Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Cambodia and Thailand at war. Possible treat to Southeast Asia's Stability and unity - Powered by Blogger

Have you been following the news lately? Things are heating up between Cambodia and Thailand, and not in a good way. These two countries, both members of ASEAN (Association of Southeast Asian Nations), are now facing a serious armed conflict that’s raising alarms across Southeast Asia. So what’s going on? And why does it matter to the rest of us in the region?

As a citizen of the Republic of Indonesia, my country is a member of the South East Asian Countries, is so sad to see and watch our neighbor countries at war.

I want to speak up

The fighting started around disputed border areas, especially near old temple sites like Preah Vihear and Ta Muen Thom. But this isn’t just about ancient stones and mapsthere are deep political tensions, national pride, and military buildups involved. Now that both sides are using weapons like artillery and even fighter jets, it’s no longer just a border skirmish.

It's spreading beyond Cambodia and Thailand.

First, ASEAN’s Unity Is at Risk ASEAN has always promoted peace, non-interference, and friendly cooperation. Now, with two of its members at war, that peaceful image is starting to crack. People are asking: If ASEAN can’t stop this conflict, can it really keep the region stable?

Second , Trade and Tourism Are Suffering The Cambodia and Thailand border is a busy place for trade, small businesses, and tourism. With the conflict, many of those routes are now closed or unsafe. Truck drivers, market sellers, and hotel owners are feeling the hit. Tourists are canceling plans. Investment is slowing down. In short, the economy on both sides and even in nearby countries is being affected.

Third, Refugee Crisis at the Border. Over 160,000 people have already fled their homes. Many are seeking safety in nearby towns, shelters, or across the border. It’s a growing humanitarian crisis, and countries like Vietnam and Laos are worried about how it might spill over into their territories too.

Fourth. Global Powers Are Watching Here's where it gets tricky. If Thailand leans toward the West (like the U.S.), and Cambodia relies more on China’s support, it could drag in bigger international powers. That would turn a local fight into something more dangerous possibly a proxy conflict right in the heart of Southeast Asia.

Fifth. ASEAN’s Reputation Is on the Line This war is testing ASEAN like never before. Can the organization act quickly enough to mediate peace? Or will this be another case where words are plenty but actions are weak? Right now, ASEAN leaders are scrambling to hold emergency talks. Fingers crossed that something positive comes from that soon

Image from Freepix
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Indonesia Steps In: A Voice of Peace
As the biggest country in ASEAN, Indonesia is known for its role as a peacemaker in the region. I am pleased that The Indonesian government has already offered to act as a mediator between Cambodia and Thailand, urging both sides to calm down and sit at the table. Indonesia’s foreign minister, Retno Marsudi, has called for a ceasefire and opened the door for ASEAN-led dialogue. They’ve also been working with humanitarian groups to provide refugee support and food aid to those affected.

And it’s not just about helping others Indonesia knows that if this conflict spreads, it could affect regional trade, tourism, and security, including Indonesia itself. So, stepping in as a peace broker is not only the right thing to do it’s also a smart move for everyone.

Please stop the war

I often think of Southeast Asia as a peaceful region with friendly neighbors and lots of delicious food. But what’s happening between Cambodia and Thailand is a wake up call. It’s a reminder that peace needs effort, dialogue, and real leadership. Thankfully, countries like my country , Indonesia, are stepping up to help calm things down before it gets worse. Let’s hope the fighting stops soon for the sake of both countries, and for the entire region of the South East Asian

We have already witnessed the conflict between Russia and Ukraine, and the brutal battle between Palestine and Israel. So please, let’s not drag the peaceful South Asian countries into a high-tension situation that could escalate into a regional confrontation potentially even leading to World War III.

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Tag : Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Do You Like Grabbing Coffee? I do - Powered by Blogger

Hey coffee lovers! If you can’t start your day without that warm cup of joe, here’s some great news for you your favorite drink is not just tasty, it might actually be super good for your body and brain. .

My friends....
Believe it or not, your morning coffee might help protect your \brain in the long run. Alzheimer’s disease is one of the most serious brain conditions out there, but some studies (like one from Lisbon Medical School) say caffeine may lower your risk by up to 65%. That’s huge, right?

Of course, don’t skip healthy food and exercise, but coffee might just give your brain an extra shield. Pretty cool, right? Ever feel like your fingers type faster after coffee? That’s not your imagination. Caffeine helps improve coordination and focus, especially for repetitive tasks like typing, editing, or sorting data. Next time you’re working through a long to-do list, let coffee be your little productivity buddy

Whenever I’m busy at my laptop, a glass of coffee
is always by my side

Burn Calories?
Yep, sounds wild but it’s true! Coffee can give your metabolism a nice little boost, even when you’re just chilling on the couch. One study showed that both young and older people burned more calories after drinking coffee. It’s like your body’s engine revs up a bit every time you sip!

