Tag : Teknik Blogging - Asep Haryono | Why Blogger Followers Don’t See Your Posts (and How to Fix It) - Powered by Blogger

One of the most common frustrations bloggers face is when readers say, “I follow your blog, but I don’t see your new posts in my feed!”

Recently, one of my international fellow bloggers, Ananka from Scotland, kindly left me a comment saying that even though she had followed my blog, my posts weren’t showing up in her Blogger Reading List. A few weeks earlier, another reader from Poland had the same problem. Interestingly, readers from other countries like Indonesia, the U.S., or Asia never complained about this.

So, what’s going on? Let’s talk about the possible reasons and some simple fixes you (or your readers) can try.

Possible Causes

1. Feed Settings in Blogger First, the issue could be on my side as the blog owner. Blogger has a section in the dashboard called Settings → Site feed. If the option Allow Blog Feed is set to None, then new posts will not appear in the feeds of followers. To make sure everyone sees updates, it should be set to Full (or at least Until Jump Break). 👉 So, as a blog owner, it’s always good to double-check this setting.

2. Reader’s Blogger Account Sync
Sometimes, the problem doesn’t come from the blog at all. Blogger itself may delay or fail to update a reader’s feed due to syncing issues in their account. This can happen if they have too many blogs followed, or if their Blogger Reading List hasn’t refreshed properly. ✅ The fix is simple: ask the reader to unfollow your blog and then follow it again. This refreshes the connection and usually brings the posts back into the feed.

3. Feed URL Issue
Every Blogger site has a feed link. For my blog, it looks like this: 👉 https://simplyasep.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default This is the default RSS/Atom feed. If this link doesn’t work correctly or the reader is using an old link, then updates won’t appear. Anyone can test the feed by simply opening it in a browser or feed reader. If it shows the latest posts, then the feed is fine.

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4. HTTPS Redirects
Blogger now automatically uses HTTPS for all blogs. However, if a reader followed your blog years ago when it was still using http://, their feed reader may still be pointing to the outdated version.

This can create a small “disconnect,” making new posts invisible.

Again, the best solution is to unfollow and re-follow the blog so the feed updates with the correct HTTPS link.


5. Third-Party Reader Limits
Not every follower uses Blogger’s built-in Reading List. Some prefer third-party apps like Feedly, Inoreader, or other RSS readers.

The problem? Many of these apps cache feeds, meaning they don’t always refresh instantly. If the cache is slow or stuck, readers may think posts are missing even when they are actually published.

So, if a follower is using an outside reader, the issue may not be Blogger at all, but the app they are using.

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6. Regional Caching
This one is rare but possible. Blogger’s servers sometimes cache content differently depending on the reader’s location. For example, a follower in Poland or Scotland might see posts a little later than someone in Indonesia or the U.S. This delay can make it seem like the blog isn’t updating, when in fact the system is just slow in that region.


Quick Fixes to Try
If you are a blogger experiencing the same issue with your readers, here are some quick and practical tips: 

1. Check Your Feed Settings Make sure Allow Blog Feed is not set to None. Choose Full or at least Until Jump Break so your readers get updates. 

2. Share Your Direct Feed Link Don’t rely only on the “Follow” button. Give your readers the direct feed URL: 👉 https://simplyasep.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default They can manually add it to their feed reader if needed. 

3. Ask Readers to Refresh Suggest that readers unfollow and follow again. This works most of the time, especially if they originally followed using an old http:// link. 

4. Encourage Different Feed Readers If the Blogger Reading List isn’t working, readers can try another app like Feedly. This ensures they won’t miss any posts. 

5. Be Patient with Regional Delays If only one or two readers are affected while others have no issue, the problem could simply be regional caching. Usually, this clears up on its own.

My Own Experience
As a blogger, I found it interesting that most of my readers around the world whether from Asia, America, or Africa never complained about missing posts. But in some rare cases, like Ananka from Scotland or a reader from Poland, the issue came up.

This shows that sometimes the problem isn’t with the blog itself but with the reader’s account, settings, or app. Still, it’s always good to check from our side to make sure we haven’t accidentally disabled the feed.


Summary
Blogging is about connection, and we want our readers to enjoy our updates without hassle. If a reader can’t see your posts in their feed, don’t panic—it’s usually a simple fix.

• Check your feed settings.

• Share the direct feed URL.

• Suggest readers unfollow/refollow.

By keeping things simple and friendly, you can help your readers stay connected and never miss your latest updates.

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Tag : Keseharian, Travelling - Asep Haryono | A Stroll Through Bandung: City of Flowers and Creativity - Powered by Blogger

Has anyone here been to Bandung? Are you currently studying or working there? Or maybe you’re planning a trip to Bandung, West Java, Indonesia?

The answers will surely vary, but let me share my own story at the opening of this article. I had a memorable experience when I visited Bandung in 2015 as part of the Indonesian delegation attending the International Youth Conference (IYC) from September 28 to October 1, 2015.

It’s been quite a while, but the memories remain fresh Bandung’s friendly people, its delicious culinary delights, and the city’s natural beauty are truly unforgettable. Although I only spent two days there (we stayed at the Savoy Homann Bidakara Hotel, Sejati at the time), I still cherish those moments. I’ve also included some photos in this article.

Standing at the fence that says "Tangkuban Perahu Mountain Nature Tourism Park - Bandung, West Java." Just to prove I've been to Bandung.
This photo was taken in October 2019.

