Why I Don’t Use Comment Moderation on My Blog

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Last update : September 1st, 2025 : 20.10 PM

"Your comments will be visible after approval." No offense, please this message never really applies to my blog. Comments usually show up right away, unless someone uses offensive or inappropriate language.

Sometimes, when I’m leaving a comment on someone else’s blog, I write it from the bottom of my heart and hope it’ll appear instantly. When it does, it feels amazing like I’m floating in heaven! I feel proud knowing that my words are out there, ready to be seen and read by anyone in the world.

Why I Don’t Use Comment Moderation on My Blog
I’ve noticed that many Indonesian and international bloggers like to set their blogs to "moderate mode." This means all comments written by their readers must first be verified and approved by the blog owner before being published.

This is a good way to prevent harsh messages or rude comments that might disturb or offend the blog owner or other readers. That’s perfectly fine it’s your blog, your rules, and I fully respect that.

Comment moderation is an optional feature that any blogger, regardless of where they’re from, can choose to use. Is it wrong for a blogger to filter or review comments before they appear on their site? Absolutely not. Bloggers, whether Indonesian or from anywhere else in the world, are in full control of their blogs and that includes the comments section.

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As I mentioned earlier, bloggers can choose to publish comments immediately or review them first. It’s up to them to decide when they feel comfortable and safe doing so. Once they are, the comments can be shared publicly for the world to see. Again, I respect your decision to use moderation you are responsible for your blog, and you take care of it in your own way.

Now, I ask you to respect my decision not to use moderation on my blog.

Freedom of Speech
When I come across a rude or harsh comment on one of my blog posts, I simply delete it. This also applies to comments that include product links, obscene material, or pornographic content. Why? Because those aren’t opinions they’re spam or offensive material.

So, what kind of comments do I consider genuine opinions?

It’s simple. Even if a reader criticizes my article, I welcome that. That’s freedom of speech. Sure, it can be painful to be criticized by someone you don’t even know, especially in front of other readers. But I try to focus on the positive side of their thoughts. Their comments are not an attack on my personality or reputation they are expressing ideas, suggestions, and criticisms, and I always respect that.

The only time comments become a problem for me is when they include offensive or inappropriate language, sarcasm used to belittle, or hateful opinions without any clear reasoning. While readers have the right to share their thoughts, freedom of speech does not mean freedom to offend without consequence. If criticism is constructive even if it hurts I can take it and accept it.

I respect your ideas, suggestions, and even your frustrations. Like I said before, the only comments I have a problem with are those filled with offensive language, hatred, or sarcasm with no purpose other than to attack. That’s not the kind of dialogue that I want on my blog.

Drop a comment (yes, unmoderated!) and let’s chat about how you handle feedback on your blog. Just keep it respectful freedom of speech, not freedom to be rude.


Do Blog Comments Really Drive Traffic?
You might have heard that leaving comments on other blogs or even replying to your own blog visitors can magically boost your traffic. But is it really essential? Let’s break it down.

Commenting on Other Blogs
It can definitely help, but it’s not a magic bullet. Here’s why:

The Good Stuff:
• You can get referral traffic if readers click on your name or link. • It’s a great way to network with other bloggers and build your credibility. • Being active in your niche shows Google and others that you’re serious about your blog.

The Not-So-Good Stuff:
• Many comment links are “nofollow,” meaning they don’t pass SEO authority. • Commenting just for the sake of dropping links can hurt your reputation.


Pro Tip: Leave valuable, thoughtful comments that actually add to the conversation. If your comment is helpful or interesting, people are much more likely to check out your blog.


Replying to Comments on Your Own Blog
Don’t underestimate the power of engaging with your own readers.

Why It’s Awesome:
• Builds a sense of community around your blog. • Encourages repeat visits and keeps people coming back. • Shows Google that your site is active, which can indirectly help with SEO.

Things to Watch Out For:
• It takes time, especially if your blog gets popular. • Generic or spammy replies can actually backfire.


The Bottom Line
Is commenting essential? Not really. But it does help in several ways: • Building relationships in your niche • Increasing engagement on your own blog • Bringing some referral traffic

The secret is simple: quality over quantity. A few meaningful comments are far more effective than dozens of generic ones.

How to Comment Strategically to Boost Traffic

If you want to get the most out of blog comments without wasting time here’s a simple strategy:

1. Focus on Blogs in Your Niche Don’t just comment anywhere. Pick blogs that are related to your topic. People reading those blogs are more likely to care about your content and click through to your blog. 

2. Add Real Value Instead of writing “Great post!” or “Thanks for sharing,” leave comments that add insights, ask thoughtful questions, or share a personal experience. Valuable comments get noticed. 

3. Be Consistent, Not Spammy A few meaningful comments each week beat dozens of generic ones. Regular participation helps build recognition and trust in your niche community. 

4. Reply to Everyone Who Comments on Your Blog Even a simple thank-you or thoughtful response keeps readers engaged and encourages repeat visits. It also signals to search engines that your blog is active and interactive. 

5. Include a Natural Link Only When Relevant If it makes sense, you can include a link to a related post on your blog. But don’t force it spammy links will turn readers away faster than they’ll click. 

6. Observe and Learn Watch which types of comments generate clicks or replies. Over time, you’ll notice patterns that help you focus on what actually works.

By combining thoughtful commenting with genuine engagement on your own blog, you can grow your traffic, build a community, and strengthen your online presence all without wasting time. 

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