This might surprise you: people with stage III colon cancer who drank two cups of coffee a day had a lower chance of the cancer coming back and even lived longer! It’s not a cure, of course, but it’s amazing to think coffee could help support recovery.

Whether you're into strong black coffee or a creamy cappuccino, you’re not just getting a caffeine fix, you’re also giving your body some extra love. So the next time you fire up your Ninja Coffee Maker, just remember: it’s not just delicious… it’s kinda magical too.

Coffee isn’t just about waking you up it could be keeping your brain healthy, helping your body burn fat, and even supporting long-term wellness. So, go ahead, sip smart, stay sharp, and enjoy every drop

Just drop it

If you were here with me now, would you mind grabbing a coffee with me on a beautiful afternoon for a lovely chill and chat?

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Tag : International, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | When a Foreigner Feels Like A Super Rich In Indonesia - Powered by Blogger

I recently stumbled upon a hilarious TikTok video by @BuleTV1/shorts called "Rupiah Make This Foreigner Laugh Non Stop" ,that totally made my day. In the video, a foreigner was exchanging her Euro bills at an Indonesian money changer and what happened next was priceless.

As soon as she got her Rupiah, she burst out laughing. Why? Because she was shocked to see a huge stack of Indonesian banknotes laid out right in front of her. It was like a small mountain of money sitting on the desk

She had absolutely no idea how different the exchange rate was between the Euro and the Indonesian Rupiah. For context, 1 Euro is roughly equal to 19,132.29 Indonesian Rupiah. So even a modest amount of Euros can turn into hundreds of thousands or even millions of Rupiah. No wonder she was surprised!

She held up the stack of cash with wide eyes and laughed, saying it felt like she had just won a jackpot. That’s when it really hit her: Spending Euros in Indonesia can make you feel like a millionaire!

Rupiah Makes This Foreigner Laughing

Image from @BuleTV1/shorts

Stack of Indonesian Rupiahs

Currency Shock Is Real
This moment is a perfect example of what I’d call “currency shock.” It’s when travelers realize how much (or how little) their home currency is worth in another country. And in Indonesia, that shock can feel pretty dramatic.

Imagine coming from Europe where €10 is just enough for a basic lunch, and suddenly that same amount gives you over 190,000 Rupiah. You walk into a local warung (small restaurant), pay with a single Euro bill, and come out with a full meal, a drink, and maybe even dessert!

Another example is a TikTok video by a user named @AmericanTurk, who showed off his fancy solo dinner at a high-end restaurant in New York City. His video tittle “POV. Solo Fine Dining at an Exclusive Restaurant” What caught my attention wasn’t the food itself though yes, it looked great but the price tag. He spent $300 (about 3.3 million Rupiah) for one meal… and he was dining alone. As an Indonesian, I couldn’t help but feel a wave of mixed emotions watching that clip. 

You can read here.

FYI, that’s what most people in my country earn in a month.” The average monthly salary for many Indonesians is around $300 USD, sometimes even less. That amount can cover groceries, bills, school expenses, and daily needs for an entire family of three or more for weeks.

So seeing someone spend it in less than an hour on a solo dinner felt... honestly, a bit crazy to me.

More Than Just a Funny Moment
While the video is funny and lighthearted, it also reminds us of how different the cost of living is from one country to another. What seems like “a lot of money” in one place might not be the same elsewhere. That’s why travelers should always check the exchange rates and learn a bit about the local economy before landing in a new country.

It also shows the charm of traveling to places like Indonesia. For tourists coming from Europe, Australia, or the US, your money can go a long way here. You get to enjoy amazing food, cultural experiences, shopping, and beach holidays without breaking the bank.


A Tip for First-Time Travelers
If it’s your first time traveling to Indonesia, don’t panic when you see the numbers. Yes, buying a cup of coffee for 25,000 sounds scary but that’s just around €1.30. It takes a little getting used to, but after a few days, you’ll become a pro at doing the math in your head. And hey when you pull out your wallet and pay with a 100,000 Rupiah bill, it kind of feels like you’re holding VIP cash.

That TikTok video gave us all a good laugh, but it also offered a fun little lesson in travel and money. So if you're planning to visit Indonesia anytime soon, be ready for a surprise when you exchange your cash. Who knows? You might end up laughing just like that foreigner especially when you realize you’re suddenly a "millionaire" for a few days!

Have you ever experienced currency shock while traveling abroad?

Ok my friends

Drop your story in the comments below I’d love to hear your funny (or confusing) money moments! And if you enjoyed this post, don’t forget to share it with your fellow travelers or anyone planning a trip to Southeast Asia 

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Today We Celebrate National Children's Day, July 23rd - Powered by Blogger

The Government of the Republic of Indonesia once again commemorates National Children's Day (Hari Anak Nasional) on July 23, 2025, carrying the main theme: "Great Children, Strong Indonesia Towards a Golden Indonesia 2045."

According to the official guidelines for the 41st National Children’s Day, this year’s theme highlights the importance of raising empowered children who will help build a strong and prosperous Indonesia by the year 2045.

