Tag : Keseharian, Teknik Blogging - Asep Haryono | Why People Love Facebook and Why You Should Be Cautious Too - Powered by Blogger

Why People Love Facebook and Why You Should Be Cautious Too Facebook has become more than just a social network it’s practically a part of our daily lives. Whether you're scrolling for memes, sharing family photos, or promoting your latest blog post (like me!), Facebook connects billions of people around the globe. But why is it still so loved after all these years?

First of all, it’s got massive global reach. No matter where you are Singapore, Indonesia, the USFacebook is probably the easiest way to stay in touch with family, friends, and even your old classmates. It’s like a digital reunion waiting to happen.

And let’s not forget how easy it is to use. Even your grandma can sign up, post selfies, and like your status. It’s free, simple, and very familiar. On top of that, it’s become an information hub some people don’t even read the news anymore; they just rely on their Facebook feed!

But Facebook isn’t just for socializing. It’s a business powerhouse. Entrepreneurs, bloggers, freelancers you name it use Facebook to reach audiences, grow their brand, and sell their stuff. Groups and Pages are especially useful for connecting with like-minded people or building niche communities.

Of course, it’s also a source of entertainment. From funny reels to silly challenges, there’s always something to watch, read, or laugh at

Facebook is fun until your account gets hacked or someone uses your profile to send spam to your friends. Don’t worry though! Here are 10 easy and effective tips to keep your Facebook account safe and sound:

Use a Strong and Unique Password,Turn On Two-Factor Authentication (2FA), Be Smart About Clicking Links, Only Accept Real Friends, Check Your Active Sessions, Adjust Privacy Settings, Log Out from Shared Devices, Keep Your Email and Phone Number Updated, Avoid Using Facebook\ Login Everywhere,





Don’t Fall for Giveaways and Prizes. Your Facebook is your digital identity. A little caution can save you a lot of trouble. Follow these steps, and you’ll be ahead of most users when it comes to safety.

That said, Facebook isn’t all sunshine and rainbows. Some users have learned the hard way that the platform can also be risky. There are countless stories of people who’ve had their accounts hacked without even knowing it. That’s why it’s more important than ever to be cautious.

Hackers are getting smarter, and phishing scams are everywhere. You click on one wrong link, and boom your account is gone or sending weird messages to all your contacts. Not fun.

So, while Facebook is a fantastic tool for connection and community, it’s also a place where you need to be smart and safe.Want to protect yourself? Read the next article for 10 simple tips to keep your Facebook account safe from hackers and troublemaker

Personal Experiences :
I Met Randi Zuckerberg (Marketing Director FacebOOk) in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia 2009

500 young men and women from Southeast Asia gathered at the Putrajaya International Convention Center (PICC) in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, from November 15–17, 2009, to discuss and voice global changes for a better world

Randi Zuckerberg is an American businesswoman, author, entrepreneur, and tech personality. She is best known as the former Director of Market Development at Facebook and the sister of Mark Zuckerberg, the CEO and founder of Facebookkk

FYI, Randi Zuckerberg and Mark Zuckerberg are siblings. Randi Zuckerberg is the older sister of Mark Zuckerberg, the founder and CEO of Facebook (now Meta). They both grew up in Dobbs Ferry, New York, in a family that valued education, technology, and creativity.k.

I attended this event along with about 75 youth representatives from Indonesia. Among the notable attendees were Bob Geldof, Randi Zuckerberg (Marketing Director of Facebook), Biz Stone (Co-founder of Twitter), Amitabh Bachchan, and Garry Kasparov. All of these activities were fully funded by Malaysian millionaire Dato' Seri Tony Fernandes.”

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For those of you who already have a Facebook account, you might recognize Randi Zuckerberg, who was the Marketing Director of Facebook at the time. I was fortunate to witness her insightful presentation about Facebook in person. It was displayed on a giant screen for everyone to see.

Many people say that without photographic evidence, your story might just be seen as a fantasy, a lie, or even a hoax. Well, here’s the proof that I was truly present at the YES 2009 Youth Engagement Summit in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. I had the amazing opportunity to attend a discussion session with Randi Zuckerberg, along with several other world-renowned figures.

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | My reaction To The News Of Pabowo, the President of the Republic of Indonesia visited Russia - Powered by Blogger

So, President Prabowo Subianto the newly elected leader of Indonesia made an official visit to Russia from June 18 to 20, 2025, at the invitation of Russian President Vladimir Putin.

