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As someone who loves blogging and making connections with people from all over the world, it really hurts when I put in the effort to engage with other bloggers especially from the US, Australia,...

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My First Taste of Dutch Cup-a-Soup: An Unexpected Delight

My First Taste of Dutch Cup-a-Soup: An Unexpected Delight

I am so sorry if I am not able to describe precisely just like a native English. I am just telling you about what...

Understanding Judaism and Zionism: Clearing Up Misconceptions

Understanding Judaism and Zionism: Clearing Up Misconceptions

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My Blog Theme is a NEWS or Magazine Style

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Understanding Judaism and Zionism: Clearing Up Misconceptions Today’s topic is quite sensitive. There are many things happening in the world right now such as the confrontation between Russia and Ukraine but the most pressing and heartbreaking issue is the ongoing genocide in Palestine, where more than 50,000 Palestinians have lost their lives.

This is not about religion. This is about injustice, human rights violations, and basic humanity. People who love peace and stand up for justice whether on the streets or on social media are often labeled as antisemitic. But what is wrong with the way the world sees this today?

When I witness injustice happening right before my eyes, I feel I must speak up.

You don’t have to agree with everything, but at the very least, you should have an opinion. Let’s talk about it. Let’s have an honest discussion.

In today’s global landscape, few topics generate as much discussion and misunderstanding as Judaism and Zionism. While these terms are often used interchangeably in media and everyday conversation, they refer to fundamentally different concepts.

This confusion can lead to harmful stereotypes, misinformed opinions, and even accusations that cloud meaningful dialogue. Understanding the distinctions between Judaism and Zionism is key to fostering respectful, informed conversations and promoting mutual understanding.

What Is Judaism?

Judaism is one of the world’s oldest monotheistic religions, tracing its origins back more than 3,000 years. Rooted in the Hebrew Bible (Tanakh), Judaism encompasses a comprehensive belief system that includes theology, ethics, religious observance, law, culture, and tradition. Jewish life is guided by the Torah and enriched through centuries of scholarship, rituals, holidays, and community life.

Importantly, Judaism is not just a religion it is also a cultural and ethnic identity. One can be ethnically Jewish without practicing the religion, just as one can convert to Judaism and become part of the Jewish community. This dual identity is one of the unique aspects of Judaism, combining both spiritual and cultural elements.

What Is Zionism?
Zionism, on the other hand, is a political movement that emerged in the late 19th century in response to widespread antisemitism in Europe and elsewhere. Its central goal was to establish a safe, sovereign homeland for the Jewish people, which eventually culminated in the founding of the modern state of Israel in 1948.

At its core, Zionism is a nationalist ideology that argues Jews, like other nations, have the right to self-determination in their ancestral homeland. Over time, Zionism has evolved into various forms religious, secular, socialist, and even post-Zionist—each with its own interpretations and goals.

It is crucial to understand that while many Jews identify with some form of Zionism, not all do. Similarly, there are non-Jews who support Zionism for a range of reasons, including religious beliefs, political alliances, or human rights advocacy. Therefore, equating all Jews with Zionismor all Zionists with Judaism—is both incorrect and potentially harmful.


Infographic explaining the differences between Judaism and Zionism, addressing common misconceptions, with colorful icons and text sections
Infographic explaining the differences between Judaism and Zionism, addressing common misconceptions, with colorful icons and text sections




Clearing Up Common Misconceptions
One of the most widespread and damaging misconceptions is that criticism of Israel or Zionist policies is inherently antisemitic. While antisemitism is a very real and dangerous form of bigotry, not every critique of Israeli government actions stems from hatred toward Jews.

It is entirely possible and necessaryfor people to engage in thoughtful, constructive criticism of any nation’s policies, including Israel’s, without being accused of antisemitism. The key lies in intent and context. Criticizing a government’s actions is not the same as condemning an entire people or religion. Conversely, using political critiques as a cover for antisemitic tropes or denying Jewish historical ties to the land of Israel crosses the line into prejudice.

On the other side of the conversation, it's also important not to assume that all Jewish individuals support the policies of the Israeli government. The Jewish community is incredibly diverse, with a wide range of views on everything from theology to geopolitics. Some Jewish groups are vocally anti-Zionist, while others actively advocate for peace, justice, and coexistence.