If I had to choose between blending with locals or foreign tourists, I’d say I definitely enjoy spending time with visitors from other countries. When I arrived in the Puncak area, the first thing on the agenda was a meal. I was joined by a group of tourists from Romania. The lady on the far right in the photo is Roluca Voicu, whom I had a little crush on her during that dinner. LoL. The photo was taken back in October 2009.

If you ask Indonesians where they escape to when city life feels too heavy, chances are many will say: Bandung. Nestled in the highlands of West Java, Bandung has long been a weekend getaway for people from Jakarta and beyond. But this city isn’t just a short escape it’s a place where history, culture, and creativity blend beautifully. No wonder it’s known as the Kota Kembang, or “City of Flowers.”

Let’s take a stroll through Bandung together and see why this city continues to charm both locals and international travelers.

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A City That Breathes Easy
First thing you’ll notice in Bandung? The air. It’s cooler, fresher, and just feels easier to breathe compared to Jakarta’s heat. Sitting about 768 meters above sea level, the city is surrounded by green hills and volcanic mountains. Morning walks come with misty views, and evenings invite you to relax with a warm cup of tea.

But the real warmth comes from its people. Bandung residents are famously friendly and welcoming. Street vendors often greet you with a smile, and young locals are eager to share their city with visitors. Don’t be surprised if someone casually switches to English just to make you feel at home.

Where History Meets Hip
Walking around Bandung feels like flipping through a photo album. One page takes you to the past with colonial buildings and art deco architecture, especially along Jalan Braga. Once the hangout spot for Dutch elites, Braga is still alive today with cozy cafés, old bookstores, and colorful street art.

Turn another page and you’ll find yourself in the middle of Bandung’s creative buzz. This city is Indonesia’s fashion capital, with countless factory outlets and independent boutiques. Local designers love experimenting here, making Bandung a trendsetter for affordable yet stylish clothing. It’s a rare city where history and modern creativity live side by side and somehow, it works perfectly.

A Food Lover’s Playground
Now, let’s talk about food (because who can resist?). Bandung’s culinary scene is legendary. From traditional Sundanese dishes to quirky street snacks, the city never lets your taste buds get bored.

Want to eat like a local? Try nasi timbel, rice wrapped in banana leaves and served with fried chicken, tofu, and spicy sambal. If you’re more into snacks, batagor (fried fish dumplings with peanut sauce) is a must. And for dessert? Grab some pisang molen (crispy banana pastry) or colenak (fermented cassava with coconut sugar sauce).

Of course, Bandung is also famous for its café culture. Trendy coffee shops pop up everywhere some tucked into old houses, others perched on hillsides with sweeping views of tea plantations or twinkling city lights. Perfect spots to sip coffee, snap photos, and soak in the city’s creative vibe.

Nature Just Around the Corner
One of Bandung’s biggest charms is how close it is to nature. Drive a little north and you’ll reach Tangkuban Perahu, a volcanic crater wrapped in myths and legends. Head south and you’ll find Kawah Putih, a surreal turquoise crater lake that looks like it belongs on another planet.

Even inside the city, Bandung keeps nature close. Parks like Taman Balai Kota and Taman Film are popular with locals, while tree-lined streets remind you why the city earned the nickname “City of Flowers.”

A City of Young Minds and Bright Ideas
Bandung is more than just a pretty face it’s also a city of brains and creativity. With top universities like the Bandung Institute of Technology (ITB), the city is packed with young talents in art, design, and engineering. Their energy spills into everyday life, fueling startups, local brands, and cultural movements. In fact, UNESCO has recognized Bandung as part of its Creative Cities Network for design.

That mix of youthful innovation and cultural heritage is what keeps Bandung always fresh, always evolving.


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Why Bandung Never Gets Old
So why does Bandung remain such a timeless destination? Maybe it’s the way history and modern life blend so effortlessly. Maybe it’s the mix of cool weather, friendly people, creative spirit, and delicious food. Or maybe it’s just the feeling you get when you stroll through its streets that sense of being in a city that’s always alive, always blooming.

For international travelers, Bandung is more than just another stop in Indonesia. It’s a city with stories to tell, flavors to share, and beauty to show. Whether you’re here for a weekend or a week, Bandung has a way of staying with you long after you’ve left.

Hey my friends

“Planning a trip to Indonesia? Don’t miss Bandung a city where history, creativity, and nature come together. Share this story with fellow travelers and start adding Bandung to your bucket list!”.

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Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | Supporting Israel Doesn’t Mean Supporting the Flattening of Gaza - Powered by Blogger

Last Update : Sept 29th, 2025 : 08.36 PM


When people say they support Israel, it doesn’t always mean they agree with every action taken by its government or military. For many, supporting Israel is about recognizing its right to exist, protecting its citizens, and respecting its history and culture. But this support should not be confused with approving the destruction of Gaza or the suffering of ordinary Palestinians.

The truth is, two things can be right at the same time. Israel does face real security threats, and no country can ignore rocket fire or terrorism against its people. At the same time, Gaza is home to millions of civilians, many of whom are children, and their safety matters too. Flattening neighborhoods and causing large-scale displacement or casualties does not bring peace it only deepens the cycle of anger and violence.

Supporting Israel’s right to defend itself should also mean calling for responsibility and restraint. International law makes it clear that civilians must be protected during conflicts. Acknowledging the fear and pain experienced by Israeli families should not mean turning away from the suffering of Palestinian families.

Real support for Israel, in fact, could mean encouraging policies that aim for long-term peace instead of short-term retaliation. Standing against terrorism and violence is consistent with rejecting collective punishment. If the goal is lasting security, then justice and dignity for both sides have to be part of the equation.