National Children’s Day is held every July 23rd as a key campaign to promote the fulfillment of children's rights including their rights to life, growth, development, and active participation in a way that respects their dignity and humanity.

Interestingly, July 23rd is not just National Children’s Day. It also coincides with several other observances:

• No Television Day
• Worm Awareness Day
• World Sjögren’s Day

Each of these days serves a different purpose  from educating the public on children's rights and media literacy to raising awareness about parasitic infections and autoimmune diseases.

Its Me (On the left) with children

Our National Logo

History of National Children’s Day
The date July\ 23rd was chosen as National Children’s Day to commemorate the enactment of Law No. 4 of 1979 on Child Welfare, which marked a milestone in Indonesia’s effort to ensure children's well-being.

According to the Ministry of Women’s Empowerment and Child Protection (Kemen PPPA), children are the nation’s greatest asset and future leaders. Therefore, they deserve the full protection of the state to grow into well-rounded individuals physically, mentally, emotionally, and socially.

This is in line with Article 28B (2) of the 1945 Constitution of the Republic of Indonesia, which guarantees every child the right to life, growth, development, and protection from violence and discrimination.

Not Just a Celebration
The celebration of National Children's Day is more than just a symbolic gesture. It’s a reminder to all of us the government, communities, and families to take real, actionable steps to protect and fulfill children’s rights.

Let’s work together to build an Indonesia where every child can grow up safely, joyfully, and full of hope because strong children mean a strong nation

Selamat Hari Anak Nasional 2025.

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Tag : Keseharian, Wisata Kuliner - Asep Haryono | The Right Way To Eat Pempek Palembang - Powered by Blogger

Who doesn’t love pempek? From the classic submarine and lenjer to kulit, adaan, pistel, and even the grilled lenggang it’s no wonder this dish has fans all over Indonesia. 

Hold your horses. 

Where is Palembang? Well, Palembang is a city in South Sumatra, Indonesia, and it’s one of the oldest cities in Southeast Asia. It sits along the Musi River and is famous for its iconic Ampera Bridge and, of course, its delicious local food pempek! If your friends love trying new dishes and exploring local cultures, Palembang is a fun place to discover.

A few days ago, I stopped by a small, simple shop and treated myself to some delicious Pempek Palembang. Even though it originally comes from Palembang, pempek made from processed mackerel fish has definitely become a favorite snack all around the country.

What makes pempek even more mouthwatering is the cuko sauce. It’s that special mix of tamarind, ebi (dried shrimp), garlic, and spicy cayenne pepper that gives it that bold, tangy kick. If you love spicy and sour flavors, you’ll totally get what I mean!

I took this photo just before enjoying them as a quick bite or street snack, not as a full meal. It's recommended to eat a proper meal first before digging into this kind of food

Now here’s the fun part not everyone knows there’s actually a proper way to eat pempek, especially according to the people of Palembang.

There are many kinds of pempek: the famous submarine (with egg inside), pempek lenjer (long and chewy), kulit (made from fish skin), adaan (round ones), tahu (with tofu), and of course, pempek lenggang, which is grilled with duck egg. Most of them are fried before serving except for a few that are grilled or steamed

Even though pempek is a famous local specialty in Palembang, it doesn’t mean the local people eat it every day and many locals love it especially for snacks, small meals, or when they have guests from outside the city.

But no, they don’t eat it every single day. Just like in other places, people in Palembang eat a variety of foods like rice, fish curry (pindang), soto, nasi goreng, and more. Imagine living in Italy people there don’t eat pizza or pasta every single day, even though it’s what they’re famous for. So in short: Palembang people love pempek, but they don’t live on it 24/7.

It’s a proud local dish always there, but not necessarily on today’s lunch menu 😊 Would you like to add this point into your blog post in a casual tone? I can help rewrite a paragraph for it. .


So how do most people eat pempek? Usually, they cut it into pieces, add cucumber slices on top, and pour cuko all over it. Sounds good, right?

Original mackerel fish pempek dish from Palembang. (Photo: Special/Giwang Sumsel)- DETIK COM

Various Recipes of Pempek, Traditional Food Special to Palembang Image from Lingkar News

But Palembang folks say, “Hold up, that’s not the real way!”

According to them, cuko should be served separately, not poured on the pempek. You’re supposed to dip each piece into the cuko, just like dipping fries into ketchup. And here's the interesting part they actually sip the cuko straight from the bowl or bottle, like drinking hot tea or coffee. Yep, that's the real deal

They believe this way makes the flavor even richer and more satisfying. And honestly? After trying it, I kinda agree So next time you’re about to enjoy some pempek, try it the Palembang way. Dip it, sip the cuko, and taste the magic. Trust me it hits different

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Tag : International, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Satria Arta Kumbara, the Mercenary Who Fought for Russia Is an Indonesian National - Powered by Blogger

Have you ever imagined an Indonesian Marine suddenly appearing on the battlefield not in Asia but in the middle of the Russia–Ukraine war? Well, believe it or not, that's exactly what seems to have happened with Satria Arta Kumbara, a former member of the Indonesian Navy’s elite Marine Corps (Korps Marinir TNI AL).