During his time there, Prabowo attended the St. Petersburg International Economic Forum (SPIEF), gave a keynote speech, and held one-on-one talks with Putin. They even signed a strategic partnership agreement, covering areas like investment, education, IT, and transportation. On top of that, they discussed possible cooperation in military affairs, security, trade, and even nuclear energy through Russia’s Rosatom.

Prabowo (Foto: Antara Foto/GALIH PRADIPTA)

Now, what really stood out was that Prabowo was one of the few Western-aligned leaders who showed up at SPIEF. Most others were noticeably absent due to ongoing sanctions against Russia over the Ukraine conflict.

Roy Sumirat, spokesperson for Indonesia’s Foreign Ministry, confirmed this trip at a press conference. He explained that the visit was not only about honoring Putin’s invitation but also marked 75 years of diplomatic relations between Indonesia and Russia a pretty big milestone.

The Indonesian Foreign Minister, Sugiono, also planned to meet with his Russian counterpart in Moscow ahead of Prabowo’s presidential-level talks. Apparently, that meeting had been delayed before, so this was a chance to finally catch up on important bilateral matters.

My Thoughts?

Honestly? This move was diplomatically bold and strategically complex.

For Prabowo to visit Russia so early in his presidency and while much of the West is isolating Moscow is clearly intentional. It sends a message: Indonesia wants to stay independent in its foreign policy, sticking to its long-standing “bebas aktif” (free and active) doctrine. He’s not choosing sides. Instead, he’s making space for Indonesia to work with everyone.

Showing up at SPIEF also signals that Prabowo wants to strengthen economic diplomacy with non-traditional partners. Maybe he’s thinking ahead if the global economy gets shakier due to rising tensions between big powers, it’s smart to diversify our trade and investment relationships.

But let’s be real: there are some risks too.

• The West especially the U.S. and EU might raise their eyebrows at Indonesia getting cozy with Russia.
• If we look too “friendly” with Moscow, it could hurt our international image, especially in the eyes of countries or groups that are strongly pro-Ukraine.

" Some might think Prabowo’s visit to Russia means Indonesia is siding with Putin in the Ukraine war but I don’t think it’s that simple. Ukraine might feel uneasy since he didn’t visit Kyiv like Jokowi did, but let’s be real this trip was more about trade and diplomacy, not taking sides. Indonesia’s always tried to stay neutral. Still, timing matters.

If Prabowo follows up with a peace message or even visits Ukraine later, it’ll show we’re just being friendly with both sides. It’s all about balance in today’s crazy world of politics.

Still, if you look at it from a regional point of view, it’s a classic case of realpolitik. Like many other ASEAN countries, Indonesia is trying to balance its position in a world where U.S. China tensions keep growing.

By staying open to everyone, including Russia, Prabowo is keeping Indonesia non-aligned but relevantand hopefully, respected by all sides.

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, tips - Asep Haryono | 3 Tips to Prepare for Leaving for a Plane Trip - Powered by Blogger

The recent Air India crash has understandably raised concerns, but statistically, air travel remains one of the safest modes of transportation. Modern airplanes are built with advanced technology and strict safety protocols. Pilots undergo intensive training and regular assessments.

Getting ready for a plane trip can be exciting whether you're off to explore a new country, heading to visit loved ones, or flying for work. But let’s be honest: the days leading up to your flight can be stressful if you’re not well-prepared. To help you make things smoother and less chaotic, here are 3 simple but effective tips to get ready before you leave for the airport.

1. Pack Smart, Not Last Minute
We’ve all been there rushing around just a few hours before a flight, trying to cram clothes, gadgets, and toiletries into a suitcase while hoping nothing important gets left behind. Avoid that mess by packing at least one or two days in advance. Start by making a checklist of essentials: passport, charger, clothes appropriate for your destination, and any medications

" Compared to road travel, flying still has significantly fewer accidents. While news of crashes can be unsettling, they’re extremely rare. So yes, flying is still safe  just stay informed, choose reputable airlines, and trust the systems designed to protect passengers worldwide. One more time. Statistically, air travel remains one of the safest modes of transportation Happy flying "

Stick to the golden rule: pack light. Remember, you're not moving! Lay out what you think you’ll need, then cut it by a third. You’d be surprised how little you really need. Also, check airline baggage rules ahead of time to avoid overweight fees or surprises at check-in.Pro tip: Roll your clothes instead of folding them it saves space and reduces wrinkles!

2. Get Your Documents Ready and Easy to Reach
Before you leave for your trip, triple-check that all your important travel documents are with you  and not buried at the bottom of your backpack. Keep your passport, boarding pass, travel insurance, and ID in one easy-to-access place, like a zippered pouch or travel wallet. If you’re flying internationally, make sure your passport has at least six months of validity.