Building Better Understanding

To move toward more productive conversations, we must begin by separating faith from politics and identity from ideology. Judaism is a religion and a cultural identity; Zionism is a political movement with multiple interpretations. Conflating the two can lead to misunderstandings, stereotypes, and sometimes, discriminatory attitudes.

By recognizing the diversity within Jewish thought and Zionist ideology, we can better appreciate the complexities involved in these discussions. With empathy, education, and open-mindedness, it's possible to challenge injustice without perpetuating hate and to support a people’s right to safety and self-determination without compromising human rights.

Understanding the difference is not just about getting terminology right it’s about showing respect, encouraging dialogue, and building bridges in a world that desperately \needs more of both.

“Let’s keep the conversation respectful and informed. Share your thoughts in the comments below

what’s your perspective on the distinction between Judaism and Zionism?” 

I really appreciate when a fellow blogger shared their thoughts about how my blog shows posts. They said most blogs usually list posts in order, with the newest at the top, then the next newest below, and so on.

But they noticed my blog is a bit different  kind of scattered around and non-linear  which makes it hard to tell the order of posts. They mentioned this might make some people unsure where to start or maybe less likely to interact. I get that sometimes simpler really is better.

But honestly, that’s just not my style.

 Every blogger has their own way of presenting their blog. You’ve got your own style and theme, and I respect that. It’s your blog — well done! I have my own style for my blog too, and I hope you can respect that. It’s not cool to criticize how someone else displays their posts, especially since I’ve never criticized your blog.

We should respect each other’s choices.

If my blog seems non-linear or scattered, it’s because my theme is news or magazine style. That means it shows lots of different categories, so visitors can pick and choose which articles they want to read or comment on first
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It obviously display many catagories in which every people or visitor to my blog can decide or choose which one of those articles they would like to start reading or commenting.is

Benefits of Using a News or Magazine Theme for a Blogger Like me

If you're a blogger like me—publishing informative articles regularly on topics like travel destinations you might be wondering: What kind of blog layout works best for my content?

Well, let me introduce you to one of the most underrated yet powerful layouts in the blogging world: the News or Magazine-style theme.

Here’s why this layout could be a game-changer for my blog:

1. Professional and Organized Appearance
First impressions matter. A news-style theme immediately gives your blog a polished, trustworthy vibe—like a real online magazine or news outlet. This kind of setup neatly divides your content into sections (Business, Finance, Travel, etc.), features highlighted sliders, breaking news tickers, and attractive article thumbnails. It’s like CNN meets your blog!

2. Easy Navigation for Readers
We all know visitors don’t want to scroll endlessly just to find what they’re looking for. Magazine themes make this easier by grouping your posts under menus, categories, and tags. For example, a reader looking for “SWIFT code in Singapore” can find it right under the “Asia” or “Finance” tab without a fuss. This means more time on your blog and fewer people bouncing away.

3. Content-Rich Layout = More Articles Displayed
Are you planning to write hundreds of articles (like me)? Then you need a layout that supports content-heavy blogs. Unlike traditional blog themes that only show the latest posts, magazine themes display grids, blocks, and carousels for popular, featured, and latest articles. This keeps your older but valuable posts visible and discoverable.

4. Better SEO and Click-Through Rates
Google loves structured, well-linked blogs—and readers do too! A news-style layout often includes widgets for related posts, trending tags, and top stories, which boosts your internal linking strategy. The result? Improved search rankings and more article views per visitor.

5. Built for Monetization
Planning to make some income from your blog in the future? These themes are typically designed with monetization in mind. You can easily place Google Ads, affiliate banners, or sponsored content without disrupting the reader experience. Think of it as a blog that works hard for you in the background.

6. Builds Authority in Your Niche
Whether you’re writing about banking systems or international landmarks, how your blog looks matters as much as what it says. A magazine-style design sends a signal to readers and search engines alike: “This blog is a serious resource.” That alone can elevate your status in your niche over time.