Satria made headlines across Indonesia (and even abroad) after videos surfaced online showing him in a Russian military uniform. The videos, shared by a TikTok account named @zstorm689, quickly went viral. In one clip, Satria proudly wore his old Indonesian marine uniform, and in the next bam! he's suited up in Russian Army gear, reportedly preparing for combat against Ukraine.

Former TNI Navy Marine soldier, Satria Arta Kumbara, who joined Russian mercenary forces, suddenly expressed his desire to return to Indonesia. Photo from Tribun Jawa Tengah Youtube Channel.

According to the Indonesian Navy, Satria went AWOL (absent without leave) on June 13, 2022, and never returned to duty. His desertion didn't go unnoticed he was tried in absentia by the Military Court in Jakarta and sentenced to one year in prison. On top of that, he was officially dismissed from the Navy and declared no longer a member of the TNI.

What raised even more eyebrows is that Satria doesn’t see himself as a mercenary. In an interview with Republika, he said, “I’m not a soldier for hire. I’m an organic member of the Russian Army.” According to him, he joined the Russian military not for money, but as a formal soldier. That’s a bold claim and one that's hard to verify, especially since the Indonesian Ministry of Foreign Affairs said there’s no official travel record of him going to Russia.

Now here’s where it gets even more serious. Under Indonesian law (UU No. 12 Tahun 2006), any Indonesian citizen who joins a foreign military without the President’s approval automatically loses their Indonesian citizenship. The Ministry of Law and Human Rights is now working with the Indonesian Embassy in Moscow to officially strip Satria of his citizenship. Once finalized, he’ll no longer be legally recognized as an Indonesian national.

Whether Satria joined through official channels or through private military networks like the Wagner Group is still unclear. But one thing is for sure: his story is a shocking and rare case of an Indonesian citizen directly involved in one of the most dangerous conflicts on the planet.

It’s a reminder that even in this digital age, individuals can make extreme, unpredictable life choices sometimes for ideology, sometimes for adventure, or maybe something else entirely.

So what do you think? Is Satria a patriot to his new cause? A traitor to his homeland? Or just a man lost between two worlds?

Let me know in the comments! 

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Do You Believe God Made Women Weaker Than Men? - Powered by Blogger

Hello there my all friends
How is it going.  Happy Tuesday

This question can feel controversial, but it’s an important one to talk about honestly. People often throw around the word “weaker” without even defining what they mean. So let’s break it down casually and respectfully.

When some people say "weaker," they might be referring to physical strength. Biologically speaking, yes, on average, men tend to have more muscle mass than women. But does that mean women are weaker overall? Not really.

Let’s not forget: women carry life, give birth, raise families, and bounce back from pain in ways that many men couldn’t imagine. That takes a kind of strength that isn’t about muscles or lifting weights it's about endurance, emotion, and mental resilience.

In many religious teachings, like Islam and Christianity, God didn’t create women to be less important or weaker. Instead, men and women are seen as different but equal in value. Each was given strengths that serve different purposes. For example, some believe men were designed to be protectors, and women as nurturers. But these roles are not strict or limiting they complement each other.

Here’s the thing: strength comes in many forms. Women have led countries, survived wars, raised children alone, and spoken truth to power. If that’s not strength, then I don’t know what is.

So, to answer the question No, I don’t believe God made women weaker than men. I believe God made us different for a reason, and both genders have strengths that the other may not have. That’s the beauty of balance.

What matters more than “who’s stronger” is how we treat each other. Do we respect women for who they are, or do we just compare them to men using unfair standards? It’s time we appreciate strength in all its forms even the quiet, emotional, or spiritual kind.

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Tag : Keseharian, Travelling - Asep Haryono | Online Cabs Like Uber Are Not Allowed To Operate at Supadio Airport - Powered by Blogger

When I was dropping off my beloved wife at Supadi Airport, I noticed a sign prohibiting online taxis from picking up passengers in the airport area. On my way back to the parking lot where I had left my motorcycle, this caught my attention. I had previously read news from several online and print media outlets in Indonesia about incidents involving assaults by conventional taxi drivers on online taxi drivers in several major cities.

I deeply regret such acts of vigilantism.

Regardless of the reason, assault is a form of taking the law into one’s own hands, and it is punishable under the law. There should be no place for such behavior in a democracy like Indonesia. We already have established rules and laws to handle disputes. I am not a legal expert just a concerned citizen and a citizen journalist so allow me to share my opinion here.

Let us briefly revisit the legal framework surrounding internet-based transportation services like online taxis. Government Regulation No. 26 of 2017 issued by the Ministry of Transportation of The Republic of Indonesia clearly defines the upper and lower fare limits for online taxis. Services like GoCar, Grab, and Uber use an application-based system to operate.