In other words, supporting Israel does not have to mean supporting the flattening of Gaza. True solidarity is about promoting a future where both Israelis and Palestinians can live safely and peacefully side by side.

My friends..

When we hear about the conflict between Israel and Palestine, people often think you must choose one side only. Either you are “pro-Israel” or “pro-Palestine.” But in reality, things are not that black and white. You can support Israel’s right to exist and defend itself without agreeing with the destruction happening in Gaza.

This is not a contradiction. It’s simply saying: every country has the right to protect its people, but no country has the right to harm innocent civilians on a massive scale.

Two Different Things
Supporting Israel usually means saying: First,Israel has the right to exist as a country. Second, Israel has the right to protect its people from attacks.

But here’s the key: supporting those rights does not mean agreeing with every military action the government takes. Flattening whole neighborhoods in Gaza, destroying hospitals and schools, and pushing people out of their homes is not the same as “defense.” It goes much further than that.

You can love a country or stand with its people, but still criticize its leaders. Think of it this way: many Americans love their country but openly criticize their government when it does something wrong. The same logic applies here.

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The Rules of War
Even in war, there are rules. International law also called the “laws of war” is designed to protect civilians. Two big rules are: First,Distinction: Soldiers must always separate fighters from civilians. You can’t treat everyone as a target. Second; Proportionality: If an attack is going to harm civilians, the harm must not be excessive compared to the military goal.

When bombs fall on crowded areas, or when electricity, food, and water are cut off for millions of people, it’s not just about security anymore. It becomes a humanitarian disaster. These rules exist because, without them, war becomes unlimited destruction.

What Human Rights Groups Say
Many international organizations have raised concerns about Gaza. Reports by Amnesty International, Human Rights Watch, and the United Nations describe things like:

• Families forced to leave their homes with nowhere safe to go.

 

• Hospitals and schools damaged or destroyed.

 

• Lack of clean water, food, and medical supplies for ordinary people.

These reports don’t deny Israel’s right to defend itself. Instead, they say: the way Israel is using force is causing massive civilian suffering, and that’s not acceptable.

Even some Israeli citizens and Jewish groups worldwide have voiced similar concerns. They say, “We support Israel, but we cannot support destroying Gaza like this.”

Why This Matters
There are three main reasons why separating support for Israel from support for flattening Gaza is important:

1. Humanitarian reasons: War should never mean endless suffering for innocent families. Children, women, and ordinary people who have nothing to do with the fighting should not carry the heaviest burden.

 

2. Security reasons: Destroying Gaza might give short-term control, but in the long run, it fuels anger and radicalization. Instead of peace, it creates more enemies and more violence in the future.

 

3. Moral and legal reasons: Supporting a nation does not mean turning a blind eye to actions that break international law or cross moral lines. True friends also speak up when something is wrong.

 

A Balanced Way to Say It
If you want to explain this balanced position, here are some simple and casual ways to put it:

• “I support Israel’s right to defend itself, but I don’t support bombing civilians.” • “I believe in Israel’s security and also in Palestinian safety.” • “Yes to Israel’s existence, no to flattening Gaza.”

These statements are short, clear, and avoid making you sound extreme. They show you are not against Israel as a country, but you are also not okay with harming innocent people.


What Support Could Look Like
Supporting Israel in a constructive way doesn’t mean cheering every military move. It can mean:

• Calling for humanitarian aid: food, medicine, and clean water should reach civilians in Gaza.

 

• Asking for investigations when international rules are broken.

 

• Backing peace talks instead of destruction.

 

• Supporting civil society groups both Israeli and Palestinian who are working for peace, justice, and coexistence.

This way, your support is real but also responsible.


A Small Q&A

Q: If I criticize Israel’s actions in Gaza, does it mean I’m anti-Israel? No. Criticizing government policies is not the same as rejecting a country’s right to exist. Many Israelis themselves criticize their own leaders.

Q: Does supporting Israel mean ignoring Palestinian suffering? It shouldn’t. Supporting one side’s security does not mean you must accept the other side’s suffering. Both peoples deserve dignity and safety.

Q: Isn’t war always ugly? Why expect rules? War is ugly, yes. But that’s exactly why rules exist. They don’t stop all harm, but they prevent total chaos and give civilians some protection

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A Lesson Beyond Gaza
This idea is not only about Israel and Gaza. It applies to many other conflicts around the world. Supporting a country doesn’t mean you must agree with everything its leaders or army do.

For example, people can support Ukraine’s right to defend itself but still criticize certain tactics used during the war. People can love their own nation but oppose when their government goes too far.

This principle is evergreen because wars and conflicts will always raise this same question: how do we support a nation without excusing unnecessary harm?


Summary
It is possible to support Israel and care about Palestinians at the same time. You can believe in Israel’s security and still say the flattening of Gaza is wrong.

In fact, this balanced view is the only way to move toward real peace. Supporting Israel doesn’t mean supporting destruction. It means wanting a future where both Israelis and Palestinians can live in dignity, security, and hope.

What do you think? Can we support Israel’s security while still standing up for Palestinian civilians? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian, Wisata Kuliner - Asep Haryono | A Vegan Food Adventure in Indonesia: Flavor, Culture, and Creativity - Powered by Blogger

I would like to thank Miss Ananka from Scotland, who asked a question in my previous article titled “What Foreign Visitors Should Know Before Traveling to Indonesia.” She wrote in the comment box under the article: “Is there a good selection of vegan food in Indonesia?” That’s a great question, and I think it deserves a special article dedicated to her.