Also, take photos or digital scans of important documents and save them to your phone or email, just in case you misplace something during your trip. It’s a small step that can save you from a major headache later on.

3. Stay Hydrated and Get Some Rest
This one’s easy to overlook, but really important. The day before your trip, make sure to get enough sleep and drink plenty of water. Flying while tired or dehydrated can make you feel miserable and jet-lagged, especially on long flights.

Avoid heavy meals and alcohol before your flight, especially if you’re flying early in the morning. Instead, opt for a light meal and keep a reusable water bottle with you. You can usually fill it up after security.

A good night's rest and staying hydrated will help your body handle the stress of travel better and you’ll arrive feeling fresher.

SHORT VIDEO

This is a short video recording of my flight log with Garuda Indonesia on the Pontianak–Denpasar route from October 2010. It’s been a long time, but it’s fun to look back and remember. I really miss flying.Video by Asep Haryono.

I prefer a window seat so I can see everything outside, including the airplane I took a picture of it's the same type as the one I flew on with Garuda Indonesia

 Its still Safe
Traveling by plane doesn’t have to be stressful or chaotic. With just a little planning like packing early, organizing your documents, and taking care of your body you can enjoy a smooth and stress-free departure. Bon voyage, and don’t forget to enjoy the journey as much as the destination!  


Ok Guys.
Ready to fly smarter?

Share your own travel tips in the comments below or tell me your funniest airport moment!

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | LinkedIn Premium Membership Offer – Should I Take or Leave It? - Powered by Blogger

Do you have an account on LinkedIn? I'm sure many of you do, or at least you've heard of the platform. For the past two years, I’ve been registered there to find jobs that match my skills. I resigned from my job back in 2013 as a Social Media Specialist at a local newspaper company in West Kalimantan Barat. Since then, I’ve been searching for job opportunities related to my experience in the social media field.

This is a screenshot to my actual Linkedin account at the moment. Just take a look a red circle I put there, that is an offer of Linkedin Premium Membership one-month free trial which I have not decided to take or leave it

Just yesterday, while checking my email, I received a message from LinkedIn offering me a special one-month free trial of LinkedIn Premium. They’ve noticed my recent activity posting articles on my blog rather than submitting job applications directly through their platform.

Let me share what LinkedIn Premium offers. Some key features include:
• Custom button: It allows me to guide profile viewers to take actions like visiting my website or signing up for a demo.
• InMail messages: I can reach out to anyone—even if we’re not connected—like peers, industry leaders, or potential partners.
• Company insights: This helps make better, data-driven decisions.
• Who’s viewed your profile: I can see who visited my profile over the past 365 days.

They said my free trial starts today.

Personally, I think this is a great opportunity to get more attention from companies and potential employers. It also increases the chances of my CV and current projects being noticed. However, despite these amazing features, I started to wonder how can I continue using this premium service beyond the free month without paying the subscription fee?

Why does LinkedIn still aim to make money from job seekers like me? I know it might sound like a silly question after all, in this world, almost nothing comes for free anymore.

What do you think about this offer?
Should I take it or leave it?
I’d love to hear your thoughts..

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, tips - Asep Haryono | Safe Driving Tips for the Rainy Season - Powered by Blogger

Hello guys. How is it going? Indonesia, located near the equator, experiences two main seasons: the dry season and the rainy season. The dry season typically runs from May to October, bringing sunny skies and lower humidity perfect for travel and outdoor activities.

In contrast, the rainy season lasts from November to April, with frequent rain showers and higher humidity, driven by monsoon winds. Despite the seasonal changes, temperatures remain fairly consistent year-round, averaging between 25–30°C.

This tropical climate supports lush rainforests, diverse wildlife, and year-round agriculture. Whether rain or shine, Indonesia’s natural beauty remains a year-round attraction for visitors and locals alike.

In Indonesia, where rain can come suddenly, raincoats or jas hujan are essential. The most common type is the poncho style, which is loose-fitting and often used by motorcyclists for its quick coverage.

" The two-piece set, with a jacket and pants, offers better protection during heavy rain. For walking, the coat style provides a longer, more stylish option.

Meanwhile, disposable raincoats are lightweight and convenient for short-term use or emergencies. Each model serves different needs, whether commuting, riding, or traveling, making them a must-have item during Indonesia’s rainy season from November to April."

When the rainy season arrives, there are definitely a few things we all need to prepare whether we're staying at home or planning to go out. Especially here in Pontianak, where I currently live, the rainy season has already started a few weeks ago.