There is a distinction between operational permits and transportation organizer permits. Online taxi services (Maybe like UBER in the US - redacted) are suspected of not fully completing their administrative requirements, particularly the Transportation Organizer Permit, which differs from the operational permit many currently hold

I took this photo with my mobile phone. The banner is in Bahasa Indonesia.
They said "Online cabs are prohibited to pick any passenger at the area of Supadio Airport"

Are Online Taxis Illegal?
As discussed above, providers of these online transport services should immediately process the appropriate Transportation Operation Permits, in accordance with Indonesia’s legal framework.

If these permits are not yet obtained, then the "illegal" label may be justified from an administrative standpoint. Indonesia is a country governed by the rule of law, and everyone is expected to follow regulations accordingly. Every person has the right to earn a halal (lawful) income, but that right must be exercised within the boundaries of the law.

The baggage claim section at Supadio Airport . 
Photo taken from DETIK COM

The look of Supadio Airport which has been planned to become an International airport shortly.  Photo taken from Kalbar Sepekan

To me, this seems to be a matter of administrative misunderstanding one that can be resolved through transparency and open dialogue.

On the other hand, let’s put an end to envy. Conventional taxis have their own segment of loyal customers, while online taxis have become popular among younger, tech-savvy generations who value convenience and affordability. Today, almost everything from ordering food to booking a ride can be done through a smartphone.

Let us uphold existing regulations, implement them fairly, and ensure compliance. God willing (Insya Allah), with cooperation and mutual understanding, there will be no more clashes or conflicts between conventional and online taxi providers.

At the end of the day, consumers are king. Everything should be viewed from the user’s perspective, with service and satisfaction as top priorities. Anyone running a business or an independent operation must respect and follow the law.

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Tag : Indonesia, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Pacu Jalur, One of Stunning Indonesian cultures goes viral abroad - Powered by Blogger

Pacu Jalur, the Kuantan Singingi Tradition from Indonesia that Went Viral and InternationalSocial media has recently been buzzing with viral Pacu Jalur videos, where a small child is seen dancing at the tip of a long boat racing quickly down the river, accompanied by dozens of rowers paddling in unison.

The agile performance of the dancing child captivated netizens and has been described as having "farming aura," a popular term among Gen Z to describe an appealing and charming appearance. The image of a child joyfully dancing at the front of a fast-moving boat has recently gone viral on social media. His charismatic movements have been parodied by netizens from all over the world. That child is Rayyan Arkan Dikha.

The Pacu Jalur tradition, a long boat rowing competition typical of Kuantan Singingi, Riau, suddenly became the focus of the world. The reason is the energetic movements of a child dancer at the end of the boat known as "Anak Coki," who went viral on TikTok and global social media. 

This image taken from AF MEDIA Youtube

In that now-iconic moment, Rayyan stood confidently at the tip of a speeding boat barefoot, in traditional dark blue attire, wearing cool black shades, and completely unfazed by the wild paddling behind him. With steady hands, subtle movements, and calm presence, he became an instant legend.

This wasn’t a movie scene this was real life, and it happened during a centuries-old tradition called Pacu Jalur. Let me paint the picture for you. Literally.


Pacu Jalur Goes Viral?
Pacu Jalur is more than just a race. It’s a deep-rooted cultural tradition in Kuantan Singingi, Riau, where long boats  some stretching over 20 meters are crewed by dozens of synchronized rowers. But the real star is the child performer standing right at the front, called the Togak Luan, whose job is to inspire the team and delight the crowd.

Rayyan, just 11 years old, had done this before it wasn’t his first performance. But this time, something magical happened. A video of his calm, graceful dance while the boat sped down the river was posted online and the internet lost its mind.

Pacu Jalur,  One of Stunning Indonesian cultures goes viral abroad

Within days, the clip exploded. Viewers around the world called it “aura farming” slang for radiating natural charisma and coolness. Rayyan’s poised moves, set against the chaotic paddling behind him, turned him into a global meme, a TikTok trend, and even a cultural icon.

People everywhere from anime fans to athletes began recreating the scene. Even football giants like Paris Saint-Germain (PSG) and AC Milan jumped on the trend with parody videos. Formula 1 drivers, influencers, and celebrities joined the fun. Suddenly, the whole world was dancing on imaginary boats.


A Symbol of Culture
Back home in Indonesia, people were amazed and proud. Ryan wasn’t just a cute viral kid he became a symbol of cultural pride. The provincial government of Riau even named him a cultural ambassador, using his popularity to help promote local heritage on a global stage.

And he’s still the same kid. Rayyan goes to school, helps his family, and still practices traditional dances. He had no idea the world would be watching he was simply doing what he loves.

What makes this story so beautiful is how a quiet moment on a river sparked a global conversation about tradition, culture, and youth confidence. Rayyan didn’t need a microphone or a stage. He just needed a boat, a traditional outfit, and the courage to stand tall literally.