If you’re curious about vegan food in Indonesia, you’re in for a treat. Known for its rich culinary traditions, diverse regional flavors, and world-famous hospitality, Indonesia has a lot to offer anyone exploring plant-based living. Whether you’re a lifelong vegan, just testing the waters, or simply love good food, the country has plenty of options to keep your taste buds happy. The best part? Veganism here blends tradition with innovation, making every meal a cultural experience as well as a culinary one.

Why Indonesia is a Vegan-Friendly Destination

1. A Strong Plant-Based Foundation
Indonesia’s cuisine has always celebrated plants. Staples like tofu and tempeh both made from soybeans are deeply woven into daily meals. In fact, tempeh originated in Indonesia, and it’s often fresher and more affordable here than anywhere else in the world. Add in the country’s abundant tropical vegetables, fruits, and spices, and you’ll realize that many dishes are naturally vegan or just a small adjustment away.

Classic examples include:

• Gado-gado: A hearty salad with vegetables, tofu, tempeh, and peanut sauce (just ask for no boiled egg).

 

• Sayur asem: A tangy tamarind-based vegetable soup. • Urap: Steamed vegetables mixed with grated coconut and herbs.

 

• Ketoprak: A popular street food of rice cake, tofu, vegetables, and peanut sauce.

 2. A Growing Vegan Scene
Bali is currently the crown jewel of Indonesia’s vegan movement. In hotspots like Ubud and Canggu, you’ll find smoothie bowls, cold-pressed juices, raw desserts, and creative plant-based fusion dishes that rival any global foodie destination. Meanwhile, Jakarta is catching up fast. Vegan-friendly restaurant chains such as Burgreens and innovative local brands like Green Rebel are making plant-based dining more mainstream. Even in smaller cities like Bandung or Yogyakarta, vegan cafés and community-driven eateries are popping up.

3. Access to Vegan Products
Big supermarkets and online stores are now stocking everything from non-dairy milk and mock meats to vegan snacks and frozen foods. Brands like Meatless Kingdom are producing affordable, locally made vegan “meats” inspired by Indonesian flavors. While imported specialty items like vegan cheese or superfoods can be pricey, local staples tempeh, tofu, vegetables, rice, and tropical fruits are incredibly budget-friendly.

Capcai can be vegan, but not always. It depends on how it’s cooked: Vegan-friendly version: Just vegetables (carrot, cauliflower, cabbage, broccoli, baby corn, mushroom, etc.) stir-fried with garlic, a little soy sauce, and vegetable oil. If tofu or tempeh is added, it’s still vegan.So, if someone is vegan, they just need to ask for capcai without meat, seafood, oyster sauce, or animal broth. In Indonesia, it’s easy to find or request this because vegetables are the main star of the dish.

4. Cultural Advantage
Indonesia is home to many communities with traditions of vegetarian or plant-heavy eating. For example, Javanese cuisine often emphasizes vegetables and tempeh. Many dishes can easily be made vegan by asking to leave out fish sauce, shrimp paste, or egg. With a little awareness and curiosity, you’ll discover that veganism here is not just a trend it’s part of the local food culture.

The Challenges of Eating Vegan in Indonesia

While vegan food is widely available, there are still some challenges:

1. Higher Cost for Imported Products
Western-style vegan items such as plant-based cheese, nutritional yeast, or almond butter tend to be expensive. If you stick with local produce, you’ll save money without sacrificing nutrition or taste.

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2. Limited Options Outside Major Cities
Smaller towns or rural areas may not have specialized vegan restaurants. Traditional warungs (small eateries) are great for local vegan dishes, but you may need to clarify ingredients.

3. Hidden Animal Products
Dishes labeled as “vegetarian” sometimes still use fish sauce, shrimp paste (called terasi), or chicken broth. Asking questions helps avoid surprises. Useful phrases include:

• Tanpa telur = without egg • Tanpa susu = without milk • Tanpa ikan/ayam = without fish/chicken

4. Inconsistent Labeling
Not all packaged foods are clearly labeled as vegan. Certifications exist, but they’re still not widespread. Reading ingredient lists or asking staff is the safest approach.


Tips for a Smooth Vegan Journey in Indonesia

• Stick to urban centers and tourist areas like Bali, Jakarta, or Yogyakarta for more options.

• Use apps like HappyCow or join local vegan Facebook groups to find restaurants. • Shop at traditional markets for fresh vegetables, tempeh, tofu, and tropical fruits it’s cheap, fun, and healthy. 

• Learn a few key phrases in Bahasa Indonesia to communicate your needs clearly. Locals will appreciate the effort. 

• Be adventurous and try traditional foods. Many Indonesian dishes are vegan-friendly or can be adjusted easily.

 

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Why Veganism is Growing in Indonesia
Veganism isn’t just a passing fad here. Awareness about health, sustainability, and animal welfare is growing. Local entrepreneurs are innovating with plant-based products, while vegan festivals and communities are introducing more people to the lifestyle. The younger generation, especially in cities, is embracing veganism as part of a modern, eco-conscious lifestyle.

Summary

Vegan food in Indonesia is both an adventure and a comfort. On one hand, you’ll get to explore bold local flavors rooted in tradition dishes like gado-gado, urap, and sayur asem. On the other, you can enjoy creative vegan cafés, Instagram-worthy smoothie bowls, and innovative plant-based products. While challenges like hidden animal products or pricey imports remain, the overall experience is exciting, flavorful, and often surprisingly affordable.