So in today’s post, I’d like to share some simple tips to stay safe while driving during the rainy season. What do you need to prepare when you're heading out, especially if you're driving in the rain? Check out the tips below!

Rain.  Sumber foto Free Images

1. Bring a Raincoat

There are lots of benefits to keeping a raincoat or poncho ready in your vehicle especially if you ride a motorcycle. Always have one tucked away in your motorbike seat or under the seat in a neat way.

Any type of raincoat will do as long as it keeps you safe and comfortable. You can use the wide poncho-style ones or the full-set kind with pants and a top. Just make sure it does the job well!

2. Prepare Plastic Bags

Rain equals water lots of it. So be extra careful with what you carry in your bag like your phone, charger, ID cards, cash, and any important documents. You don’t want them getting soaked, right?

Here’s a handy trick: use clear plastic bags to wrap your items. Even simple snack or sandwich bags work great. Want extra protection? Wrap your stuff again with a larger black plastic bag. Double up if needed it gives you peace of mind knowing your things are safe from the rain.

Hope these tips help you stay dry and safe out there when the rainy days hit. Stay prepared and ride smart!

Found these tips useful?

Share this post with a friend who always forgets their raincoat or needs a reminder to waterproof their gadgets!

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | My reaction to “Anarchy in LA: Hundreds of soldiers, officers and protesters clash | 9 News Australia” video on Youtube - Powered by Blogger

Hello to you. How is it going? When I posted this article, the time is now in my area is about 23.37 pm in Indonesia.  Its getting late here.  I manage myself to stop and call it a day usually before middle of the night.   How about you?

You may have seen the movie Battle: Los Angeles, which portrays a war between the American military and extraterrestrial invaders trying to take over the city. However, what is currently happening in Los Angeles is very different it is not a battle against aliens. Since Friday night, a wave of demonstrations and clashes has erupted in the city following a large-scale operation by Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE). In this operation, over 100 people were arrested for alleged immigration violations, sparking public outrage.

Tensions escalated further after US President Donald Trump decided to deploy approximately 2,000 National Guard troops to Los Angeles without a request from California Governor Gavin Newsom. The unrest began with ICE raids and quickly escalated into protests and arrests. The demonstrations intensified after ICE agents conducted raids at several locations across Los Angeles, including a warehouse in the Fashion District and stores such as Home Depot and Dale’s Donuts.

According to the Department of Homeland Security (DHS), at least 118 people were arrested during the operation, including five individuals suspected of ties to criminal organizations. In response to the rising tensions on the streets, President Trump signed a memorandum on Saturday night authorizing the deployment of 2,000 National Guard troops to Los Angeles under “Title 10”authority.

Los Angeles is on fire literally and figuratively. What began as federal immigration raids quickly escalated into full-blown street clashes involving hundreds of protesters, officers, and National Guard troops. But this isn't just about a riot. It's about something deeper a clash of values, identities, and the very meaning of democracy..

The image taken from 9 News Youtube Channel

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What Sparked the Fire? .
When federal agents carried out aggressive immigration raids in LA, Compton, and Paramount, the message was clear: “We’re in control.” But the community pushed back. Hundreds poured into the streets, shouting not just for immigrants' rights but for human rights. The response? Tear gas. Rubber bullets. Soldiers on patrol. .
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Some say the protests turned violent. Others say the crackdown was violence from the start. Either way, this is not normal. .
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The Federal Power Move.Deploying National Guard troops without the state’s consent was like pouring gasoline on an already burning fire. President Trump defended it as restoring law and order. But California’s Governor and LA’s Mayor called it unconstitutional. And they’re right to be worried. This isn’t just about border control. It’s about where federal power ends and where state rights begin. .
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When the Press Gets Shot. Even journalists weren’t safe. A news reporter got hit by a rubber bullet while going live on air. That’s not just a stray incident it’s a chilling warning. If the press can’t report freely, who holds power accountable? .

"That’s a powerful and intense situation  in Los Angeles definitely much more than just a riot,  It touches on deep social and political fractures, identities, and questions about democracy itself.

Regarding Indonesia, while the context and specifics are different, Indonesia has experienced moments of social and political unrest that carry some similarities". 

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Who Pays the Price? .
It’s not the politicians in suits. It’s the people on the ground immigrants fearful of deportation, families caught in curfews, students missing school, and small businesses watching their windows shatter. Violence solves nothing. But silence fixes even less. .