So next time you’re scrolling and see a dancing kid in sunglasses on a boat, remember: you’re looking at Rayyan Arkan Dikha from Riau, Indonesia the boy who turned Pacu Jalur into a worldwide trend. That is cool, Huh

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | The Online Dilemma for Individuals and Businesses - Powered by Blogger

I have looked at several official websites, both business and personal, where people intentionally display their real personal information online to be viewed by people around the world especially for business purposes. They clearly include their real contact details (address, phone number, email address) so that potential customers can contact them for more information about their products.

On the other hand, I’ve found that many individuals online are not interested in providing their personal contact details. Instead, they prefer to use general chat options such as Facebook Messenger or the Facebook comment section, which feel safer than exposing their private information. This is understandable.

FYI. This is my actual laptop I use every day at my home. I purchased online a few years ago. Old fashion type with very old window version as well.

Privacy vs. Visibility:
In today’s digital world, there's an interesting contrast happening across social media and online platforms. On one side, many individuals especially bloggers and everyday internet users are becoming increasingly cautious about sharing personal information. On the other side, online businesses are expected to be transparent, providing real addresses, phone numbers, and contact details to build trust. So why is this happening, and what risks are involved?

Many social media users are now choosing to keep their phone numbers, real names, and even profile pictures private. And it’s easy to understand why. With rising concerns about cyberbullying, scams, identity theft, and doxxing, protecting your personal data online is no longer optional it’s essential.

Online anonymity also offers freedom. People want to express themselves, join conversations, or comment freely without fear of judgment or harassment. That’s why you often see pseudonyms and avatars instead of real faces on platforms like Reddit, TikTok, or Twitter.

"It doesn't happen to me. If you visit my blog, you’ll clearly see that all my contact details are publicly displayed. My email, phone number, and other personal information are real.

I'm not afraid of being scammed or having someone misuse my contact details or photos for their own benefit. All my friends already know me well. Even though I haven’t experienced any serious online scams in years,

I will definitely stay more cautious with all my online activities moving forward"




For Businesses Must Be Transparent
In contrast, online businesses operate in a completely different environment. They need to be visible and accessible. Potential customers want to know they’re dealing with a real, trustworthy business. That means showing an actual address, business phone number, and clear identity. Without that, people simply won’t buy.

Also, for legal reasons, platforms like Google Business, Facebook Pages, or marketplaces like Amazon often require verified business details. This builds credibility, ensures accountability, and helps with online visibility in search engines.

Scammers Are Watching

Here’s the twist. While businesses need to be transparent, that same visibility also makes them prime targets for scammers. Public contact details are often scraped from websites or social media and used for: Fake orders or refund scams, Phishing emails pretending to be customers or banks, Business identity theft (cloning websites or brand pages), Phone calls using social engineering to steal information, The more open you are, the more exposed you become,

How to Be Smart and Stay Safe
Balancing online visibility with security starts by being mindful of what you share. It’s a good idea to use only essential information like a business phone, a professional email address, and a general location such as your city while keeping personal details private. Strengthening your digital presence is also important. Make sure your website uses HTTPS, update your plugins regularly, and install basic security tools such as firewalls to prevent unwanted access.

It helps to separate personal and business accounts so your professional activity doesn't overlap with your private life. For instance, using different platforms or profiles for your business keeps things organized and more secure. When you receive unexpected emails, messages, or payment notifications, take a moment to double-check their source. Verifying things before responding can prevent unnecessary risks or misunderstandings.

Also, keep an eye on how your brand appears online. Every so often, search your business name to make sure it hasn’t been copied or misused. If something looks suspicious, acting early can protect your reputation and customer trust. Taking these thoughtful steps helps you stay visible, credible, and safe in the digital world.

The online world is full of opportunity, but also full of risk. For individuals, privacy is protection. For businesses, visibility is survival. The key is to find the sweet spot where you're open enough to grow, but cautious enough to stay safe.

If you found this article helpful, feel free to share it with fellow bloggers, small business owners, or anyone trying to grow their online presence safely. Have your own tips or stories to share? Drop a comment below or message me I’d love to hear your thoughts!

I think that will be all for now my friend

Just be cool

Stay smart, stay safe, and keep creating
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Tag : Internet, Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Floating City in the Clouds: Fake or Fata Morgana? - Powered by Blogger

Have you ever scrolled through your phone and come across a strange video showing a city floating in the clouds? Like... literally a whole city in the sky? Well, that exact thing happened in China back in 2015, and it freaked a lot of people out!

In a place called Foshan, Guangdong Province, people looked up and saw what looked like tall buildings hovering above the clouds. It was like a scene from a sci-fi movie. A few days later, folks in Jiangxi Province also reported seeing something similar. Videos went viral fast with comments ranging from “What the heck is this?!” to “Aliens are coming!”

Some people said it looked like a ghost city floating in the sky. Others called it a real-life version of Studio Ghibli’s “Castle in the Sky.” No matter how you look at it, the scene was seriously wild.