"I don’t take free blog themes for granted they’re super helpful for my blog. Luckily, I know a little bit of HTML HyperText Markup LanguageIt’s the standard language used to create and structure content on the web  like text, images, links, and more., so I can tweak and customize the themes to match my own style.".



Summary

If you're planning to turn your blog into a valuable, well-organized, and monetizable content hub, a news or magazine theme might just be your best investment—especially if you're covering various global topics.

As I mentioned earlier at the beginning of this post, you are free to use any blog theme you like. You wanna get simple theme, that is okay. And its fine obviously. I always respect that

As someone who loves blogging and making connections with people from all over the world, it really hurts when I put in the effort to engage with other bloggers especially from the US, Australia, and Europe  and get little to no response in return.

I’ve visited many blogs, left thoughtful comments, followed their content, and even added them to my blog list. But unfortunately, many of them never return the favor. Not even a single follow back or a quick “thank you” comment.

It makes me wonder: why?

At times, I can’t help but feel invisible or even worse, like I don’t belong. And yes, there’s a part of me that wonders if it's related to where I’m from or how I write. Is it racism? Or is there more to it?

After thinking long and hard about this, here are a few possible reasons why some foreign bloggers don’t return visits or interact with blogs like mine:

A young man with medium brown skin sits at a desk looking disappointed while using a laptop. A large speech bubble above him says "NO COMMENTS" surrounded by smaller empty speech bubbles and icons for LinkedIn and Twitter, symbolizing a lack of interaction on his blog
A young man with medium brown skin sits at a desk looking disappointed while using a laptop. A large speech bubble above him says "NO COMMENTS" surrounded by smaller empty speech bubbles and icons for LinkedIn and Twitter, symbolizing a lack of interaction on his blog



1. Cultural and Language Differences
Let’s face it not everyone feels comfortable interacting with people from different cultures or writing styles. Even if you’re writing in English, sometimes cultural nuances, phrasing, or even blog layout can feel “unfamiliar” to readers from Western countries. So instead of reaching out, they might just stay silent. It doesn’t necessarily mean they dislike you  maybe they just don’t know how to engage properly.

2. Busy Lives and Different Priorities A lot of bloggers in the West treat blogging more as a side hobby than a community. Many have full-time jobs, families, or packed schedules. That means they might not read or reply to comments regularly, or even check who follows them. It’s not personal  they might just be juggling too much at once.

3. Different Blogging Cultures
In my part of the world, it’s common to return comments, follow back, and build friendships through blogging. But in many Western blogging circles, the focus is often on SEO, monetization, or niche-specific growth. Some bloggers simply don’t pay attention to interaction  especially from outside their target audience.

4. You Might Be Getting Overlooked, Not Rejected
Let’s not forget: algorithms and platforms don’t always make things easy. Some bloggers use automated tools, and your comment might just be sitting in a spam folder or overlooked in a flood of other notifications. It doesn’t mean you were intentionally ignored.

5. Yes, Bias Can Be Real
Still, we have to be honest bias and racism do exist. Some people may not take bloggers from developing countries seriously. They may assume we have nothing valuable to offer, or they might just prefer to stay in their comfort zone. And yes, that hurts.

6. But Don’t Give Upc
Even when it feels like no one’s listening, I remind myself: I blog because I love it. I write to express myself, to connect, and to leave something meaningful behind. Not every blogger will respond, but that doesn’t mean your voice isn’t important. Keep writing. Keep showing up. The right audience will find you.

If you’ve felt this way too  ignored, left out, or disappointed  just know you're not alone. Let’s continue supporting each other and building real connections that go beyond borders and backgrounds.

Let’s keep blogging with heart.

Over the past week, I made a major shift in the direction of my blog, Simply Asep. I transitioned from writing in Bahasa Indonesia to English — aiming to reach out and connect with a broader, international blogging community. The response was beyond what I expected. My blog has received between 600 to 2,000 daily visitors in just one week, with readers coming from various parts of the world. I felt seen. I felt hopeful.

But along with that excitement came an unexpected wave of sadness and disappointment.

Like many bloggers, I believed in the spirit of community. I took time to visit fellow bloggers’ sites, read their posts carefully, and left meaningful comments. I followed their blogs, not just for the sake of following, but because I genuinely enjoyed connecting with their stories and perspectives.