My Take. Los Angeles is screaming. Are we listening? .
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This isn’t about being pro-immigration or anti-immigration. It’s about how we deal with disagreement in a democratic society. Are we willing to talk, vote, debate or do we jump straight to flash grenades and riot shields? .Let LA be a warning but also a wake-up call. Because if freedom, dialogue, and dignity can collapse in one city, they can collapse anywhere. .

What’s your take on what’s happening in LA? Drop your thoughts in the comments and share this post if you believe in peaceful change

Bye for now.  I wanna hit the sack.

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Why Muslims Celebrate Iedul Adha with Cow Slaughter - Powered by Blogger

The Story Behind Iedul Adha

Iedul Adha, also called the Festival of Sacrifice, is celebrated every year by Muslims to honor the story of Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham) and his son Ismail (Ishmael). According to Islamic belief, Ibrahim had a dream where God asked him to sacrifice his beloved son. As hard as it was, Ibrahim was ready to follow God’s command. But just as he was about to do it, God replaced Ismail with a ram showing that the test was about faith and obedience, not about harming anyone.

 A Story of Faith, Sacrifice, and Sharing Have you ever wondered why Muslims aroundthe world celebrate Iedul Adha by sacrificing cows, goats, or other animals? It’s one of the biggest festivals in Islam, and behind it is a story that’s all about faith, love, and the spirit of giving. Let me walk you through it in simple terms. anyone.Pretty intense, right? But it’s also beautiful. It’s a story that reminds Muslims to trust in God and to be willing to give up what’s most precious to them if needed.

A heartwarming Eid al-Adha scene: A Muslim family joyfully shares sacrificial meat with neighbors, celebrating compassion, charity, and community.Image source: Dreamstime

Why the Cow?
Now, let’s talk about the cow or more broadly, the animals sacrificed during Iedul Adha. In Islam, Muslims are encouraged to offer an animal like a cow, goat, sheep, or even a camel (depending on the region) as part of the Iedul Adha celebration. In many parts of Southeast Asia, including Indonesia and Malaysia, cows are the most commonly chosen animals.

This act is called Qurbani or sacrifice. It’s not about being cruel or just making a big feast. It’s a symbolic act that reflects Ibrahim’s willingness to give up something valuable for the sake of God.

It’s All About Sharing
Here’s something that makes Iedul Adha really special — the meat from the sacrificed animal is shared equally among three groups: 1. One-third goes to the family doing the Qurbani.

2. One-third is shared with relatives, friends, and neighbors.
3. One-third is donated to the poor and needy.

It’s a beautiful way to spread love and care in the community. Even people who can’t afford meat all year round get to enjoy a hearty meal during this festival.


"Today, Friday, June 7, Muslims around the world performed the Eid al-Adha prayer together, followed by one of the most significant moments the sacrifice of cows which were then distributed to those in need, including the homeless and the poo."



The Rules (Yes, There Are Rules!
Of course, Islam has guidelines to ensure everything is done ethically The animal must be healthy and of a certain age (for cows, usually 2 years or older).The sacrifice should only happen after the special Eid prayer on the 10th day of the Islamic month of Dhul Hijjah.The person performing the slaughter should say, “Bismillah, Allahu Akbar” (In the name of God, God is the Greatest).The process should be quick and humane, using a sharp knife and ensuring the animal doesn’t suffer.

A Day of Togetherness
Beyond the sacrifice itself, Iedul Adha is a time of family gatherings, community prayers, and acts of charity. In many neighborhoods, especially in Indonesia, people come together at the mosque or open fields to watch the sacrifice and help distribute the meat. It’s a day that brings everyone closer.

So, the next time you hear about Iedul Adha or see images of cow slaughter, remember it’s not just about the ritual. It’s a powerful reminder of faith, sacrifice, and compassion. It’s a moment where Muslims reconnect with the core values of their religion: obedience to God, gratitude for blessings, and care for others.

Tag : curahanhati, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | When Blogging Feels One-Sided: My Thoughts on Comments, Connections, and Being Ignored - Powered by Blogger

As someone who loves blogging and making connections with people from all over the world, it really hurts when I put in the effort to engage with other bloggers especially from the US, Australia, and Europe  and get little to no response in return.

I’ve visited many blogs, left thoughtful comments, followed their content, and even added them to my blog list. But unfortunately, many of them never return the favor. Not even a single follow back or a quick “thank you” comment.

It makes me wonder: why?

At times, I can’t help but feel invisible or even worse, like I don’t belong. And yes, there’s a part of me that wonders if it's related to where I’m from or how I write. Is it racism? Or is there more to it?