So whether you’re backpacking in Bali, working in Jakarta, or exploring off-the-beaten-path islands, there’s always a way to enjoy delicious vegan food in Indonesia. Just come with an open mind, a little curiosity, and maybe a few words of Bahasa up your sleeve you won’t go hungry

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Tag : Opinion - Asep Haryono | Charlie Kirk's Assassination: Spreading Hate Is Not a Different Opinion - Powered by Blogger

On January 7, 2015, the French satirical magazine Charlie Hebdo was brutally attacked by two hooded gunmen who stormed its office in Paris. The attackers, shouting “We have avenged the Prophet Muhammad,” opened fire during the magazine’s editorial meeting, killing 12 people including prominent cartoonists, staff members, and two police officers.

The magazine had repeatedly published caricatures of the Prophet Muhammad, which many Muslims considered deeply offensive. These publications had drawn threats in the past.

Freedom of speech is vital in any democracy, but it comes with responsibility. Western media often defends publishing Prophet Muhammad cartoons as “free speech,” yet for many Muslims, this feels like mockery of their sacred beliefs. While nothing can justify the horrific violence of the Charlie Hebdo attack, it’s also true that speech should not be used carelessly to insult faiths. Free expression and respect must go hand in hand otherwise, dialogue turns into division.ABC. The attack was widely condemned as a terrorist act and became a major flashpoint in debates over free speech, religion, and the limits of satire.

Another killing happened again.

Charlie Kirk was killed (fatally shot) on September 10, 2025 at Utah Valley University in Orem, Utah, during a Turning Point USA event.

The shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk has left the political world shaken and sparked a heated debate about free speech, hate speech, and the growing dangers of polarization in America. Kirk, who co-founded Turning Point USA at just 18 years old, was only 31 when he was shot and killed during a speaking engagement at Utah Valley University in Utah. Known for his strong ties to former President Donald Trump and his influential role in mobilizing young conservatives, Kirk was a figure who drew both passionate support and fierce criticism.

In the aftermath of his death, Arnold Schwarzenegger, the movie star and former California governor, made a statement that struck a chord. Speaking to journalists, he said he could not understand why someone would kill another person simply because their opinions were different. His words highlight a painful truth: violence should never be the answer to disagreement. But his comment also pushes us to think more deeply about what counts as an “opinion” and whether hate speech should ever be framed that way.

Violence Is Never Justified
One point must be clear: violence is never the solution to words. When someone is murdered for what they believe or say, democracy itself is undermined. Debate and disagreement are natural in a free society, but silencing people with bullets destroys the very principles of open dialogue and freedom of expression. The assassination of Charlie Kirk is not just a personal tragedy for his family and supporters it is also a warning sign about the growing dangers of political extremism and intolerance

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Political violence of this kind makes everyone less safe. It pushes people further into their ideological corners and fuels mistrust. If society begins to accept violence as a way to deal with speech, then no one regardless of their politics will be safe.

The Difference Between Opinion and Hate Speech
While we should never condone violence, we also have to be honest about what kind of speech Charlie Kirk often engaged in. There is an important difference between opinion and hate speech.

An opinion is a belief or perspective, even if it’s controversial or unpopular. Opinions can be debated, challenged, or disproven. They leave space for dialogue.

Hate speech is something else entirely. It targets groups of people based on race, religion, ethnicity, gender, or identity. It dehumanizes individuals, spreads fear, and deepens division. Hate speech is not just another point of view it can actively endanger lives by fueling hostility and creating an atmosphere where violence feels justified to some.

Many critics of Kirk argued that he used his platform to promote ideas that marginalized minority groups or portrayed them negatively. Whether one agreed with him or not, it is important not to blur the line between holding a political opinion and spreading prejudice.

The Role of Polarization
America is living through one of its most polarized periods in history. People are increasingly divided along political, cultural, and social lines. Too often, political opponents are no longer seen as fellow citizens with different beliefs but as enemies. This mindset creates a dangerous environment where violence can erupt.

The killing of Charlie Kirk must be seen within this context. It is not only the act of one individual but also a reflection of a toxic climate in which hostility and hatred thrive. When society loses the ability to argue without dehumanizing the other side, tragedies like this become more likely.

The lesson here is urgent: polarization doesn’t just harm political debate; it can lead directly to violence. If citizens, leaders, and communities don’t find ways to rebuild trust and empathy across divides, the cycle will only continue.

The Responsibility of Public Figures and Media
Public figures and media outlets carry enormous responsibility. Their words shape public opinion and can either calm tensions or fan the flames of division. When leaders consistently demonize their opponents, portray them as dangerous or evil, and strip them of humanity, it lowers the threshold for violence. This doesn’t mean that public figures should never criticize or challenge their rivals, but the tone and framing matter

. At the same time, it’s equally dangerous to excuse hate speech as “just an opinion.” Doing so minimizes the harm it causes and allows it to spread unchecked. Responsible media coverage should hold individuals accountable without resorting to sensationalism that further divides communities.

Free Speech With Boundaries
Balancing free speech and the need to prevent hate speech is one of the hardest challenges in any democracy. On one hand, protecting freedom of expression is essential; silencing people for their views erodes democratic values. On the other hand, societies cannot ignore the damage caused when speech crosses into hatred and incitement.

The solution is not easy, but it involves education, strong community dialogue, and laws that draw a clear line between free opinion and dangerous speech that incites violence. The answer to hate speech should be stronger counter-speech, campaigns of empathy, and inclusive narratives not violence.

Conclusion
Charlie Kirk’s assassination is a tragedy that should never have happened. Violence is unacceptable, no matter how offensive someone’s words might be. But we also need to be honest: spreading hate is not the same as expressing a simple opinion. It is harmful, divisive, and, in some cases, dangerous.