What hurt was this: many of them didn’t follow me back.

Now, I didn’t expect instant fame or a flood of compliments. But I thought maybe  just maybe  the kindness I extended would be reciprocated. It made me question things. Was it something about me? Was it because I’m from Indonesia, a Southeast Asian country not often in the global spotlight?

The thought crossed my mind: Could this be racism?

After sitting with that painful feeling for a while and observing more closely, I realized something important: it's probably not that personal. In fact, it’s likely not racism at all.

In the global blogging world, people engage in different ways. Many Western bloggers no longer use the “Follow” button on Blogger. They may read your blog through RSS feeds, bookmarks, or social media, without formally “following” you. Some are just more selective, while others simply don’t have the habit of following back.

And yes, many people are just busy. Distracted. Focused on their own lives. Online engagement can be inconsistent, and silence doesn’t always mean rejection.

A thoughtful blogger sits at a desk with a laptop, surrounded by soft lighting and warm tones, reflecting a calm but hopeful mood. The image represents quiet resilience, global connection, and the emotional journey of blogging.


My friends,

Here’s what I’ve learned — and what I want to share with others who may feel the same way:

  • Focus on those who respond. When you’re growing your blog, it’s easy to feel discouraged by those who don’t reply, comment, or follow you back. But instead of focusing on who didn’t respond, shift your attention to those who did.

    Even one loyal reader is the start of a real community. These are the people who take the time to read, comment, and engage with your posts. Visit their blogs, build friendships, and show appreciation. Over time, these authentic connections will matter more than hundreds of silent views. Quality engagement fosters trust, and trust is the foundation of long-term blogging success.

  • Keep commenting with purpose. Generic comments like “Nice post” are easy to ignore. If you want to build real connections, leave thoughtful, meaningful comments that reflect what you actually enjoyed about the post.

    Mention something specific a sentence, a story, a personal insight. Ask a follow-up question or share your own perspective in return. Bloggers notice genuine engagement, and they’re much more likely to visit your blog when you show that you’ve read theirs with care. It’s not about flattery — it’s about real human connection. Purposeful comments open doors to deeper blogging friendships and encourage reciprocal support over time.

  • Invite engagement openly. Many bloggers hesitate to ask for support, fearing they’ll come across as needy. But a polite, warm invitation goes a long way. If someone enjoys your post, there’s nothing wrong with gently saying,

    “If you liked this post, feel free to follow my blog or leave a comment  I’d love to hear your thoughts!” This creates an open, welcoming environment and reminds readers that their interaction is appreciated. Some readers may enjoy your content but need a small nudge to engage more actively. Don’t be afraid to ask  you're inviting a connection, not demanding one.

  • Don’t give up. It’s easy to feel invisible when you put your heart into a blog post and hear nothing back. But trust that your voice is being heard even if it’s quiet at first. Many readers don’t comment, but they are still reading and coming back. Keep going. Consistency builds visibility.

    Every post you write adds to your presence online. Over time, the right audience  people who truly connect with your message will find you. Stay passionate. Stay present. Don’t give up, because your journey is just beginning, and someone out there is waiting for your next post.

Blogging is about more than numbers. It’s about connection, growth, and sharing your voice. And sometimes, it takes a little longer for the world to truly listen.

So, to all my readers thank you. And to fellow bloggers, especially those just starting to reach out internationally: don’t let silence steal your spirit.

You belong here.


A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"



When people hear the word "Zionism," they often confuse it with Judaism. But here’s the truth: Judaism is a religion, while Zionism is a political movement—and mixing the two up causes a lot of misunderstanding and unnecessary hate. In today’s world, especially on social media, it’s more important than ever to set the record straight. What is Judaism?

Let’s start simple. Judaism is a faith, one of the oldest monotheistic religions in the world. Jews follow the Torah, celebrate holidays like Passover and Hanukkah, and live by religious laws that go back thousands of years. Just like Christianity or Islam, Judaism is about beliefs, values, history, and culture.