After thinking long and hard about this, here are a few possible reasons why some foreign bloggers don’t return visits or interact with blogs like mine:

A young man with medium brown skin sits at a desk looking disappointed while using a laptop. A large speech bubble above him says "NO COMMENTS" surrounded by smaller empty speech bubbles and icons for LinkedIn and Twitter, symbolizing a lack of interaction on his blog

1. Cultural and Language Differences
Let’s face it not everyone feels comfortable interacting with people from different cultures or writing styles. Even if you’re writing in English, sometimes cultural nuances, phrasing, or even blog layout can feel “unfamiliar” to readers from Western countries. So instead of reaching out, they might just stay silent. It doesn’t necessarily mean they dislike you  maybe they just don’t know how to engage properly.

2. Busy Lives and Different Priorities A lot of bloggers in the West treat blogging more as a side hobby than a community. Many have full-time jobs, families, or packed schedules. That means they might not read or reply to comments regularly, or even check who follows them. It’s not personal  they might just be juggling too much at once.

3. Different Blogging Cultures
In my part of the world, it’s common to return comments, follow back, and build friendships through blogging. But in many Western blogging circles, the focus is often on SEO, monetization, or niche-specific growth. Some bloggers simply don’t pay attention to interaction  especially from outside their target audience.

4. You Might Be Getting Overlooked, Not Rejected
Let’s not forget: algorithms and platforms don’t always make things easy. Some bloggers use automated tools, and your comment might just be sitting in a spam folder or overlooked in a flood of other notifications. It doesn’t mean you were intentionally ignored.

5. Yes, Bias Can Be Real
Still, we have to be honest bias and racism do exist. Some people may not take bloggers from developing countries seriously. They may assume we have nothing valuable to offer, or they might just prefer to stay in their comfort zone. And yes, that hurts.

6. But Don’t Give Upc
Even when it feels like no one’s listening, I remind myself: I blog because I love it. I write to express myself, to connect, and to leave something meaningful behind. Not every blogger will respond, but that doesn’t mean your voice isn’t important. Keep writing. Keep showing up. The right audience will find you.

If you’ve felt this way too  ignored, left out, or disappointed  just know you're not alone. Let’s continue supporting each other and building real connections that go beyond borders and backgrounds.

Let’s keep blogging with heart.

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Tag : curahanhati, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Jessica de Broer and Lusanna Dourma From SOMOI - Powered by Blogger

Quite a while ago—when I was working at the Pontianak Post daily newspaper in Pontianak, West Kalimantan, Indonesia, I received two visitors from overseas. They introduced themselves as officers from an organization called SOMOI. Unfortunately, I did not ask for further details about their country of origin.

 The visitors were Jessica de Boer, a physiotherapist, and her partner Lusanne Douma, an occupational therapist. Both ladies came to my office to share information about child care, especially for children with paralysis.

 I received a reply to an email I sent only from one of them, a few months after their visit on August 19th, 2011. Since then, I have not had any further contact or emails from either of them. I also tried to find more information on the official SOMOI website but was unable to locate it. So far, I have found no official site or further details about the organization.

They introduced them selves as officers from SOMOI organization: Jessica de Boer and Lusanne Douma.  I have enclosed a photo of those two young ladies.  Jessica de Boer is a Fisioterapis while her partner Lussane Douma is an Okupasi Therapies.  

Both ladies came to my office to share information about child care, especially for children with paralysis. A few months after their visit on August 19th, 2011, I received a reply from only one of them to an email I had sent. Since then, I have not received any further emails or contact from either of them. I also tried to find more information on the official SOMOI website but was unable to locate it.

So far, no official website or details have been found.

Given that the individuals I met, Jessica de Boer and Lusanne Douma, introduced themselves as officers from SOMOI and were involved in child care, especially for children with paralysis, it's possible that SOMOI is a smaller or less-publicized organization, or perhaps a local initiative. It's also worth noting that "SOMOI" could be an acronym or a name used by a group with a different official designation. I am seeking information about the SOMOI organization, particularly regarding its work with children with disabilities. However, based on available information, there doesn't appear to be a widely recognized organization by that name..

 

I need help from all of you.

If you know where I can find Jessica de Boer and Lusanne Douma from SOMOI, please don’t hesitate to let me know. Could you kindly tell me how to reach them in any way possible? I would be very grateful for your help. You can contact me via Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp, or email. I look forward to hearing from you

If you have any information or know how to contact Jessica de Boer or Lusanne Douma from SOMOI, please reach out to me!

Your help would mean a lot. Feel free to message me on Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp, or email. Thank you in advance.