The challenge ahead for America and for societies everywhere is to defend free speech while also refusing to normalize hate. If we fail to make that distinction, polarization and violence will only grow.

In the end, the lesson is clear: nobody should be killed for what they say, but we must also stop pretending that hate speech is just another perspective. To keep democracy alive, we must defend both freedom and responsibility.

What do you think? Should hate speech be treated the same way as free opinion, or do we need clearer boundaries? Share your thoughts in the comments and join the conversation on how societies can protect both freedom and respect.

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A Message From Asep Haryono

 

"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"

Tag : Keseharian - Asep Haryono | What Foreign Visitors Should Know Before Traveling to Indonesia - Powered by Blogger

If you’re searching for Indonesia travel tips before your trip, you’re already on the right path. Indonesia isn’t just one destination it’s an entire world of cultures, languages, and traditions spread across more than 17,000 islands. While Bali often steals the spotlight, the real magic of visiting Indonesia is in discovering the diversity of its people and places.

This guide offers practical advice and cultural etiquette to help foreign visitors enjoy their journey and connect more deeply with locals.


1. Unity in Diversity: Indonesia’s Core Identity
Indonesia’s national motto is Bhinneka Tunggal Ika Unity in Diversity. With hundreds of ethnic groups and dialects, every island feels unique. For example:

• Java emphasizes politeness and humility.

 

• Sumatra is known for its bold, expressive energy.

 

• Bali thrives on Hindu traditions and ceremonies.

Travel tip: Don’t assume one city represents the entire country. Keep an open mind, because customs can shift dramatically as you move from one region to another.


2. Smiling Is a Language of Its Own
If you only learn one piece of cultural etiquette in Indonesia, it’s this: smile. Indonesians smile often it can mean welcome, politeness, or simply an effort to keep interactions harmonious. But beware: sometimes a smile is a polite way of saying “no.” If someone seems hesitant, they may be declining without wanting to embarrass you. Patience and warmth go a long way.

Culinary experiences are an inseparable part of travel.

Here, a wide variety of buffet dishes are served. Simply order your favorite menu items from the friendly staff and crew of Rumah Makan Bumbu Desa in BALI around 202, who are always ready to take notes.I ordered Grilled Gurame, Grilled Shrimp, Sayur Asem, Orange Juice, and many more delicious dishes.Photo by Asep Haryono

3. Religion Shapes Daily Life
Indonesia is the world’s largest Muslim-majority nation, but it’s also home to Christians, Hindus, Buddhists, and indigenous beliefs. Religion isn’t just private it influences routines, events, and even traffic patterns.
What to know before traveling to Indonesia:

• Dress modestly at religious sites. • Respect prayer times and ceremonies. • Accept that traditions (like temple rituals in Bali) may temporarily pause traffic or business.

Being mindful of faith earns respect and often opens doors to more meaningful conversations.

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4. Indirect Communication Is the Norm
Direct “yes” or “no” answers aren’t always common. To avoid awkwardness, Indonesians often soften refusals with phrases like:

• “Maybe later.” • “We’ll see.” • Or simply a polite smile.

Foreign visitors should listen for context instead of pushing for blunt answers. Using terima kasih (thank you) generously also helps keep communication smooth.


5. Indonesian Food: More Than Just a Meal
Trying local food is one of the best Indonesia travel experiences. Each region has its specialties, but here are a few things visitors should know:

• Spice levels: Many dishes are fiery. Ask “Pedas?” (spicy?) before ordering.

 

• Eating with hands: In some areas, meals are enjoyed with the right hand only. Don’t worry locals appreciate your effort even if you’re clumsy at first.

 

• Street food: From bakso (meatball soup) to nasi goreng (fried rice), stalls are a must-try. Follow the crowd to find trusted vendors.

Food is more than fuel it’s a way Indonesians show hospitality. Enjoying a meal with locals builds instant connection.


6. Getting Around: Embrace the Chaos
Jakarta traffic is infamous, but once you accept it as part of the adventure, it’s easier to manage. Apps like Grab or Gojek make urban transport easier and safer.

Beyond big cities, trains in Java, domestic flights, and ferries are popular options. Just remember: schedules may shift. Flexibility is key when traveling between islands.

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7. Hospitality and Curiosity
Visitors are often surprised by how friendly Indonesians are. Expect questions like:

• “Where are you from?” • “Are you married?”

These aren’t meant to intrude they’re conversation starters. Hospitality runs deep, and being invited into someone’s home is a genuine honor. If it happens, bringing small gifts like snacks or sweets is appreciated but not mandatory.

8. Saving Face: The Unspoken Rule
In Indonesian culture, avoiding embarrassment whether your own or someone else’s is very important. Public confrontation or criticism is discouraged. If you face an issue, resolve it calmly and privately.

This value, often called saving face, explains why interactions are so polite and why maintaining harmony matters more than being “right.”

9. Learn a Few Words of Bahasa Indonesia
While English is common in tourist areas, knowing a few words of Bahasa Indonesia shows respect and makes everyday interactions smoother. Start with:

• Selamat pagi → Good morning

 

• Terima kasih → Thank you

 

• Berapa harganya? → How much is it?

 

• Tolong → Please / help

Even basic efforts often earn friendlier smiles and sometimes even discounts.


A Personal Note
Having lived in Indonesia, I’ve learned that the true beauty here isn’t only in the beaches, temples, or volcanoes it’s in the people. A simple act, like being offered hot tea on a rainy day or being drawn into a neighborhood celebration, often becomes the memory that lasts longest.