 What is Zionism? Now, Zionism is something completely different. It’s not a religion—it’s a political movement that started in the late 1800s. It was born out of a desire to create a safe homeland for Jews who were facing antisemitism in Europe. One of the founders of Zionism, Theodor Herzl, dreamed of a place where Jews could live freely and safely. That place became the modern State of Israel in 1948.

 So, Are All Jews Zionists? Nope. And that’s where a lot of people get it wrong. Not all Jews support Zionism. In fact, many religious Jews originally opposed the movement, believing only the Messiah should lead them back to Israel—not a political organization. Even today, there are Jewish communities around the world who criticize the actions of the Israeli government or reject Zionism altogether.




Are All Zionists Jewish?
Surprisingly, no again. There are Christian Zionists, especially in the U.S., who support Israel for religious or political reasons. Some people support Zionism purely from a human rights standpoint, believing in the Jewish people’s right to self-determination, just like any other group.

The Controversy
Here’s where things get heated. The creation of Israel in 1948 led to the displacement of many Palestinians, an event known as the Nakba, or “catastrophe.” For Palestinians and their supporters, Zionism isn’t just about a homeland—it’s about loss, occupation, and conflict. This is why Zionism is highly controversial in global politics today.

Criticizing the actions of Israel or its leaders is not the same as being antisemitic. But some people do cross the line—using ancient antisemitic stereotypes to attack modern political issues. That’s not okay, and it’s important to call it out when it happens.

Why It Matters
Understanding the difference between Judaism and Zionism helps prevent hate and promotes honest conversation. Saying “all Jews are Zionists” is simply false. And saying “anti-Zionism is antisemitism” is also not always true. These are two very different ideas that deserve to be discussed with clarity and respect.



Final Thoughts

Being Jewish means belonging to the Jewish people, either through religion, ethnicity, or culture. It is not inherently political. Zionism is a political movement that supports the establishment and continuation of a Jewish state, primarily in Israel. While many Jews support Zionism, not all do; some oppose it for religious or political reasons. Likewise, not all Zionists are Jewish some are non-Jewish supporters.

The two terms are often confused but represent different ideas: one is about identity, the other about political ideology. Understanding this distinction is essential in discussions about religion, politics, and the Middle East.

Let’s be smarter with our words. Let's respect faith and debate politics without mixing the two up. Whether you agree or disagree with Zionism, let’s keep the conversation respectful and grounded in facts, not stereotypes

I am so sorry if I am not able to describe precisely just like a native English. I am just telling you about what I have got from a friend of mine who have just returned from his family visit in the Netherlands. 

ou wanna know what it was? I’m really sorry if I can’t describe things as clearly or precisely as a native English speaker. I just wanted to share something exciting that I got from a friend who recently returned from a trip to the Netherlands. Want to know what it was? Cup-a-Soup!

OMG—I’m still having trouble describing how it tastes and feels! But before I go further, let me tell you a little about what my friend brought me.

My good friend, Robert Iskandar, had just come back from visiting his sister in the Netherlands about a month ago. He brought back several sachets of Cup-a-Soup and gave some to me. These are exactly like the ones you can probably find photos of online. I won’t go into detail explaining what Cup-a-Soup is—you can easily look it up yourself.

Today, I just want to share my personal experience of trying the different flavors he gave me.


My First Taste of Dutch Cup-a-Soup: An Unexpected Delight
Dutch Cup-a-Soup sachets in various flavors from the Netherlands

My First Taste of Dutch Cup-a-Soup: An Unexpected Delight
Its written in Dutch.  I have no idea



"When I try to prepare a glass of the Cup A Soup and saw the preparation to serve in Dutch. Beats me.  Its so creamy, and tasty. Pouring hot water and enjoy in the afternoon. Its a good sign of beautiful day. "



Lost in Translation (Literally)
Unfortunately, all the information printed on the back and front of the Cup-a-Soup packaging was written in Dutch—so I had no idea how to properly prepare a cup of it. I had to figure it out myself through trial and error!

From what I can tell, it’s similar to the instant soup powders that come in various flavors and are popular worldwide. You just tear the sachet, pour the powder into a cup, add hot water, stir, and you’re done! Super convenient and perfect for a quick snack or light meal.