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

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Tag : Keseharian, Travelling - Asep Haryono | 5 Famous Movies That Featured Malaysian Landmarks - Powered by Blogger

5 Famous Movies That Featured Malaysian Landmarks Hey friends! Did you know Malaysia has been a secret star in several Hollywood and international films? Yep! Our beautiful landmarks have made their way onto the big screen and added a whole lot of “wow” to some unforgettable scenes. From action-packed heists to romantic backdrops, Malaysia’s stunning locations have played their part. So grab your popcorn, because here are 5 famous movies that featured Malaysian landmarks — and you might just want to rewatch them after this!

Its me. This image taken from my Youtube channel.
 I was on the site in 2009

1. Entrapment (1999) – Petronas Twin Towers, Kuala Lumpur
Let’s start with a classic! Entrapment, starring Sean Connery and Catherine Zeta-Jones, features a heart-pounding heist scene set between the iconic Petronas Twin Towers. Back then, they were the tallest buildings in the world! The towers weren’t just a backdrop — they were practically a character in the movie. This scene brought international attention to Kuala Lumpur’s skyline and made our twin towers world-famous.

📝 You can read more about the Petronas Towers in movies here!

2. Crazy Rich Asians (2018) – Cheong Fatt Tze Mansion, Penang
Who could forget the glamorous vibes of Crazy Rich Asians? While most of the movie was filmed in Singapore, some key scenes were actually shot in Malaysia! One standout location is the gorgeous Cheong Fatt Tze Mansion, also known as the Blue Mansion, in Penang. Its vibrant walls and colonial charm added elegance and cultural richness to the film.

3. Anna and the King (1999) – Ipoh & Langkawi
Even though the story is set in Thailand, Anna and the King was filmed almost entirely in Malaysia! That’s because the Thai government didn’t allow filming in their country. So, producers turned to Ipoh, Penang, and Langkawi to recreate 19th-century Siam. The result? Breathtaking scenes with Malaysia’s lush scenery stealing the spotlight.

4. Don (2006) – Kuala Lumpur & Putrajaya
Bollywood fans, this one’s for you! The action-packed movie Don, starring Shah Rukh Khan, was filmed in several Malaysian cities, including KL, Putrajaya, and even inside the Petronas Towers. The high-speed chases and sleek visuals showcased Malaysia as a modern, thrilling setting perfect for spy drama.

5. The Sleeping Dictionary (2003) – Sarawak, Borneo
This romantic drama starring Jessica Alba was shot in the lush jungles and longhouses of Sarawak, Borneo. The film explored colonial life and local culture — and while it had mixed reviews, the natural beauty of Malaysia’s rainforests left a lasting impression. It's a great pick if you're in the mood for scenery as much as story.


Summarize
It’s always fun to see familiar places in big movies, isn’t it? Whether it’s the towering skyscrapers of KL or the heritage charm of Penang, Malaysia has so much cinematic potential. Who knows — maybe the next blockbuster will be filmed right in your hometown!

Have you spotted any other Malaysian landmarks in movies or TV shows? Let me know in the comments — I’d love to add them to a future post!


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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | How SWIFT Codes Keep Your Money Safe Across Borders - Powered by Blogger

In the age of globalization, millions of people send and receive money across borders every day. Whether you’re supporting family members abroad, paying for services, or managing international business transactions, one small detail plays a crucial role in making sure your money reaches the right place safely: the SWIFT code.

But what exactly is a SWIFT code? And why is it so important for international remittances? Let’s break it down in a simple and clear way.

What Is a SWIFT Code?

A SWIFT code, also known as a Bank Identifier Code (BIC), is an internationally recognized code used to identify specific banks and financial institutions around the world. It typically consists of 8 or 11 characters, structured to reveal:

• The bank’s name
• The country
• The location
• And sometimes, a specific branch

It works like a global postal address, ensuring that funds are sent accurately from one bank to another, no matter where the sender or receiver is located.

Why SWIFT Codes Matter in International Remittances

When you send money abroad, you need to be sure that your hard-earned funds arrive safely, on time, and without being misrouted. This is where the SWIFT code proves essential.

Used by over 11,000 institutions in more than 200 countries, the SWIFT network ensures that international transactions are processed quickly, securely, and with minimal risk. It serves as the global backbone of financial messaging and is trusted by banks, governments, and corporations alike.

For remittance users—especially migrant workers sending money home to their families—SWIFT codes help eliminate confusion and errors, making sure that funds land in the correct bank accounts.