Foreign visitors who approach with respect, patience, and curiosity will leave with more than photos they’ll carry stories of kindness and connection.


Summary
If you’re planning your trip and searching for what to know before traveling to Indonesia, remember this: come prepared not just with luggage, but with an open heart. The country’s diversity, warmth, and traditions are best experienced by those willing to adapt and appreciate local ways.

Pack light, learn a few phrases, and bring your smile. Indonesia is ready to welcome you not just as a tourist, but as part of its extended family.

Have you traveled to Indonesia before, or are you planning your first visit soon? Share your thoughts and questions in the comments I’d love to hear your story!

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Tag : Teknik Blogging - Asep Haryono | Why Google Doesn’t Index All Your Blog Posts (and What to Do About It) - Powered by Blogger

Hello everyone

If you’ve been blogging for a while, you’ve probably faced this situation: you hit “publish,” share your article on social media, and then excitedly check Google a few days later… only to find your post is nowhere to be seen.

You head to Google Search Console, and it shows that your page was crawled but not indexed. Frustrating, right?

Here’s the truth: Google doesn’t index every single page it crawls. In fact, it only adds pages to its index if it thinks they’re useful and valuable enough for searchers. But don’t worry I’m going to walk you through the most common reasons why your blog posts might not be indexed and exactly what you can do about it.

1. Thin or Low-Quality Content
Google is picky. If your post is just a few sentences long, filled with fluff, or doesn’t provide unique value, there’s a high chance it won’t make the cut.
How to fix it:

• Write in-depth posts (at least 600–800 words).
• Add practical examples, tips, or step-by-step instructions.
• Use images, screenshots, or even infographics to make
your content more engaging.
• Think of your article as something readers would want to bookmark or share.

The more helpful and detailed your content is, the more likely Google will index it.

2. Duplicate or Overlapping Content
Sometimes bloggers (especially those with years of posts) cover the same topic multiple times. If Google finds two or three very similar articles on your site, it may choose to index just one or none at all.

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What you can do:
• Combine multiple short or similar posts into one comprehensive guide.
• Use redirects (301) to point old URLs to the new, stronger article.
• Avoid copy-pasting content from other websites.

Think quality over quantity. One strong, well written article is better than three weaker ones.

3. Weak Internal Linking
If Google can’t easily find your new post through links on your own site, it may not consider it important enough to index.

Quick fixes:
• Link to your new post from at least 2–3 older, already indexed articles.
• Use keyword-rich anchor text (e.g., “how to fix indexing issues” instead of “click here”).
• Create a “pillar post” or hub page that connects related posts together.
Internal links help Google’s bots understand which pages matter most on your blog.


4. Lack of External Signals
Google pays attention to how the rest of the internet reacts to your content. If no one shares it, links to it, or engages with it, Google may think it’s not worth indexing.
✅ Boost your signals by:
• Sharing your article on Facebook, LinkedIn, X/Twitter, Pinterest, or Reddit.
• Joining niche forums or communities where your content adds value.
• Reaching out to other bloggers for collaborations or guest posts.

Even one or two backlinks from small, relevant sites can tip the scales in your favor.

5. Technical Issues
Sometimes, the problem isn’t your content at all it’s technical. Things to check:

• Robots.txt: Make sure you’re not accidentally blocking Google.
• Meta tags: Ensure your post doesn’t have a “noindex” tag.
• Mobile-friendly design: Google uses mobile-first indexing, so your page must work well on phones. • Page speed: A slow site can hurt your chances of getting indexed.

Free tools like Google PageSpeed Insights or Mobile-Friendly Test can help you identify problems quickly.

6. Too Many Posts, Not Enough Authority
Here’s a reality check: if your blog has thousands of posts but low domain authority, Google won’t index everything. It tends to prioritize your best, most valuable content.


 What to focus on:

• Put more effort into evergreen, high-quality articles.
• Don’t worry if every single post isn’t indexed focus on the ones that matter most for your niche.
• Over time, as your site grows, more of your posts will naturally get indexed.

7. Not Requesting Indexing
Sometimes, you just need to give Google a little nudge.

How to do it:
• Go to Google Search Console URL Inspection Tool.
• Paste in your post’s URL.
• Click Request Indexing.

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It doesn’t guarantee instant results, but it often speeds things up.


Summarize
When Google doesn’t index all your blog posts, it doesn’t mean your blog is failing. It just means Google is being selective. By improving content quality, avoiding duplicates, strengthening links, fixing technical issues, and building external signals, you can drastically improve your chances of getting more posts indexed.

Remember, indexing is not about quantity it’s about quality. Focus on making your best posts shine, and the rest will follow

.Call to Action:
If you found this guide helpful, share it with fellow bloggers who struggle with indexing. And I’d love to hear from youhave you faced this issue on your own blog? Drop your thoughts and experiences in the comments below

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Tag : Keseharian - Asep Haryono | Iryna Zarutska : What We Can Learn From Shocking Train Tragedy In The US - Powered by Blogger

Last month, tragedy struck on a train in North Carolina. Iryna Zarutska, a refugee from Ukraine, was brutally stabbed to death in what appears to have been a random and senseless attack. A newly released video by the Charlotte Area Transit System shows Iryna seated peacefully when the suspect, 34-year-old Decarlos Brown Jr, suddenly attacked her from behind.

This heartbreaking incident not only highlights the fragility of life but also forces us to reflect on public transportation safety and what lessons we can learn as individuals and as a society.