Floating city in the clouds: Fake or fata morgana?
Photo taken from CNN Youtube Channel

Real or Just a Fancy Illusion?

So… what was it really?.Some say it was a hoax a clever video edit meant to stir up social media hype. Others believe it was a rare natural phenomenon called Fata Morgana. Sounds like a cool name for a magic trick, right?

Wait, What’s Fata Morgana?

Let me explain it the simple way. Fata Morgana is basically a mirage like when you're driving on a hot road and it looks like there’s water ahead, but it’s not really there. In this case, the sky acts like a mirror and bends light in weird ways. So a real city

Illustration taken from Top Fives Youtube Channel

far away can appear in the sky, stretched or floating like magic.

Some experts say that’s what happened in Foshan. The atmosphere played a trick on everyone, making buildings from a nearby area appear in the sky. Trippy, huh?

But Still… It Looked Too Real

Honestly, when I watched the video, it didn’t feel like a blurry mirage. The buildings looked sharp and solid like you could touch them. That’s probably why so many people still believe it was something else. A government hologram test? A glitch in the matrix? Something spiritual?

Who knows!

My Opinions
Whether it was a rare trick of the light or something more mysterious, the “floating city” in China is one of those stories that makes you stop and wonder: how much of what we see can we really trust?

It might not have been an alien city or a sign from the sky but it sure made a lot of us look up. Have you ever seen anything like this before? Or would you believe it if you did? 

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Tag : Keseharian, Opinion - Asep Haryono | Bagaimana Supaya Kamu Tidak Menjadi Korban Scammer - Powered by Blogger

Mencari teman hidup atau jodoh sudah lazim saat ini di seluruh penjuru dunia. Ini sudah bukan menjadi rahasia umum lagi. Sudah hal yang lazim di jaman serba online sekarang ini, orang mencari informasi apa saja sudah tersedia dengan mudah. Hanya dengan mengetikkan keyword (kata kunci) maka informasi yang kita ingin sudah terhampar di depan mata. Apa pun yang anda inginkan , informasi dengan derasnya begitu mudah didapatkan.

Bagaimana Supaya Kamu Tidak Menjadi Korban Scammer

Namun demikian bahaya akan selalu datang mengintai di sekitar kita. Salah satunya adalah banyaknya Scammer (penipu) di dunia maya. Ada banyak sekali jenis dan tipe para penipu inil. Dan kamu harus waspada terhaoap trik licik mereka yang selalu punya cara baru untuk menjerat anda masuk menjadi korban penipuan mereka. Apa itu di Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin, Youtube, WhatsApp, hingga website. Yang namanya penipu ada di sekitar kita yang siap mengintai kapan saja

Romance Scammer (Penipu Asmara)
Apa itu Romance Scammer atau Penipus Asmara? Sahabat bisa mencari sendiri informasinya di Google. Yang ingin saya bagikan di sini adalah resiko atau bahaya bahaya yang bisa anda temui jika bersosialisasi di sosial Media seperti di Facebook, Telegram, WhatsApp, atau website. Saya coba bahas sedikit untuk Jenis penipuan yang satu ini.

Bagi mereka yang kebetulan “jomblo bahagia” mungkin tidak ada masalah, namun bagaimana mereka yang sudah kebelet kepengen cari lawan jenis untuk dijadikan teman hidup, teman kencan, atau apa lah (Saya sendiri tidak menganjurkan –red), ini adalah urusan pribadi kamu. I have nothing to do with that issue. Saya hanya coba membagi bahaya bahaya apa saja yang mungkin kamu dapatkan jika mendapati penipu jenis ini, Romance Scammer

Saya mau bertanya. Apa kamu sering mengunjungi Tinder, atau applikasi pencari teman , atau mengunjungi dating service atau situs kencan? Atau mencari pasangan di saluran Telegram, IG atau apa saja? Saya hanya bertanya saja. No offended please (mohon tidak tersinggung ya brader). Nah scammer sudah bercokol di sana. Mereka.

Mereka pada umumnya, dan seringnya menggunakan foto profil orang lain (Bukan fotonya sendiri), dan sudah pasti tanpa izin. Nah para penipu ini berpura pura menjadi seorang gadis, dengan tubuh aduhai (maaf), semuanya hanya untuk menarik kamu masuk dalam jebakan “asmara” nya. Tujuannya bisa bermacam macam. Scammer mengintai kantong atau uang kamu, atau kamu menjadi korban scamming mereka. Ini yang harus diwaspadai. Akan saya bahas di judul yang laind ari artikel saya hari ini

Pertanyaannya adalah “Bagaimana supaya Kamu tidak terjebak menjadi Korban para Scammer di Internet”? Yuk saya coba bahas singkat saja dalam artikel ini. Beberapa materi saya petik dari sumber sumber lain

Waspada Tipu Daya Para Scammer
Seperti yang sudah saya sebut di atas, mencari teman baru dari platform media sosial sangat umum saat ini baik untuk pengembangan pribadi atau karir seperti mendapatkan kesempatan baru untuk bekerja di luar negeri dan banyak lagi tujuan lainnya. . Namun suatu ketika, dengan maksut dan alasan tertentu, orang bisa jatuh ke dalam masalah pribadi seperti mencari teman hidup, pasangan hidup di sosial media atau melalui situs situs pencarian teman.