How the SWIFT Code System Works

Here’s a quick look at how a SWIFT code fits into an international money transfer:

1. Sender initiates a transfer through a bank or digital remittance service.
2. The sender provides the recipient’s full bank details, including the SWIFT code.
3. The transfer request travels through the SWIFT network, which identifies the recipient’s bank using the code.
4. The money is delivered securely to the correct bank account.

Without the correct SWIFT code, the transfer could be delayed, rejected, or routed incorrectly, leading to unnecessary fees or headaches.

A Simple Example

Imagine someone in Germany sending money to their family in Indonesia. They’ll need the recipient’s:

• Full name
• Bank account number
• Bank name
• And the correct SWIFT code of the Indonesian bank

If even one character in the SWIFT code is wrong, the money could be returned—or worse, go to the wrong institution.

Best Practices When Using SWIFT Codes

To ensure safe and accurate international money transfers, keep the following tips in mind:

• ✅ Double-check the SWIFT code with the recipient’s bank before sending money.
• ✅ Avoid copy-paste errors that might change characters in the code.
• ✅ Be aware of international transfer fees and currency exchange rates.
• ✅ If unsure, consult your bank’s support or use official SWIFT directories.

Final Thoughts

In the world of global finance, the SWIFT code may seem like just a few letters and numbers, but it plays a powerful role in protecting your money. It provides confidence and clarity in the international remittance system, reducing risks and ensuring that cross-border transfers are smooth and secure.

Next time you’re sending money overseas, don’t overlook this small but essential detail. With the right SWIFT code, your funds are in safe hands—no matter how far they travel.

Have you ever used a SWIFT code to send money abroad? Share your experience in the comments below!”

Tag : Keseharian, tips - Asep Haryono | Don’t Get Fooled: Real Ways to Avoid Internet Scams - Powered by Blogger

Hey there, my friends

Let’s talk about something serious—but in a way that’s easy to digest. Scammers are everywhere online, and they’re not just after your money. Some want your heart, your===Hey there, friend!

Let’s face it—we live in an amazing digital world. We can chat, meet people, look for jobs, or even fall in love—all from our phones. But as cool as that sounds, the internet can also be a playground for scammers. And they’re getting smarter every day.

This post is your friendly guide to spotting and avoiding some of the most common online traps, including romance scams, fake job offers, and impersonation frauds.

1. When Love Turns Into a Lie: Romance Scams
Ever matched with someone too perfect? That gorgeous guy or girl who messages you non-stop, tells you sweet things, and maybe even says they’re in love? If it feels too good to be true—it probably is.

Many romance scammers use fake photos (often stolen from real people), pretend to have serious jobs like doctors or military officers, and build emotional connections. Then comes the twist: “I need money for a flight,” or “I had an emergency—can you help me?”

Avoid getting trapped:
• Never send money to someone you’ve never met in real life.
• Do a reverse image search of their profile photos.
• Be cautious if they avoid video calls or always have excuses.


2. Fake Job Offers That Could Ruin Your Life
Looking for work? So are scammers. They target job seekers with promises of high-paying roles overseas, often with no experience required. Sounds great—until they ask you to send money for “visa processing” or “training.”

Some of these scams are connected to human trafficking or forced labor situations, especially in foreign countries. It’s scary, but real.


Stay safe when job hunting:
• Always research the company and verify its contact details.
• Never pay to get a job—legitimate employers will never ask.
• Watch out for vague job descriptions and unrealistic promises.


3. The Face Behind the Screen: Online Impersonators
From fake government agents to fake cousins—scammers love pretending. They might say they’re from your bank, or a friend in trouble, or even a celebrity trying to “connect” with you. What they want is your trust... and then your money or data.

These impersonation scams often use fear or urgency: “You need to act now,” “You’ll be fined,” or “I’m stuck and need help!”


How to protect yourself:
• Don’t give personal info through messages or calls unless you’re 100% sure who you're speaking to.
• Contact the person or company using official websites or phone numbers.
• If it feels rushed or emotional—pause, and double-check.


Wrap-Up: Think Smart, Click Safe
The online world is full of amazing things—but also full of traps. Scammers are good at pretending, and they play with emotions to trick people. But you can outsmart them.

Here’s the quick rule:
If someone you meet online asks for money, private info, or wants things to move too fast—it's probably a scam.


Take Action!

If you found this guide helpful, share it with your family, friends, or followers. Help others avoid the pain of being tricked online. The more we know, the safer we are. Let’s look out for one another.  Read the full post here #OnlineSafety #AvoidScams #DigitalAwareness #BlogByAsep 

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