut punch to justice. A man whose own hands are far from clean in any conversation about peace, nominating another man whose peace legacy is… well, debatable at best.

And that’s why so many people around the world are rolling their eyes or worse. One viral comment summed it up perfectly:

Netanyahu nominate Trump to achive Peace Nobel Prize in front of reporters, praising his role in supporting peace initiatives, The world could nominate Netanyahu to achieve Destruction Nobel Prize remembering his role in Genocide initiatives in Gaza and illegal occupation of Palestine.”

Let’s be real this isn’t just about awards or recognition. It’s about what message we send to the world. If war criminals and occupiers can throw around Nobel nominations like party favors, where does that leave the people still living under drones, checkpoints, and rubble?


Some might say, "Relax, it’s just a nomination." But it’s more than that. It’s symbolic. It’s tone-deaf. A\nd to many, it’s an insult to the memory of those killed, displaced, or silenced by policies both Trump and Netanyahu have backed

It’s 2025, and the world is still watching Gaza burn. Still watching settlements expand. Still hearing stories of Palestinian children buried under the weight of this so-called “peace.”

So yeah Irony or insult?
You decide. But as for me, I’m not buying the show.
And I know I’m not alone. 

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Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | Jews, Arabs, and Zionism: Clearing Up the Confusion - Powered by Blogger

A lot of people today mix up the terms “Jew,” “Arab,” and “Zionist” like they all mean the same thing  but that’s not true at all. In fact, Jews and Arabs have a much closer relationship than many people realize, and Zionism is a whole different story. Let’s talk about it in a straightforward way.

First of all, Jews and Arabs are both Semitic peoples. That means they actually come from the same general region the Middle East  and share a lot of cultural and even linguistic roots. Hebrew and Arabic, for example, are both Semitic languages. They sound quite different today, but they share many words and grammatical patterns. You could even say they’re “language cousins.”

Historically, Jewish communities lived peacefully in many Arab countries for hundreds, even thousands of years. Jews were part of the social and cultural fabric of places like Iraq, Yemen, Morocco, Egypt, and Palestine. They worked, traded, studied, and even celebrated festivals alongside their Arab neighbors. Many Jews felt more at home in the Arab world than they did in Europe, where they faced violent persecution, pogroms, and \eventually, the horrors of the Holocaust

" Not all Jews are Zionists, and not all Zionists are Jews.Many Jews  especially in the diaspora  continue to feel a strong spiritual or cultural connection to Arab lands and express solidarity with Palestinians.

 The IDF has committed acts that resemble terrorism or war crimes” is a political and legal argument made by many human rights organizations, including Amnesty International and Human Rights Watch "



So, where did things start to go wrong? The short answer is Zionism, a political movement ,that began in Europe in the late 1800s. Zionism called for the establishment of a Jewish homeland in Palestine. At the time, Palestine was already home to a large Arab population. When Jewish settlers started arriving in large numbers, tensions grew. Eventually, this led to the creation of the state of Israel in 1948 and the tragic displacement of hundreds of thousands of Palestinians  an event known as the Nakba, or “catastrophe.”

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That’s when the relationship between Jews and Arabs began to fall apart  not because of religion, but because of politics and land. Many Arabs saw Zionism not as a return to a homeland, but as a colonial project backed by Western powers. Meanwhile, many Jews in Israel and abroad felt they were finally safe after centuries of being oppressed. You an imagine how messy and emotional this has been for both sides.

What’s important to understand is this: not all Jews are Zionists, and not all Zionists are Jews. There are Jews around the world religious, secular, even Orthodox  who oppose the actions of the Israeli government and reject Zionism altogether. Groups like Jewish Voice for Peace and Neturei Karta say clearly, “Not in our name.”

So yes Jews and Arabs share a deep, ancient connection, and that history has nothing to do with Zionist politics. It’s time we stop lumping them all together and start listening to the voices both Jewish and Arab who are calling for peace, truth, and justice


What’s your perspective on Jewish Arab unity and Zionism?
Let’s talk in the comments  and don’t forget to share this post! justice.