Here in Indonesia, the most common brand that offers this kind of soup is Knorr. You can find flavors like: Mixed Vegetable, Sweet Corn, Tomato Chatpata, Cream of Corn


My Favorite: Champignon (Cream of Mushroom)
Among all the flavors I tried, my absolute favorite was Champignon, also known as Cream of Mushroom Soup. It was creamy, comforting, and incredibly satisfying—especially when the weather was cool or rainy.

Cup-a-Soup is a lifesaver for busy people who want something warm and tasty but don’t have the time (or energy) to cook. No stove, no mess—just a cup, hot water, and one soup sachet. That’s it!


A Humble (and Funny) Request
If you're reading this and happen to live in a place where Cup-a-Soup is easy to find, would you mind sending a few sachets to me? I know it’s a bit hilarious since we don’t know each other—but I really love Cup-a-Soup and I can't find this Dutch version here in Indonesia.

Here’s my address if you feel generous or curious enough to send a packet or two my way:

Asep Haryono
Komplek Duta Bandara Permai
Jalan Supadio, Ahmad Yani 2
Kabupaten Kubu Raya
Kalimantan Barat
Indonesia

Email : cepot71@gmail.com
WhasApp : +6208977749155
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/asep.haryono


Thank you for reading my little story!

Even if no one sends me anything, I’m happy just to share my love for this warm, tasty delight from the Netherlands.





What the Death of Russian Influencer Arina Glazunova Can Teach Us  Arina Glazunova, a 24-year-old Russian influencer and TikTok personality, tragically died in the early hours of September 27, 2024, in Tbilisi, Georgia. While walking through First Republic Square with a friend, she was filming herself singing

"For the Last Time" by the Russian boyband Hunger Boys. Distracted by the recording, she failed to notice the edge of an underground subway passage and tripped over a knee-high wall, falling approximately 5 meters onto concrete stairs below. She suffered severe injuries, including a fractured skull and broken neck, and was pronounced dead at a hospital later that morning

The incident was captured on video and widely shared on social media, sparking public outrage over the lack of safety measures at the site.

Digital blog banner featuring a tribute to Arina Glazunova, Russian influencer who died in Tbilisi, with safety awareness message and her portrait



The wall she tripped over was only 30 centimeters high, leading many to criticize the inadequate infrastructure. In response, local residents created a memorial at the site and called for improved safety standards. Tbilisi's City Hall stated that the underpass was built according to Soviet-era standards, but the tragedy has prompted discussions about updating safety regulations to prevent similar accidents in the future


"It is best to avoid playing with gadgets while walking. This is very dangerous for yourself and the surrounding environment. Using a cellphone or gadget while walking makes your eyesight more focused on the cellphone screen. This condition makes you neglect your surroundings."


Arina was remembered for her vibrant personality, commitment to animal welfare, and work as a public relations manager after graduating from the Russian Presidential Academy of National Economy and Public Administration

Lesson Learned
The internet recently mourned the heartbreaking loss of 24-year-old Russian influencer Arina Glazunova, who tragically fell to her death in Tbilisi, Georgia. While filming a lighthearted video of herself singing and dancing with a friend, she tripped over a low wall and fell down a subway stairwell.

The incident shocked her fans and sparked intense discussions about safety, distraction, and the role of public infrastructure. But beyond the tragedy, there are powerful lessons we all need to take seriously—whether we’re content creators, city residents, or everyday social media users.

In a world of non-stop notifications and video content, it’s easy to lose focus on where we’re walking. Arina’s accident happened while she was filming herself—a common activity for influencers and everyday people alike. The takeaway? Situational awareness is key. No matter how familiar a place seems, accidents can happen in a split second.

We get it—content is king. But it should never come at the cost of personal safety. This tragedy reminds us that the perfect TikTok or Instagram reel isn’t worth risking serious injury—or worse. Pause. Look around. And film safely.

The spot where Arina fell featured a 30cm (knee-high) wall without a railing—an outdated Soviet-era design. Unfortunately, that’s not uncommon in many cities around the world. Municipalities must rethink infrastructure with modern safety standards. Something as simple as a guardrail could save lives.