In order not to violate the copyright of Iryna Zarutska’s image and to respect her family, who are going through difficult times right now, I chose not to use or take any real photos. Instead, I created a simple banner, which is more than enough to express the idea of this article.

Iryna’s story has been widely covered and discussed online. Influencers, commentators, and even politicians have weighed in. Her death has sparked discussions around random violence, passenger security, and how safe or unsafe public transit really is.

Former President Donald Trump has even suggested the deployment of the National Guard in certain cities to crack down on crime, an idea that has received mixed reactions. Regardless of where one stands politically, the underlying concern is clear: people want to feel safe when they step onto a bus, train, or subway.

What Lessons Can We Learn?

1. Public Transportation Safety Is Not Guaranteed While millions of people use trains and buses every day without incident, cases like Iryna’s show that unpredictable violence can strike at any time.

 

2. Awareness of Surroundings Matters Reports noted that Iryna appeared to be wearing earbuds during the attack. While earbuds are great for passing the time, they can make you less aware of your surroundings limiting your ability to notice warning signs or react quickly.

 

3. Random Violence Is Hard to Predict No one could have imagined that such a tragedy would unfold in broad daylight on a train. This reminds us that prevention and vigilance are both key.

 Safety Tips for Public Transportation
Here are some practical steps we can all take to reduce risks while commuting:

• Limit earbud use in public – Avoid wearing both earbuds at once, especially in quieter or less crowded areas. Keep one ear free to stay alert.

 

• Stay aware of surroundings – Pay attention to who is around you and trust your instincts. If someone’s behavior feels suspicious, change seats or move closer to others.

 

• Choose safer spots – Sit near exits or close to the driver/conductor if possible. Criminals are less likely to act where there’s visibility and authority presence.

 

•  Keep valuables hidden – Don’t flash expensive phones, laptops, or jewelry. These can make you a target.

 

• Report unusual behavior – If you see something, say something. Alert authorities, staff, or call emergency services.

 

A Bigger Conversation
Iryna’s tragic death has become part of a larger national conversation. Should there be more security on trains? Should local police or even the National Guard be involved in protecting commuters in high-crime areas? There are no simple answers, but it is clear that public demand for safer streets and transportation systems is growing.

Lesson Learned
The story of Iryna Zarutska is a heartbreaking reminder of the unpredictability of life. It teaches us to value awareness, demand stronger safety measures, and take simple steps to protect ourselves and our loved ones.

Public transportation should be a place of connection and convenience not fear. While we can’t eliminate every risk, we can work toward a safer and more vigilant society.

If this story moved you, share it with friends and family. Let’s spread awareness about public transportation safety and demand stronger protections for everyone who depends on it daily


Iryna Zarutska VS Arina Glazunova

Iryna Zarutska, 23, was fatally stabbed on the city's light rail on Aug. 22. What is the main difference case with Death of Russian Influencer Arina Glazunova. Two Tragedies, Two Lessons: Iryna Zarutska and Arina Glazunova.The world has been shaken by tragic stories of young women whose lives ended far too soon, but for very different reasons.

Iryna Zarutska, 23, a Ukrainian refugee, was fatally stabbed on Charlotte’s light rail train in North Carolina on August 22, 2025. Security footage shows her seated quietly, earbuds in, when she was suddenly attacked from behind in what authorities call a random act of violence.

The suspect, 34-year-old Decarlos Brown Jr., has been charged with first-degree murder. Her death has sparked debates in the U.S. about public transportation safety, urban crime, and even political proposals such as deploying the National Guard to protect commuters. The lesson from Iryna’s story is the urgent need for stronger security measures and personal vigilance when using public transport.

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In contrast, the story of Arina Glazunova, 18, a Russian influencer, unfolded back in 2019. While jogging near St. Petersburg, she collapsed and later died. Initial speculation hinted at foul play, but medical examinations revealed her death was caused by sudden cardiac arrest during exercise. Unlike Iryna’s case, no attacker was involved. Her passing raised awareness about the pressures young influencers face and the importance of monitoring health, even in seemingly healthy youth.

Though both women were young, full of potential, and beloved by their communities, the circumstances surrounding their deaths could not be more different. One was the victim of random urban violence, the other of unexpected health failure.

Together, their stories remind us of life’s unpredictability. From staying alert in public spaces to taking care of our health, the lessons we draw may help us protect ourselves and honor their memories.

The tragic death of Iryna Zarutska on a North Carolina train highlights urgent lessons on public transportation safety and staying alert while commuting. While the Death of Russian Influencer Arina Glazunova spark the urgent to maintain safe public areas.

There’s a unique distinction between the two tragedies that goes beyond the surface:

• Iryna Zarutska’s death underscores the unpredictability of random violence in shared, public spaces like trains. It highlights the need for systemic safety measures (better security, surveillance, law enforcement presence) and personal vigilance (awareness, avoiding distractions such as earbuds).

 

• Arina Glazunova’s death, though not caused by a crime, sparked concern over personal vulnerability in isolated public areas (like jogging routes and parks). Even in the absence of an attacker, the tragedy showed how quickly emergencies can turn fatal when medical help is not nearby.

The unique reason linking both cases is this:
They reveal that public spaces carry hidden risks whether from people or from circumstances. For Zarutska, the threat came from another person; for Glazunova, it was from within her own body. In both situations, being in a public but unprotected environment left them vulnerable. So the deeper lesson is not only about crime or health, but about the fragility of safety in places we often take for granted as “safe enough.” 

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"Thank you so much for your time here. I really appreciate your precious moment here as well.  Please leave any comment down below.  Let me hear from you.  Greetings from Indonesia"