Menemukan pasangan seumur hidup baru bisa menjadi masalah yang sangat serius bagi mereka yang tidak tahu aturan dasar tentang cara berhubungan dengan orang yang baru dikenal di sosial media/ Apa pun alasannya, jangan mudah terjebak atau percaya begitu saja kepada orang yang baru kamu kenal di Internet. Ini saja dahulu kunci utama keselamatan anda. Nah ada beberapa TRIK para Scammer (Penipu) yang bisa kamu pelajari, waspadai, dan hindari jika menemukan gejala gejala mereka akan melakukan ini 

Tawaran Pekerjaan Mudah Gaji Besar 
Nah ini adalah salah satu Trik para Scammer untuk mejebak kamu masuk menjadi korban mereka. Sebenarnya bisa panjang kamau membahas ini, dan tidak akan cukup 1 hari. Namun saya coba rangkum saja ya.
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Nah untuk jenis Penipuan ini, Jika kamu misalnya saat ini sedang mencari pekerjaan, lalu kamu bertemu seseorang yang baru anda kenal di sosial media (Linkedin, WhatsAppa, Telegram atau apa saja sosial media-red) lalu menawarkan kepada kamiu Pekerjaan Mudah dengan Gaji Besar di dalam atau di luar Negeri, tanpa pengalaman kerja, , tanpa dokumen, nah waspadalah. Kamu sedang dipancing masuk dalam jebakan perdagangan manusia.

Sebagai contoh aja ya. Sebagai ilustrasi. Kamu mendapatkan tawaran pekerjaan sebagai penjaga Toko. Misalnya ya. Di Inggris Kamu hanya diminta menyediakan Passport, Koper (Pakaian kamu) saja Semua sudah beres ditanggung oleh Agen Pencari Kerja yang anda kenal itu. Baik Tiket Pesawat Pergi Pulang, Akomodasi, Penhginapan, dan Gaji Besar. Semua dokumen mereka yang urus. Dan ini serius banyak terjadi sekarang. Mereka lah korban perdagangan manusia atau bahasa kerennya adalah Human Trafficking

Begitu anda tiba di Bandara Inggris, anda akan dijemput oleh Agen Pencari kerja, dan Handphone dan Passpor anda akan disita oleh mereka. Kamu akan dibawa ke mobil untuk di bawa ke sebuah tempat atau Gedung dan anda akan ditahan di sana. Anda akan disuruh kerja 24 jam tanpa Gaji.

Passpor dan HP kamu kan sudah ada pada mereka. Nah para Agen Pencari Kerja inilah yang akan menghubungi Keluarga anda di Indonesia, bahwa anda sudah menjadi tahanan mereka, dan akan dilepaskan jika membayar tebusan ratusan juta rupiah. Jika tidak, maka anak mereka akan menjadi budak mereka se umur hidup.

Yang lebih mengerikan lagi jika para korban Trafficking ini di "jual" lagi kepada agen lainya, dan bahkan ada laporan yang menyebutkan mereka diambil organ. Berangkat mencari peruntungan di luar negeri, dengan penuh harapan akan kehidupan yang lebih baik ternyata jadi korban penipuan dan pulang sudah dalam keadaan tidak bernyawa. 

Nah ini saja contoh sederhana apa yang terjadi jika kamu menjadi korban Perdagangan Manusia dengan iming iming pekerjaan. Mengerikan tentunya bukan

Termasuk lkamu sebaiknya tidak memberikan informasi penting rahasia kepada orang yang baru kamu kenal di sosial media seperti nomor rekening Bank, atau diminta mengirim foto foto syur kamu kepada orang yang kamu kenal baru di Internet. Ingat Scammer bisa menjadi apa saja, mau jadi cewek bohay sekalipun bisa mereka. Nah jika kamu melewatri batas seperti mengirim intimate picture, bisa jadi kamu akan menjadi korban Blackmail (pemerasan) yang menuntut tebusan.

Sebenarnya masih banyak lagi TRIK TRIK dari para scammer yang akan menakutkan kalau saya bahas semuanya di sini. Mungkin dilain kesempatan Insya Allah akan saya sampaikan dalam tema tema yang lain. Kejahatan dunia maya memang nyata dan selalu mengintai kelemahan kita. Para scammer ini cerdik dan selalu memiliki cara baru untuk memancing kamu masuk ke dalam perangkap kejahatan mereka. Keterbatasan waktu jugalah, bahkan kamu juga pastinya akan bosan jika artike lini terlalu panjang. 

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