"There are lots of video of this tragic of Arina appeared on social media posts.  Just use the keyword like "arina glazunova death", all video lists will comes out.  I will not upload any of the videos here. Its too graphic which some people feel so disturbing"

Have you ever walked by a place and thought, “This seems dangerous”? Speak up. Cities should encourage residents to report hazards, and officials must listen. Transparency and action go a long way in making urban areas safer for everyone. Influencers have massive reach—and responsibility. Imagine if content creators started adding “safety first” messages to their posts or showed how they prep safe filming spots. Those little reminders could have a big impact on impressionable followers.

It’s easy to move on after the headlines fade. But real honor comes through action. Arina’s death should inspire governments to improve infrastructure and creators to prioritize safety. Tragedies are painful—but they don’t have to be pointless.

What Next
The loss of Arina Glazunova is deeply saddening. Yet, from her story, we are reminded of a bigger truth: in our hyper-digital age, mindfulness matters more than ever. Let’s stay alert, advocate for safer spaces, and remind ourselves that no viral moment is worth more than our lives.


If this story moved you, share it to raise awareness.
Remind others that no post, no reel, and no content is worth more than life itself.


Speak up about unsafe public spaces

Join the conversation in the comments:

What steps can we take to make our cities and our content safer?


A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

BALI Do you know about "Nasi Kucing"? Have you ever heard of this delicious and traditional food from Jogjakarta, Central Java, Indonesia? I’ve visited Jogjakarta twice, and my most recent visit was in early November 2010, during the Merapi eruption.This brings back memories of Bali, a place I’ve visited ten times. I was lucky enough to enjoy "Nasi Jinggo" there.


Unlike Nasi Kucing, which is famous for its tasty flavor and simple recipe, Nasi Jinggo in Bali has its own unique charm. I could easily find it while I was staying at POP! Hotel Harris, located on Jalan Teuku Umar, Denpasar, Bali, during my visit in April 2011. The hotel is not far from Ngurah Rai International Airport—it takes about 25 minutes to reach the hotel from the airport.

The first thing that catches your attention when you see Nasi Jinggo is its appearance, which closely resembles the shape of a hat. What do I mean by that? Well, just look at the outside of the wrapped Nasi Jinggo. What comes to your mind? Doesn’t it look like a small hat? Yes, exactly! Its presentation is quite unique and charming, don’t you think?

ITS ME WITH NASI JINGGO: In Jogjakarta, there is Nasi Kucing, while in Bali, there is a dish called Nasi Jinggo. The side dishes typically include shredded fish, pieces of egg, noodles, and spicy sambal ulek, which is one of its signature characteristics
.Photo by Syahrir Badulu / Champion from Makassar




Small and Cheap
While staying at the hotel, I explored the area around Jalan Teuku Umar and discovered that it’s filled with local food stalls and cellular phone shops on nearly every corner of the street. Some people told me that you can find many types of cellphones in this area at competitive prices. At the time,

I was actually planning to buy a small cellphone, but in the end, I didn’t go through with it—though I’m sure I could have found a great deal there. Let me give you a quick description of POP! Hotel Harris on Jalan Teuku Umar, Denpasar,



"Nasi Jinggo (sometimes spelled Jenggo) is a rice-based meal wrapped in banana leaves, typically served in small portions. It’s commonly sold by street vendors, especially in Denpasar, Pasar Badung, Pasar Kumbasari, and near temples or busy street corners in Bali.Each portion usually contains:A small scoop of rice,A piece of tempeh or noodles,A slice of egg (boiled or omelet-style),A bit of shredded chicken or fried tuna. And most importantly, a generous serving of sambal ulek (crushed chili paste).Some variations may include fried peanuts, serundeng (grated coconut with spices), or beef floss (abon sapi) depending on the vendor.".


Bali. This hotel offers friendly and warm service for guests from all across Indonesia and around the world. One of my Balinese friends told me that the hotel is also known for serving Nasi Jinggo as part of their breakfast menu. Interestingly,


A video of Pop Harris Hotel in Teuku Umar, BALI. Indonesia
Video edited by me. I spoke Indonesian. I am sorry
All Right Reserved video by Asep Haryono

A short video of my room during the KangGURU Consultative Group event discussing the JOEY program in Bali on April 12, 2011. I shared the room at Pop Harris with Syahrir Badulu, a Master Trainer from Makassar. It was quite tidy, nice, and had funky colors. However, the room felt a bit cramped for my taste, and unfortunately, there was no laundry service. Still, Pop Harris is a really cool and relaxing place. If you ever visit Bali, it's up to you whether you want to stay at Pop Harris. Cheersssssss!


