To maintain new friendship is somewhat a beautiful art of life these days but remember this could be create a failure to tight up the friendship become lasting forever more. The more friends we get the more people we can make and support our social life network to be growing higher and higher. A circle of friendship can be accepted as a way for all people to go through. A friend is unforgettable experience and wonderful life heritage that people cannot loose.
I will be more grateful to have a friend rather than having any enemy. We do not need any enemy but we are not afraid of facing the enemy. For this time, I would rather talk about the friendship rather than discussing further more about the enemy. To be a good friend of somebody, you will need to change your way of life more friendly to people around you. Extrovert and friendly way of life is absolutely suppport factor that is strongly affected to find a new friend.
To find new friends may be considered as very difficult hard thing to find out. For some reasons, you need to clarify yourself open to the world why you need friendship because of the friendship need trust at the first time you introduce yourself to somebody. Some social network experts confirm for us when finding new friendship that is emitionaly involved with them, you should be getting yourself being "accepted" by somebody, breaking down the culture obstacles which often stopping you to be closer with anyone else.
If you could break down those problems , you could walk away through smoothly to establish the meaningful of friendship. There are lots of friendhsip finding methods these days and perhaps you have your own way of finding a friend for friendship. One of very popular and well-know method that I talked about here is trying to create a good situation where someone could feel be happy and comfortable with your behavior and attitudes Don't let your new friend feeling bored talking with you. You must concern about your norms for this, your attitude, your behavior. Don't create a boring topic that could make your new friend feeling that way and could possible become a disaster for you to build a friendship
You can use the method of "FORM" for finding a friendship. A simple technique for you to comply with. What are they?
- Family
When you are asking for someone about her or his family situation , you had made a giant step to make yourslef get closer to them. You alredy create an intimacy friendhsip of someone with this family as topic. You get personal and touching personal approach for this stage. People would love to tell you about their family members, their children, their homes, their beautiful garden and many things. If you are happy of listening to your new friend about their family talking, I am sure of your friendship will be put on their considerations
- Occupation
People would also love talking about their home, work and positions. They are proud of telling those things. By asking for their home in general, you are proved capable of building new personal approach for getting a friendship
- Recreation
Try to talk about comfortable topics to start a new conversation with a new friend. You may talk about their hobbies, sport , fave food or any wonderful things of a friend rather than informing them about you. If you can come acrross a fave topic of your new friend, please try to tell everything about it
- Message
Some people would love to memorize "notes" at the end of their conversation. The most important thing for you is delivering a "memorable memory" for a friend from you to have, The "message" could be in the form of your name card , occupations, your office or your honest opinions about your new friend can be a strong factor for a good friendshil building.
One important thing that you should not forget after all is saying "thank you" at the end of the conversation or chat with your new friend. Make your mind open wide if you really care of building a new friendship with someone. Try to do with heart and soul with your honestly. Remember friendship needs give and take actions in everyway whatsoever. Don't hurt thei