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Point Of View : Brunette vs. Blonde: What’s the Difference?: - Powered by Blogger

Indonesians, like most people in Southeast Asian countries, mostly have black hair. As an Indonesian, I’m a bit baffled when it comes to distinguishing between blondes and brunettes among Western people, whether male or female. Here in Indonesia, we often refer to tourists or foreigners as "bule". As I look deeper into this topic, I’m quite stunned by some of the facts I’ve come across

If you've ever been unsure about the difference between a brunette and a blonde, you're not alone. With so many shades and styles out there, not to mention, hair dye it can get confusing fast. And while we’re at it, let’s also talk about how these terms apply to men and why hair coloring is becoming such a big trend in Indonesia.

So, What’s a Brunette?
“Brunette” refers to someone with brown or dark brown hair. The word comes from the French term brun, meaning brown. A brunette can range from light brown to deep espresso or even nearly black. Traditionally, people think of the word “brunette” being used for women but guess what? Men can be brunettes too! It’s just less commonly said. Most people simply say, “He has dark hair.”

And What’s a Blonde?
A “blonde” is someone with light yellowish or golden hair. It can vary from platinum blonde (almost white) to darker, more honey-colored shades. Technically, the spelling “blonde” is used for women, while “blond” is used for men but in casual English, especially American English, most people use “blonde” for both.

So yes, you can definitely call someone a blonde guy or a brunette man, and it’s totally correc

" In Indonesia, the word “bule” is commonly used to refer to foreigners, especially Westerners with light skin or hair. Originally, it described albino animals, but over time it became a casual term for Caucasians.
While often used without offense, some foreigners may find it uncomfortable. It's better to use terms like “orang asing” or “wisatawan” in formal settings to show more respect and cultural sensitivity"

What About Hair Dye?
In today’s world, natural color isn’t everything. Many people dye their hair to try new looks, follow trends, or express themselves. A natural brunette can become a platinum blonde, and vice versa. That’s where things get fun and complicated. And speaking of hair dye, let’s talk about something closer to home…

Hair Dyeing Trends in Indonesia:
Just for Style, or Something More?

In Indonesia, especially among young people, dyeing hair has become a popular form of self-expression. From Jakarta to Bali, it’s not uncommon to see bright highlights, ash-gray tones, caramel balayage, or even full-blown platinum blonde looks.

I think I know who I took a selfie with.
The photo was taken during the Youth Engagement Summit held in Kuala Lumpur in November 2009.
Her name is Audrone Pakalnite from Ukraine

But why do Indonesians dye their hair?
Fashion and Fun Just like choosing an outfit, coloring your hair is a way to try something different and feel stylish. It’s a personal makeover that can instantly boost confidence.
Western & Korean Influence

Social media, Korean dramas, Western movies, and influencers have all played a big role in shaping beauty trends including hair. Lighter hair is often associated with global pop culture icons, and many people want to try that aesthetic.

Creative Expression Not everyone who dyes their hair wants to “look Western.” For many Indonesians, it's just about expressing personality and standing out in a crowd.Challenging Traditional Norms In more conservative areas, hair dyeing especially in bright or blonde shades is still seen as rebellious. But in big cities, it’s widely accepted and even celebrated as a fashion statement.


My Opinions
So, whether someone’s naturally blonde or brunette, male or female, or rocking a totally dyed look is just one part of how people express themselves. The terms “blonde” and “brunette” apply to both men and women, and now, thanks to hair dye, it doesn’t even have to match your natural roots!

In Indonesia, the growing trend of hair coloring isn’t just about copying others it’s about exploring personal identity, having fun, and embracing global fashion in your own unique way.

So next time you see someone with light blonde waves or rich brunette curlsnatural or not remember: it’s all part of the colorful world of self-expression.

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