I didn’t notice this food while I was driving from Ngurah Rai Airport to the hotel. I even recorded a short video at the hotel on April 11, 2011, during my stay there with six other Kang Guru Indonesia champions. We were attending a small presentation and workshop organized by Kang Guru Indonesia, in collaboration with the Indonesia Australia Language Foundation (I/A/L/F) and funded by the Australian Government


The concept of the hotel is designed to provide the best service for budget travelers, just like myself. It offers modern hotel facilities with several free amenities for those enjoying their vacation in a simple, modest, and affordable way. It’s a smart and eco-friendly type of hotel. Even with a small budget, you can stay here comfortably at an affordable price.

I stayed at this hotel in April 2011 with my companion, Mr. Syahrir Badulu from Makassar, South Sulawesi. During my stay, I discovered many convenient services offered by the hotel. For example, they provided free internet access in the hotel lobby, and guests were given a password upon check-in.

One of the details I really appreciated was the high-quality linen—100% cotton. The white blanket provided in the room was both warm and soft, making it very comfortable to sleep with. I liked it a lot!


Its me at the reception desk at Pop Harris Hotel in Bali. The photo taken about 2011. Its not good picture I guess but at least this a proove right




More Excellent Services

The hotel also offers several other excellent services and amenities. These include rooms with king-sized beds, a safe deposit box with a key code, a wonderful bathroom, cable TV, and CCTV security throughout the hotel. You can even enjoy massage services and a food outlet on-site.

One unique feature I found inside the room was the third bed, which reminded me of a “bangsal” (hospital-style bed). It had a black leather design, which was quite unusual and interesting to see in a hotel room.

 Free Nasi Jinggo
Now it’s time to share my personal experience with Nasi Jinggo, one of the best services offered by POP! Hotel Harris. This food was free of charge and part of the hotel’s facilities for visitors. You simply step out of your room and head to the “Quick Bite” area located in the hotel lobby, where many guests gather to enjoy this simple yet tasty meal.

I took some photos of the Nasi Jinggo with my own digital camera, and they are already displayed here (or on my blog, depending on where you post this).

A friend of mine, Gung Dwinta, a young Balinese woman originally from Bali, confirmed over the phone that Nasi Jinggo is very affordable and can also be found easily around Pasar Badung and Pasar Kumbasari in Denpasar.

I Gede Suparta, a taxi driver, told me that Nasi Jinggo is very cheap and can be enjoyed by people of all ages without worrying about the ingredients used. I found that the contents of Nasi Jinggo are very common and can be found all across Indonesia—such as noodles, fish, tempeh, and some local recipes.

If you eat Nasi Kucing anywhere in the heart of Jogjakarta, you will certainly get “lauk pauk” (side dishes in English). I think the typical menu includes ikan teri (small dried anchovies), tempeh, abon sapi (shredded dried beef), and of course, hot chili.

The size of Nasi Kucing is quite small, so small it’s considered fit to feed a cat—hence the name Nasi Kucing or in Javanese called “Sego Kucing.” On the other hand, when you eat Nasi Jinggo, the menu is a bit different. It usually includes a small slice of steamed egg, a little fish, and chicken. The fish might be tuna or something similar. It really tastes good.

One common characteristic of Nasi Jinggo is that it is “pedas” or spicy. Most Nasi Jinggo comes with chili, so you will definitely need some cool water to soothe your mouth after eating it. Remember, you usually only take Nasi Jinggo once a day, especially at breakfast time. Need more? Just go outside the hotel and find them easily.

Have You Tried Nasi Jinggo or Nasi Kucing?

If you've ever tasted Nasi Jinggo in Bali or Nasi Kucing in Jogjakarta, I’d love to hear about your experience! How did it taste? Which one do you prefer?

✅ Leave a comment below and share your food story with me. .


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